getting wife to try anal
doesshewantit

San Diego, CA

#1 Jun 13, 2011
Alright, here's the story in brief: im married. my wife and i sometimes like to mess with each other in our sleep. anyway, the last time, i woke up to my wife using my hand to finger her and she put one of my fingers in her ass. i'd never really put very much thought into anal before, but she really seemed to be turned on (so was i!). after she orgasmed i let her know i had been awake and said something like "that was fun", and we went on to have some really great sex. in the shower afterward, she mentioned off-hand that she had always wanted to know what anal was like 'at least once' and that 'some day during the length of our life-long marriage, we should try it'...
i've been thinking more and more about it since then (obviously) and during intercourse since then i've experimented with rubbing/touching in those areas but she always shifts away. how can i turn her on in that specific way which will lead her to thinking about wanting to try anal?- or at least more interested in playing in that area, to see where it might lead.
Lucy

San Jose, CA

#2 Jun 13, 2011
doesshewantit wrote:
Alright, here's the story in brief: im married. my wife and i sometimes like to mess with each other in our sleep. anyway, the last time, i woke up to my wife using my hand to finger her and she put one of my fingers in her ass. i'd never really put very much thought into anal before, but she really seemed to be turned on (so was i!). after she orgasmed i let her know i had been awake and said something like "that was fun", and we went on to have some really great sex. in the shower afterward, she mentioned off-hand that she had always wanted to know what anal was like 'at least once' and that 'some day during the length of our life-long marriage, we should try it'...
i've been thinking more and more about it since then (obviously) and during intercourse since then i've experimented with rubbing/touching in those areas but she always shifts away. how can i turn her on in that specific way which will lead her to thinking about wanting to try anal?- or at least more interested in playing in that area, to see where it might lead.
sit behind her and get her drunk in the hot tub, slip it up.

“Winchester Model 1894”

Since: Apr 07

Roy, Washington

#3 Jun 13, 2011
Get a medical dictionary and look up E-COLI>
Sancheze

United States

#4 Jun 14, 2011
MPMARTIN wrote:
Get a medical dictionary and look up E-COLI>
You mean look up AID's! ha! ha! you white people are sick and freaky!

“we all have a purpose”

Since: Jun 11

California

#5 Jun 14, 2011
Do you talk dirty to your wife?
If so, why not let her know via talking dirty. You can tell her something like, honey (or whatever nickname you have for her)'you have no clue how good it feels to be inside of you're then you can tell her that you can only imagine how pleasurable it would be to make her behind yours. If, talking dirty isn't your thing. Start. You have to let her know what you want. Even if It's by writting it down in a note LOL or you can get her a bit tipsy. When she's a bit tipsy whisper to her how you crave going down on her. Do it. Finger her(why) because this will soften and moist your finger/s. It's way more pleasurable have a soft, wet, and warm finger inserted back there. Than a dry one. Have some baby oil handy. Once she's comfy with one of your fingers, have her finger and lubricate her own anus. When she's able to finger herself with 2 fingers. She's ready to go. Make sure to take your time, your nails aren't too long, that she is well lubricated back there before, and during the act. You don't want to hurt her. You want her to crave you in her rear.
Sancheze

United States

#6 Jun 14, 2011
Divinisima wrote:
Do you talk dirty to your wife?
If so, why not let her know via talking dirty. You can tell her something like, honey (or whatever nickname you have for her)'you have no clue how good it feels to be inside of you're then you can tell her that you can only imagine how pleasurable it would be to make her behind yours. If, talking dirty isn't your thing. Start. You have to let her know what you want. Even if It's by writting it down in a note LOL or you can get her a bit tipsy. When she's a bit tipsy whisper to her how you crave going down on her. Do it. Finger her(why) because this will soften and moist your finger/s. It's way more pleasurable have a soft, wet, and warm finger inserted back there. Than a dry one. Have some baby oil handy. Once she's comfy with one of your fingers, have her finger and lubricate her own anus. When she's able to finger herself with 2 fingers. She's ready to go. Make sure to take your time, your nails aren't too long, that she is well lubricated back there before, and during the act. You don't want to hurt her. You want her to crave you in her rear.
You will get aids and she will get colon cancer because of your white freakyness! lol

“we all have a purpose”

Since: Jun 11

California

#7 Jun 15, 2011
Sancheze wrote:
<quoted text>You will get aids and she will get colon cancer because of your white freakyness! lol
...I'm gonna die one day. Might as well go with some nut in my ass hahaha.
YouAreStupid

San Diego, CA

#8 Jun 15, 2011
Sancheze wrote:
<quoted text>You mean look up AID's! ha! ha! you white people are sick and freaky!
Just so you know... In order to contract AIDS from someone... They have to actually *have aids*... We're married and monogamous. Also... I'm not white. Put down the basketball and read a book.
doesshewantit

San Diego, CA

#9 Jun 15, 2011
Divinisima wrote:
Do you talk dirty to your wife?
If so, why not let her know via talking dirty. You can tell her something like, honey (or whatever nickname you have for her)'you have no clue how good it feels to be inside of you're then you can tell her that you can only imagine how pleasurable it would be to make her behind yours. If, talking dirty isn't your thing. Start. You have to let her know what you want. Even if It's by writting it down in a note LOL or you can get her a bit tipsy. When she's a bit tipsy whisper to her how you crave going down on her. Do it. Finger her(why) because this will soften and moist your finger/s. It's way more pleasurable have a soft, wet, and warm finger inserted back there. Than a dry one. Have some baby oil handy. Once she's comfy with one of your fingers, have her finger and lubricate her own anus. When she's able to finger herself with 2 fingers. She's ready to go. Make sure to take your time, your nails aren't too long, that she is well lubricated back there before, and during the act. You don't want to hurt her. You want her to crave you in her rear.
Thanks, that's actually really helpful. We don't really do very much dirty talk, she's always been very scandalised when I've tried. But a little bit of alcohol to get her relaxed sounds like a good idea to get things started. Not to be too personal but it sounds like you've had some experience with this... How was your first time, and was it something you wanted, or he wanted to try?

