why are black women so mean to me

Since: Jun 12

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#236 May 20, 2013
That's good advice.

Since: Jun 12

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#237 May 20, 2013
Oh yeah, have a wonderful day!
hello

Northampton, UK

#238 Jun 20, 2013
RayofSunshine wrote:
Lol,it's funny how other races think that we want to be another race. True enough some do, but the majority of us don't. We know that without the black race there wouldn't be an America we helped to build this country. I'm a light skin BLACK girl, very happy with my self I don't have to worry about tanning my skin, filling my lips with poison worrying about if my boyfriend hates how big my ass is and crying about how flat and stringy my hair is. Black is beautiful, and if you met an angry sister, she was probably angry before she ran into you.
angry sister? i have no sisters! sister of who?

Since: Apr 13

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#239 Dec 2, 2013
i get that alot too at work idk why i like everyone and im dating a black man hes a sweet heart
Erin

United States

#240 Jan 12, 2014
I work in the service industry as a waitress, and the area where I serve is predominantly whites and blacks. Generally I'll have amazing customers that are sweet and happy, but at least once every shift I'll come across the rudest people. 9 times out of ten it's a woman, and 9 times out of that, she's black. I don't know why this is. I've never been rude to a customer not once. I'm generally a sweet person, and I try my best to get along with everyone. It's always been something I've observed as a server. Typically they'll find anything to complain about, roll their eyes at me, and like a woman today, call me "stupid" while asking a question about their meal. I had to get a manager to take care of the table because they were that mean. I smiled and said "have a great day" when I saw them leaving, and she told me to wipe that "smirk" off my face. I know I can't base every black woman off my experiences off a couple of mean customers, but it makes me wonder why a lot of them treat me and a lot of others poorly.

Since: Apr 13

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#241 Jan 12, 2014
i get that alot too they either stare at me with mean dirty looks when they dont even know me
Curse

Charlotte, NC

#243 Feb 5, 2014
Bribarian wrote:
Black people are generally pissed off all the time.
Bro you need to wake up cause your full of sheet you just made because your a sad homo born in a box you say "Black people are generally pissed off all the time" why the fook are u here
Curse

Charlotte, NC

#245 Feb 5, 2014
Geraldo wrote:
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Because you're more attractive than 95% of them. Most have more damn body hair than a man.
your gay
Jill

Philadelphia, PA

#246 Feb 10, 2014
Not all black women are mean. Some are very nice and have a good sense of humor. They make me laugh. However, it's sad that I've seen so very many that are loud, cold, mean, and ignorant toward others, especially other women. Yes, other races of women can be this way too but it seems more often it is black women. Maybe they're so angry because it's hard for them to find a good man. The ones they have just seem to use them and cheat on them. I think they have sex with guys much too soon. Not just blacks, but other women do also. And most men will not get serious about a woman who sleeps with him too soon. Then many of them have kids and raise them the same way which is sad. They will let some loser live with them because they have low self-esteem and don't think they're good enough for the guy to marry them. And this gives a terrible example for their kids to follow. The only time a man falls in love with a woman who gives herself too soon are usually in books and movies, not in real life. Women of all races need to wake up. What's sad is I don't think they ever will.
kriz

Houston, TX

#247 Feb 24, 2014
roxy wrote:
Black women r not mean we are just misunderstood. I am black and was raised overseas. I also went to private school were I was the only black girl. You have no idea some of the stuff we go through just because of our skin. So next time you judge a black women, think of everything she been through. I takes a lot to be a black girl!
that's no excuse everyone has gone through something. I'm a black guy, but it doesn't warrant a rude attitude when approached by someone who is being friendly, this is a contributing factor to why a majority of us black men are looking outside their race because black women have put themselves in a pedestal in which they can't be approached.

Since: Nov 13

Huntsville, Canada

#248 Feb 24, 2014
latinbettie wrote:
<quoted text> well at school, malls everywhere, could it be because my boyfriend is black? his sisters, mom, aunts,cousins, friends, people on the street, it happens mostly when im with him
lmao there nice too me lol i dont know lol cant be all black girls there buddy
Heart

Birmingham, AL

#249 Apr 18, 2014
I am so sorry that happened to you. I am a black girl. I have experienced hatred from black and white girls. I am a very nice person. So I never understood why they treated me that way. You would think that some people would appreciate a nice person to be around. When I was in high school, I had good friends. The people who weren't ( not all of them) were mean, rude, and insulting to me. Another thing, the white girls would want to befriend the black, loudest, ghetto girls in school and didn't want to with me, which was okay. You are free to be friends with whoever you want to. I have had to take a stand to let them know even though I am nice I will not be bullied or taken advantage of no matter how ghetto and mean they or their friends are. Then, the white girls weren't even ghetto. I guess they were scared of them. One time, I befriended a white guy who was a new student and a few days later she turned on me and and let a girl move my books from the desk I had sitting next to her. I told the girl she could have asked and I would have let her sit there and they both laughed. This girl had no one to talk to on her first day and I was nothing but nice to her when no one would even speak to her. Even the girl who moved my books pretended like this girl didn't even exists. The black girls would roll their eyes at me and say things about me where I could hear them. Oh yeah, and they didn't like it when I talk to them back to let them know I wasn't putting up with something I didn't start. I am nice to everyone. I have met some nice black girls and mean ones. Some nice white girls and mean ones. Not all black and white girls are mean. It's just the ones who were mean to you. Don't let them set up hatred in your heart against other blacks. I almost started to have nothing to do with white girls one time because so many of them was treacherous towards me. But, I can't. It is not the color that hurts you, it's the person. Be blessed! Not stressed! Don't worry about the ones who don't you because you are loved. <3
Heart

Birmingham, AL

#250 Apr 18, 2014
Don't worry about the ones who don't like you because you are loved. <3I
Heart

Birmingham, AL

#251 Apr 18, 2014
I meant I befriended a white girl.
michele

Houston, TX

#252 Apr 18, 2014
blueeyedkat wrote:
i get that alot too they either stare at me with mean dirty looks when they dont even know me
Maybe if you stop sniffing around our men & sucking their dicks for dear life to get them. & find you a pink demon male, like you are supposed to have. You wouldn't get dirty looks dumb bitch.

Since: Apr 13

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#254 Apr 19, 2014
michele wrote:
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Maybe if you stop sniffing around our men & sucking their dicks for dear life to get them. & find you a pink demon male, like you are supposed to have. You wouldn't get dirty looks dumb bitch.
omg the jealousy again wow thats one hateful bitterness comment and no i cant help it that i like black men whats so wrong about that maybe you weave is too tight are you mad that black men like real hair and not cheap fake hair smh stop so bitter and grow up
wonderful black girl

Memphis, TN

#255 Apr 22, 2014
um not black girls are mean but some of us are
wonderful black girl

Memphis, TN

#256 Apr 22, 2014
nothing wrong with it i love white boys and love me tooo i love all kinds of boys
wonderful black girl

Memphis, TN

#257 Apr 22, 2014
i am a black girl who loves white boys there sweet sometimes and funny so i really does ,matter what race im with and who cares if white girls are with black guys so let them be if there in love theres nothing u can do bout it love its all races
wonderful black girl

Memphis, TN

#258 Apr 22, 2014
im mean i a black girl but i get tried of black guys so i want white boys i mean there kool but sometimes i need a break from them and change to other races of boys

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