I'm very serious. Why do I need help? I said I hoped you found a way to work things out where you were happy. Is that the wrong thing to hope for? I never suggested it always works out, and it's not always because of thee military situation at all, sometimes it just wasnt' meant to be. But this was a topic suggesting the military has some part in the decussion so I gave an example of a situation with one party in the military and one not being in the military.Are you serious lady i think you need help.
Perhaps she has a problem with you because you don't communicate very well. Someone gives you their view and hopes you the best and you come back with a post like this.
And you're right.....you're child will probably be the one to suffer, the kids usually are in a divorce situation. Hopefully you both can come together to do what's right and best for your daughter and leave your bad feelings about each other out of it. Now it's just about your child. I don't think I'm the one that needs help.