people who did not go to their prom
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John Bronson

Ballwin, MO

#65 Apr 20, 2013
sandro420 wrote:
Do you have any advise on a guy like me who didn't go to his prom???
Yes forget about what you did or didn't do as a kid, decide what you want to do as an adult, and go do it. Lot's of people never went to prom. There are a million other things mote important.
davanmani

Atlanta, GA

#66 Dec 11, 2013
Lets put it this way. If getting a girl is like trying to study then don't push it. I respect your honesty. Don't worry about having self-esteem and respecting and all that. You don't have to do nothing.
moises

Mountain View, CA

#67 Mar 28, 2014
I play pro basketball and i never went to prom but really who has had a experience of playing basketball and traveling not allot of people who went to prom. So try to do something with ur life instead of reminiscing On what couldve been.
IDONTGIVEAFUCK

Miami, FL

#68 May 7, 2014
sandro420 wrote:
I didn't go to my senior prom and this has bothered me ever since.I could not get a date. I feel like a loser and feel like nobody cares about me. I got so depressed that I had to drop out of college and now see a physciatrist and on antidepressents. I am in a severe depression. Is there anybody on this board who did not go to their prom??? And I got a question for women...Women if you were dating a guy and you asked him if he went to his prom and he told you he didn't go because he told you he was the ugly duckling and could not get a date would you think lowly of him??? Would you look down on him??? Do you have any advise on a guy like me who didn't go to his prom???
UGLY DUCKLING XD
GoodTime69

Miami, FL

#69 May 7, 2014
I got my vagina pounded that night
Zhiguli

Belgrade, Serbia

#70 May 7, 2014
sandro420 wrote:
I didn't go to my senior prom and this has bothered me ever since.I could not get a date. I feel like a loser and feel like nobody cares about me. I got so depressed that I had to drop out of college and now see a physciatrist and on antidepressents. I am in a severe depression. Is there anybody on this board who did not go to their prom??? And I got a question for women...Women if you were dating a guy and you asked him if he went to his prom and he told you he didn't go because he told you he was the ugly duckling and could not get a date would you think lowly of him??? Would you look down on him??? Do you have any advise on a guy like me who didn't go to his prom???
Lol why do you bother so much? I went to prom with a girl and after the prom night was over we all just went each to their own home. Don't sweat too much about it. It's not the end of the world and who cares about women. You just get disappointed and ahve your heart broken in the end. Who says you need a girl for the prom anyway? You could go solo and have a good time with your buddies there.

Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#71 May 7, 2014
I never went to my high school senior prom, it's my own fault though. I've made no secret of the fact around school that I thought it was overpriced, I mean the cost of going to it getting a new dress and all that, and I really didn't plan to go. But then as the date approached I changed my mind, and I really wanted to go! But as I said I'd waited too long, I asked 3 guys and they already had dates. And so I was my own victim, ended up nobody asked me and so I sat at home that night feeling sorry for myself. HOWEVER-I think you're taking it far too seriously, I mean to be so bummed out by an event in HS that you dropped out of college and are seeing a therapist and taking drugs? I'm sorry, I just don't relate to that. Playing therapist myself a bit here, are you perhaps using that as an excuse for some deeper emotional problem? My best wishes to you to get beyond it, to leave it in the rearview mirror and move forward with your life. Maybe you can never "get over it" but you can certainly get past it!
Truth speaker

Miramichi, Canada

#72 Jun 14, 2014
Sarcasm wrote:
Okay, just read the initial post. I wouldn't think low of someone who didn't go to the prom because he didn't get a date. Though I wouldn't stick around someone with such low self esteem. It's one night in your life. Get over it. If you are that depressed because of one night in your life then you seriously need to get some help. Find a therapist and figure out what the real source of your depression is.
Wow your rude screw off
Truthfully Yours

Waltham, MA

#73 Dec 3, 2015
I'm sorry to say this but I'm from the old school and I think that if you go to the prom solo/ stag then your just a dork, your better off staying home then going to the prom without a date. And what's up with people not going to the prom claiming it's "overpriced "? STOP being a cheap jewbag and go....the prom is a once in a lifetime thing ...pay the tab! And yes I do believe in going to second chance/adult prom to make up for what you missed out on in high school but don't hire an escort as your date (that's the losers way out)...Earn your date by bringing someone you know (girlfriend, friend, work colleague, etc) you will feel better about yourself by doing so.
shiru

