Male Rape in Prison
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Since: Mar 11

Lexington, KY

#1 Mar 22, 2011
My cousin, 20 yrs old is spending more than a year in prison for some petty crime. He's gay and very introverted. I kept on convincing him that he'll be alright and that nothing will happen to him for as long as he keeps his distance from other inmates. And i read from the internet regarding this male rape on prison. How can he avoid this happening to him and is it really true? I assume the media is just giving hype to this. Please help. What's the best thing to do to avoid sexual assault behind bars and can we request my cousin to be sent in a completely separate one-cell prison? Appreciate your response.

hick-up

“squuuze me”

Since: Feb 09

Florida, USA

#2 Mar 22, 2011
Kind of late to worry about that now, don't ya think?

Why should the taxpayer bear the burden of providing an apartment style life to criminals? What seemed "petty" at the time, ain't so petty anymore, huh.

And ...prison is for men that don't like women; so whats the problem? Maybe he'll find true love.

No sympathy here ...
Provocateur

San Francisco, CA

#3 Mar 23, 2011
I'm betting your search for answers or compassion will only bring more vile comments.

Since: Mar 11

Lexington, KY

#4 Mar 23, 2011
you guys are so mean. yes, my cousin committed a crime but he does not deserve, no one, in any given situation, to be raped. that's just not right.

hick-up

“squuuze me”

Since: Feb 09

Florida, USA

#5 Mar 23, 2011
The Virgin wrote:
you guys are so mean. yes, my cousin committed a crime but he does not deserve, no one, in any given situation, to be raped. that's just not right.
I agree with you ...it is not right.

And I don't know if it really goes on or not. But for 50 yrs I've heard that it does ...and that gave me cause to re-think any idea I ever had of breaking any laws that might put me in that situation ...and I'm sure I'm not the only one deterred by that possibility.

I screw up, I take my medicine, and I move on ...we all do. Your cuz has to also.

“Stay thirsty my friends.....”

Since: Aug 10

Location hidden

#6 Mar 23, 2011
Gays are usually put in "PC" protective custody. If it's a year it's probably just county. With good behavior he'll probably be out in six months.(or less) He should be ok.

Since: Mar 11

Lexington, KY

#7 Mar 23, 2011
thank you. hopefully, nothing bad will happen to him there. he's actually so scared right now with that thinking. he thinks that the moment he goes in everybody's gonna jump at his back, i always tell him that is not gonna happen.

“Stay thirsty my friends.....”

Since: Aug 10

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#9 Mar 23, 2011
Hopefully his fear will keep him from committing any more crimes. Remember, jail/prison is supposed to be a deterrant.
Frank Zappa

Baldwin City, KS

#10 Mar 23, 2011
Ram it, ram it, ram it up your poop shoot.
Sven

Pittsburgh, PA

#11 Mar 24, 2011
I was in prison for selling Ecstasy a few years ago. White men don't do well in prison. You will either be ass-raped by black racists, or you will become the girlfriend of a skinhead who can protect you. I chose to become a Hammerskin Nation member's girlfriend.

We were cellies and I would have to sleep on the bottom bunk with him. I had to fellate him and let him screw me like a woman: I laid on my back missionary position and lifted my genitals up so he could enter me. I had to refer to my anus as a 'pussy' and keep it clean at all times. If I even farted he would get mad.

Anyway, that was better than getting gang raped by the other inmates. It's a race war of rape in there.

“Stay thirsty my friends.....”

Since: Aug 10

Location hidden

#12 Mar 24, 2011
Sven wrote:
I was in prison for selling Ecstasy a few years ago. White men don't do well in prison. You will either be ass-raped by black racists, or you will become the girlfriend of a skinhead who can protect you. I chose to become a Hammerskin Nation member's girlfriend.
We were cellies and I would have to sleep on the bottom bunk with him. I had to fellate him and let him screw me like a woman: I laid on my back missionary position and lifted my genitals up so he could enter me. I had to refer to my anus as a 'pussy' and keep it clean at all times. If I even farted he would get mad.
Anyway, that was better than getting gang raped by the other inmates. It's a race war of rape in there.
Holy cr*p are you making this up?

“Arise, Chicken! Arise!!”

Since: Mar 11

Darkest Jungle in the Congo

#13 Mar 24, 2011
Mega Ultra Chicken? Shhhhhh...He is Legend.
Sven

Pittsburgh, PA

#14 Mar 24, 2011
the pompitous of love wrote:
<quoted text>Holy cr*p are you making this up?
No, I did what I had to survive.

There are a lot of gay men in prison, especially among the white skinhead and redneck population. You can take advantage of that and buy protection through sexual favors.

Since: Mar 11

Lexington, KY

#17 Mar 24, 2011
why do they always have to do this sexual stuff in prison? can't they just masturbate? i mean, raping someone or forcing someone to do sexual acts againsts their will is totally not right. Can my cousin reason this out in court so that he can get into isolation?

“Stay thirsty my friends.....”

Since: Aug 10

Location hidden

#18 Mar 25, 2011
The Virgin wrote:
why do they always have to do this sexual stuff in prison? can't they just masturbate? i mean, raping someone or forcing someone to do sexual acts againsts their will is totally not right. Can my cousin reason this out in court so that he can get into isolation?
I think County and State are different ball games...(pardon the pun). Which is he in for?
Did My Time

Baldwin City, KS

#19 Mar 25, 2011
Tell your cousin that he really has two options:

Act a fool.(Assault a guard, cook or anyone in front of a guard or camera and get put in isolation.)

Or play the crying game.

Don't make no difference to me wtf he does, but after my first rape I figured out that hitting a guard adds 3 months to my sentence...but that's three months in isolation without someone raping me.
Rev_Lucifer

Pittsburgh, PA

#20 Mar 26, 2011
Whether he is in county or state pen, he can get protective custody, but he will be in with snitches and people that hurt children. There is the chance that he will get lumped in with them.

Threatening suicide is an option, but I heard that they take everything away from you and stick you in a room by yourself. That's better than getting raped and possibly infected with HIV from some psycho.

“Stay thirsty my friends.....”

Since: Aug 10

Location hidden

#21 Mar 27, 2011
Sven wrote:
<quoted text>
No, I did what I had to survive.
There are a lot of gay men in prison, especially among the white skinhead and redneck population. You can take advantage of that and buy protection through sexual favors.
Only as a last resort my friend. They would have to knock all of my teeth out first...
Provocateur

San Francisco, CA

#23 Mar 28, 2011
Don't add any more time to your sentence. I seem to remember one county isolation was a plexiglas cell surrounded by guards. I became a trustee got out on weekends then the only people I had to worry about were the guards.

Since: Mar 11

Talisay, Philippines

#24 Mar 28, 2011
but the probability or the instance of new inmates attacked or sexually abused by other prisoners should be very low right? i expect probably one or two cases on a whole state prison. my cousin by the way is asian so that shouldn't be a problem right since most victims tend to be white. right? i assume that all these prison rape thing is just hyped and exagerated by the media.

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