Why Do Military Wives Always Cheat?

Created by Sgt on Jun 13, 2008

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Tim

Apo, AE

#179 Jan 18, 2010
Are you serious lady i think you need help.
Tim

Apo, AE

#180 Jan 18, 2010
Dear Kat I have tried that aproach really I did and then we broke out in an arguement I then asked her if she liked her life better before I left or now and she says that she liked it better now. I mean seriously I did just about everthing for her and for what I can never see us getting back together. But now my little girl is going to suffer.
Kat

Coffeyville, KS

#181 Jan 18, 2010
Tim wrote:
Are you serious lady i think you need help.
I'm very serious. Why do I need help? I said I hoped you found a way to work things out where you were happy. Is that the wrong thing to hope for? I never suggested it always works out, and it's not always because of thee military situation at all, sometimes it just wasnt' meant to be. But this was a topic suggesting the military has some part in the decussion so I gave an example of a situation with one party in the military and one not being in the military.
Perhaps she has a problem with you because you don't communicate very well. Someone gives you their view and hopes you the best and you come back with a post like this.
And you're right.....you're child will probably be the one to suffer, the kids usually are in a divorce situation. Hopefully you both can come together to do what's right and best for your daughter and leave your bad feelings about each other out of it. Now it's just about your child. I don't think I'm the one that needs help.
Military Mom Nat

Key West, FL

#182 Feb 4, 2010
My son is in the Army and while in afghanistan his
wife cheated on him move'd off base and drained his
bank acct.He is home for two weeks for R&R only to
find he has no money.His dad and i told him to take
her off the acct. or get a new one of his own.My son said he can't take her off thing's work differently in the military.Is this true and what
can he do he goes back in two week's and we want to do what we need to make sure this doesn't happen again.If anyone know's i would be so greatful for any advice.

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#183 Feb 4, 2010
Military Mom Nat wrote:
My son is in the Army and while in afghanistan his
wife cheated on him move'd off base and drained his
bank acct.He is home for two weeks for R&R only to
find he has no money.His dad and i told him to take
her off the acct. or get a new one of his own.My son said he can't take her off thing's work differently in the military.Is this true and what
can he do he goes back in two week's and we want to do what we need to make sure this doesn't happen again.If anyone know's i would be so greatful for any advice.
Have him go to JAG or his Chaplain. I am sure they will be able to fill him in on what options he has and what financial obligations he has to her. All depends on if they have children, how long they have been married, who she cheated on him with (if another military person) that can get the other person in trouble but not her unfortunately.
Thank your son for his service to country as well.
Military Mom Nat

Key West, FL

#184 Feb 8, 2010
Thank you so much this is the only help i have
gotten and i have bee on this for week's.So thank
you so much.
Military Mom Nat

Key West, FL

#185 Feb 8, 2010
Dear Beaware,
Thank you for the advice.I now only have to
find a way to get my son to listen.A million
times thank you.

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Since: Apr 08

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#186 Feb 8, 2010
Military Mom Nat wrote:
Dear Beaware,
Thank you for the advice.I now only have to
find a way to get my son to listen.A million
times thank you.
You're welcome!

I really do hope he listens as there are different options he can take. He certainly doesn't need the added stress once he returns to theater. I am a Military wife and have worked with some in a similar circumstance.
Best of luck to him and especially that he comes home safely.:)
Snakecharmer

Longwood, FL

#187 Feb 8, 2010
Not all military spouses cheat; my mom never did and my active duty daughter (and soldier's wife) doesn't either, but too many do. I don't know if it's lonliness, immaturity or just plain old "I only married him so I can buy tax free booze on post", but maybe the military needs to bring back that program where you had to get your CO's permission to get married - my dad still has the official letter granting him permission (they're coming up on the big 5-0 this May!) As Mom used to say, "If the Air Force wanted him to have a wife and family, we'd have been issued by the quartermaster!" Of course, when you're born into khaki diapers, you grow up thinking you *are* "government issued".
Huh

Portsmouth, VA

#188 Feb 8, 2010
Maybe because they are sluts and have no moral fibre.
Army Wife

Royse City, TX

#189 Apr 20, 2010
chevelle_ss wrote:
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well to be fair the only thing you could cheat with in iraq are camels, also is oral cheating? or maybe i should take a poll to see what people consider cheating is.
Both men and women get deployed....I know several people, both men and women, who cheated while over seas with other soldiers of the opposite sex. However, not every one cheats. My husband and I have been through 2 deployments and neither of us have ever been guilty of cheating.

