Most white women that I have met will not date an asian. However in San Francisco to San Jose's bay area, that statement is the opposite, but the rest of california's white women are racist and they pass that racism onto their husbands, sons, and any other male family member. Also white women hate the fact that asians age less than whites, are skinnier, have less hair, and are education oriented (which most white women are not). I will bet you that your dad is all for having a viet girlfriend, but your mother hates it and is pushing those ideologies onto your father, same goes for uncles and aunts, etc. White women hate asian women. What if your sister brought home an asian guy? Would the hatred fuel from the female or male?