Kampala, Uganda

#74 Sep 21, 2016
Not that i could not have a date, All my friends expected me to be there, but i disappointed them and myself. After dat one night I skipped classes for sometime, when I couldn't figure out how to approach my buddies. Yet I was expected to represent the Arts class it really hurt me. Though gone are the days. HOW I WISH. I ATTENDED.
Pops5823

New York, NY

#75 Sep 21, 2016
anyone want to have some fun with me on k ik(im already naked)..add me on meghanmolly3
Saphira Banes

Pomona, CA

#76 Jan 10, 2017
sandro420 wrote:
I didn't go to my senior prom and this has bothered me ever since.I could not get a date. I feel like a loser and feel like nobody cares about me. I got so depressed that I had to drop out of college and now see a physciatrist and on antidepressents. I am in a severe depression. Is there anybody on this board who did not go to their prom??? And I got a question for women...Women if you were dating a guy and you asked him if he went to his prom and he told you he didn't go because he told you he was the ugly duckling and could not get a date would you think lowly of him??? Would you look down on him??? Do you have any advise on a guy like me who didn't go to his prom???
I'm a woman and i never got asked out to my prom back in 2015. All of my girlfriends got asked out and i never did. See i have really low self esteem and that was just the kick in the butt for me. Durring prom night while everyone is dressed up all pretty and are dancing with their dates/friends. I'm at home crying myself to sleep because i thought that i was simply too ugly to be asked out and the proof was when nobody, not even any of my guy friends asked me out.
Sandro420

Waltham, MA

#83 May 5, 2017
Doki Doki wrote:
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Okay, if it's that big of a deal, here's what you do. Google "second chance prom" or "adult prom". There's probably one coming up in your area in the spring - they typically advertise up to 6 months in advance. If you can't get a date, hire an escort. If you can't find one in your area, but you can afford to travel to one, go ahead. Have some pictures taken of you and your "date" in your formal attire, and nobody will ever have to know you didn't go to prom (because technically you will have if you do all this, just not a high school prom).

I was homeschooled in a time before homeschool proms existed. So I didn't get one. I later went to one at my college, and chaperoned another that a high school also held there before graduating. I also went to an "adult prom" with a girlfriend who missed hers. Problem solved.
This is probably the best advice given to me on here.
Sandro420

Waltham, MA

#84 May 7, 2017
Jenji wrote:
I never went to my high school senior prom, it's my own fault though. I've made no secret of the fact around school that I thought it was overpriced, I mean the cost of going to it getting a new dress and all that, and I really didn't plan to go. But then as the date approached I changed my mind, and I really wanted to go! But as I said I'd waited too long, I asked 3 guys and they already had dates. And so I was my own victim, ended up nobody asked me and so I sat at home that night feeling sorry for myself. HOWEVER-I think you're taking it far too seriously, I mean to be so bummed out by an event in HS that you dropped out of college and are seeing a therapist and taking drugs? I'm sorry, I just don't relate to that. Playing therapist myself a bit here, are you perhaps using that as an excuse for some deeper emotional problem? My best wishes to you to get beyond it, to leave it in the rearview mirror and move forward with your life. Maybe you can never "get over it" but you can certainly get past it!
Well I tell you straight for you to sit there and say The Prom was over priced that's why you did not go....I am sorry but I don't relate to that either. That to me is a lame excuse. The Prom is a once and a lifetime thing...Stop being a cheap jewbag and pay the tab! Why miss out on a once in a lifetime thing that you can never get back again???
Sandro420

Waltham, MA

#85 May 7, 2017
Saphira Banes wrote:
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I'm a woman and i never got asked out to my prom back in 2015. All of my girlfriends got asked out and i never did. See i have really low self esteem and that was just the kick in the butt for me. Durring prom night while everyone is dressed up all pretty and are dancing with their dates/friends. I'm at home crying myself to sleep because i thought that i was simply too ugly to be asked out and the proof was when nobody, not even any of my guy friends asked me out.
Saphira I didn't go to the same exact thing happened to me in 1999. If you ever wanted to make up for it I would love to take you as a date to an Adult Prom.

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