Since: May 08

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#190 Apr 20, 2010
Army Wife wrote:
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Both men and women get deployed....I know several people, both men and women, who cheated while over seas with other soldiers of the opposite sex. However, not every one cheats. My husband and I have been through 2 deployments and neither of us have ever been guilty of cheating.
yes I was trying to make it sound funny. My bad. Women were for the most part as close to the front's as they are today. also besides the w.a.v.e's & the nurses there was not as many females,
thank you & your husband for your service
Serious Black

United States

#191 Apr 21, 2010
The bitches cheat because they are hoes when the G.I's meet them! stupid ass G.I.'s marry women out of stripper clubs! They meet them one week and marry them the next! a hoe by any other name is still a dam hoe! Their twats get hot and then they go to the club looking for men and women both! Not all of the wives do but a great many of them do this! hoes! hopeing their spouses get turned to red mist so they can get paid!
Caffeinated

Lake Zurich, IL

#192 Apr 21, 2010
I'd love to meet the guy who has hooked up with all of these "cheating" military wives. LOL!!

He must be exhausted!!
MarineWife

Sanford, NC

#194 May 25, 2010
Reality wrote:
military wives are easy. that is why they are military wives. they make me sick and have no sense of loyalty. there is nothing wrong with a woman having sex but do not make a committed promise and go back on ur word. and people wonder why some guys kill their wives. go figure.
Okay, I am a happily married marine wife. My husband has been to Iraq, and I didn't even think about cheating on him. I hate it that there are women who cheat on their husbands as soon as they deploy, but they are the EXCEPTION, not the rule. I also hate it that because I am a military wife, people apply that stereotype to me. So shame on all of you who automatically assume that military wives cheat on their husbands. You are ignorant and insensitive and have no place judging me, or even the women who do cheat. You have NO idea what it is like being here at home while your husband is in a war-zone. It can mess someone up JUST as much as being deployed. So walk a mile in my shoes, my husbands, or even the cheating wives shoes and THEN come talk to me!
SGTMajors wife

North Myrtle Beach, SC

#195 Jun 8, 2010
I hate this kind of question. It is an insult to most of the wives I knew. MARRIED AT 19--My husband was in 3 fighting wars. As he got promoted up the ranks I had the honor oh looking after the wives that stayed in the area. I did the calls-helped with ones with no mail--no money. He was promoted to SgtMajor thats why I had to look after the families. In our outfit--there was no crying at the ships no leaving with other marines. In all those years --I had a handful that did this kind of stuff. We were PROUD wives!!! ones that did were very young-had no support from families or friends. time was from 1948 to 1969. A VERY different world.
icursealot

Wahiawa, HI

#196 Jun 30, 2010
Not every wife or hubby is a cheater. I feel that people these days lack the inner strength that us older spouses have. It doesnt matter if your an E1 or an O6. Dont care if your a wife or a husband.. cheating is still cheating. Hell, why dont we go a bit further and mention "dont ask dont tell" relationships.. Cheating is still cheating there too.
What happened to your vows? Did you think they were merely a suggestion? If you dont plan on staying with that person - dont get married to them! How it really works? You trap him with a kid and make him marry you before deployments etc... if only for the medical. Then you realize the UCMJ cant touch you ... so you have all the power. What you want when you want it . before he comes home... move back to your hometown or stay there b/c he cant evict you out of your married house... even if you ARE preggers w/o another's baby. Your hubby is footing the bill for his wife, prego or not. Then she does the boyfriend visits while her huby is there- she waits for the fight and has her hubby removed from the property and he is in jail then looking for other housing while he pays his BAH for Mrs. Whore wife. Not to mention his entire paycheck. Then he has to come up with the money to send her back.... just to get her out of his wallet... and still gets the honor of child support most likely ( b/c of boyfriends altercation) no visitation due to his agressive behavior.
B-A-R

Huntington Park, CA

#197 Jul 2, 2010
you are an idiot iraqis are disgusting people plus the men cut off the clitoris so ya no thanks
watingtostrike

Longview, TX

#201 Aug 1, 2010
my wife has been cheating on me while she has been deployed and i have proof and she has been realy whoreing it up but thats ok i am going to put and end to it and her when she gets home sooner or later she is going to come home from iraq and then she will pay
Captain O

Schwerin, Germany

#202 Aug 1, 2010
Military wives always cheat because they have a pathological sex drive. Usually they start out as base bunnies such as the poster Beaware and when they get old they try to trick a soldier into marrying them in order to collect all the benefits of a veteran when he dies.

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