What would be the appeal of residing in Hapeville?

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“Meant Vistor not Visitor ”

Since: Jun 14

Atlanta, GA

#1 Jun 8, 2014
What would be the appeal of residing in Hapeville? The man is handsome, physically fit, single 30-something and very guarded. He works for Fulton County as a public servant. He is not a police officer or detective. His position is instrumental in "saving lives". He does not travel with any frequency that would require easy accessibility to the Airport. His position is in the Lenox Mall area. I am not really familiar with Atlanta...only the Buckhead area when I travel to your city.

I have visited Hapeville a few times. It seems depressing. Is Hapeville a good place for someone to "hide"? The man rents an apartment in Hapeville. Perhaps he is in debt. He does pay child support. He works a lot of OT. He will not let me pay for a meal although he knows I am well-off. It is a Southern thing? He is from Montgomery/Birmingham. Very Southern sounds like a white Southern male sometimes. He is intriguing sometimes. It is evident he wants to be close and intimate on an emotional level with a woman but is afraid of "betrayal" or being vulnerable. And we have not had sex. He has been a gentleman. The sexual attraction is extremely strong. He described himself as a "serial monogamist" then laughed.

My intuition tells me he is dangerous. Dangerous in the sense more to himself than a woman. The woman would just be "collateral damage" in his estimation. Occasionally he is arrogant which does not bother me. It is clear it is a defense mechanism. He has a large intimidating presence among most men yet when I look in his eyes or remember our conversations I see a wounded man-child who needs love and attention. I have never felt like this with any man. Most of my life I have been selfish and self-absorbed. I don't need a man for sustaining my quality of life. At times he has problems expressing his feelings. I'm tempted to finish his sentences I bit my lip to avoid possibly hurting his feelings. I sense he is hiding something. He has never been married and points to women in his past for his transgressions. I know I should run yet he is like the male-version of a predictable crazy train wreck Lifetime movie.

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