“we all have a purpose”

Since: Jun 11

California

#10 Jun 15, 2011
Glad my advice seems helpful to you.
Wow, you caught me. Yes. I'm quite experienced. To bad I had to learn the hard way. The 1st time was very painful and i was way too young for any kind of sex. Porn made it seem so easy lol
I stood away from it for years. Then one day I was like. Pffft, if this skinny aspirin butt chick can take a bbc why can I not take something half that monstrous up my bb haha. I'm very creative so, I prepared my tiny * to take it like a anal lover.
May I add, don't expect to have her taking you on all 4's. You need to make way in the spoon position.

“Work smart,not hard”

Since: Aug 10

Location hidden

#11 Jun 15, 2011
doesshewantit wrote:
<quoted text>
Thanks, that's actually really helpful. We don't really do very much dirty talk, she's always been very scandalised when I've tried. But a little bit of alcohol to get her relaxed sounds like a good idea to get things started. Not to be too personal but it sounds like you've had some experience with this... How was your first time, and was it something you wanted, or he wanted to try?
Have u always been into tearing others anal membranes????
doesshewantit

San Diego, CA

#12 Jun 15, 2011
Divinisima wrote:
Glad my advice seems helpful to you.
Wow, you caught me. Yes. I'm quite experienced. To bad I had to learn the hard way. The 1st time was very painful and i was way too young for any kind of sex. Porn made it seem so easy lol
I stood away from it for years. Then one day I was like. Pffft, if this skinny aspirin butt chick can take a bbc why can I not take something half that monstrous up my bb haha. I'm very creative so, I prepared my tiny * to take it like a anal lover.
May I add, don't expect to have her taking you on all 4's. You need to make way in the spoon position.
Sorry your first experience was so bad! That's definitely helpful information, I'll make sure if/when we try, it's in the spoon position. The only problem with the previous bit about 'getting her to apply lube/etc." is when we talked about it after, she really seemed to hate the idea (or maybe she was just embarrassed?) that it was her *ass*. She said that at the time she just had to stop herself from thinking and enjoy the sensation.--So, I definitely think the "light/moderate drinking" before hand will be really beneficial ;-)
Magnum

Minneapolis, MN

#14 Oct 27, 2011
Been married 20 years and wanting to try anal with the wife. Working on bringing it up soon. Have played down there with a finger but didn't slide it in. She seemed to like it. Also hoping she would give me a prostate massage while giving oral.
birds of a feather

Quanah, TX

#15 Dec 18, 2012
doesshewantit wrote:
Alright, here's the story in brief: im married. my wife and i sometimes like to mess with each other in our sleep. anyway, the last time, i woke up to my wife using my hand to finger her and she put one of my fingers in her ass. i'd never really put very much thought into anal before, but she really seemed to be turned on (so was i!). after she orgasmed i let her know i had been awake and said something like "that was fun", and we went on to have some really great sex. in the shower afterward, she mentioned off-hand that she had always wanted to know what anal was like 'at least once' and that 'some day during the length of our life-long marriage, we should try it'...
i've been thinking more and more about it since then (obviously) and during intercourse since then i've experimented with rubbing/touching in those areas but she always shifts away. how can i turn her on in that specific way which will lead her to thinking about wanting to try anal?- or at least more interested in playing in that area, to see where it might lead.
get her good and drunk and pour the coal to her then call your buddies and let them do the same.be sure and take plenty of pictures.
if you follow my instructions she will be the best wife you could imagine because no woman wants her daddy to get a photo of her being dp`d as a christmas card.hell,she may even pick up a part time job so you can get some rest.
andet1987

Chicago, IL

#16 Dec 18, 2012
doesshewantit wrote:
Alright, here's the story in brief: im married. my wife and i sometimes like to mess with each other in our sleep. anyway, the last time, i woke up to my wife using my hand to finger her and she put one of my fingers in her ass. i'd never really put very much thought into anal before, but she really seemed to be turned on (so was i!). after she orgasmed i let her know i had been awake and said something like "that was fun", and we went on to have some really great sex. in the shower afterward, she mentioned off-hand that she had always wanted to know what anal was like 'at least once' and that 'some day during the length of our life-long marriage, we should try it'...
i've been thinking more and more about it since then (obviously) and during intercourse since then i've experimented with rubbing/touching in those areas but she always shifts away. how can i turn her on in that specific way which will lead her to thinking about wanting to try anal?- or at least more interested in playing in that area, to see where it might lead.
does this mean your wife is gay ? a man ?

The Gloop

Since: Sep 08

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#17 Dec 18, 2012
Lucy wrote:
<quoted text>sit behind her and get her drunk in the hot tub, slip it up.
Gloop?
Doctor REALITY

United States

#18 Dec 19, 2012
A person has to be very stupid,igorant,and nasty to engage in such an act.

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