Habesha Dating
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Since: Apr 10

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#1 Apr 14, 2010
Hi,

I am currently 22 years old and single. I am not single by choice however. I would like a relationship with a decent man but sorry to say, I have no found him yet. I am also Eritrean-American or habesha as some people prefer and am restricted to my race ONLY in terms of marriage. For this reason, I do not want to date a person who is not Eritrean/Ethiopian for fear that it could possibly lead to something more and simply put: I don't like toying for guys' feelings. If a guy really likes me and he asks me to marry him, I am afraid to say no so my solution is either find a decent Eritrean man or opt to stay single (I much prefer the former). However, my question is where do you go to meet these bachelors? I also have high standards which consists of 1) Must be educated 2)Spiritual 3)Honest 4)Family person and look good which can vary in degree of importance. Thoughts? Thanks. Sorry if my requirements seem ridiculous.

Since: Jan 10

Monroe, OH

#2 Jun 7, 2010
Honestly speaking i fit all your requiremnts but in my case i wish you were amharic speaking habesha queen i would jump in to you but let me put ma two coins here i see you are desent christian and educated girl and potentially beautiful as you are habesha and never settle for less than the ones you mentioned there i am also looking for the same thing i would rather end single than settle for less than that ...btw go to churches where ertreans are in abundance go to ertrean get togethers like kiristina, serg.. minamin and i am sure you would encounter desent etreans....GOOD LUCK SIS.
Tes

San Marcos, TX

#3 Jul 3, 2010
erichik2010 wrote:
Hi,
I am currently 22 years old and single. I am not single by choice however. I would like a relationship with a decent man but sorry to say, I have no found him yet. I am also Eritrean-American or habesha as some people prefer and am restricted to my race ONLY in terms of marriage. For this reason, I do not want to date a person who is not Eritrean/Ethiopian for fear that it could possibly lead to something more and simply put: I don't like toying for guys' feelings. If a guy really likes me and he asks me to marry him, I am afraid to say no so my solution is either find a decent Eritrean man or opt to stay single (I much prefer the former). However, my question is where do you go to meet these bachelors? I also have high standards which consists of 1) Must be educated 2)Spiritual 3)Honest 4)Family person and look good which can vary in degree of importance. Thoughts? Thanks. Sorry if my requirements seem ridiculous.
I'm Eri boy and I'm really interested to have contact with u
My E-mail is [email protected]
lemlem

Utrecht, Netherlands

#5 Nov 4, 2010
erichik2010 wrote:
Hi,
I am currently 22 years old and single. I am not single by choice however. I would like a relationship with a decent man but sorry to say, I have no found him yet. I am also Eritrean-American or habesha as some people prefer and am restricted to my race ONLY in terms of marriage. For this reason, I do not want to date a person who is not Eritrean/Ethiopian for fear that it could possibly lead to something more and simply put: I don't like toying for guys' feelings. If a guy really likes me and he asks me to marry him, I am afraid to say no so my solution is either find a decent Eritrean man or opt to stay single (I much prefer the former). However, my question is where do you go to meet these bachelors? I also have high standards which consists of 1) Must be educated 2)Spiritual 3)Honest 4)Family person and look good which can vary in degree of importance. Thoughts? Thanks. Sorry if my requirements seem ridiculous.
Sweety hang on!! Same over here

Since: Apr 10

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#6 Feb 2, 2011
mershiti wrote:
Honestly speaking i fit all your requiremnts but in my case i wish you were amharic speaking habesha queen i would jump in to you but let me put ma two coins here i see you are desent christian and educated girl and potentially beautiful as you are habesha and never settle for less than the ones you mentioned there i am also looking for the same thing i would rather end single than settle for less than that ...btw go to churches where ertreans are in abundance go to ertrean get togethers like kiristina, serg.. minamin and i am sure you would encounter desent etreans....GOOD LUCK SIS.
Hi,

I do speak amharic lol tinish tinish enageralawe... my parents are amichaye (or however you spell that).

Since: Apr 10

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#7 Feb 2, 2011
lemlem wrote:
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Sweety hang on!! Same over here
thank you lemlem! good to know im not the only habesha woman going through this... did your mom also say she would not show up at your wedding if you didn't marry abesha?

Since: Apr 10

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#8 Feb 2, 2011
Tes wrote:
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I'm Eri boy and I'm really interested to have contact with u
My E-mail is [email protected]
umm... YOU email ME [email protected] look forward to hearing from you.. Thanks lol.
abi

Addis Ababa, Ethiopia

#9 Feb 22, 2011
lemlem wrote:
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Sweety hang on!! Same over here
I need you!
abi

Addis Ababa, Ethiopia

#10 Feb 22, 2011
I need you sweet.Do you like an Ethiopia man.
john2010

Rochester, NY

#11 Mar 3, 2011
u will ok guys

“Hey ,yawl !”

Since: Oct 10

How ya doin? N.C.

#12 Mar 3, 2011
This thread is so sweet!
Jello

Ethiopia

#13 Mar 25, 2011
Now, u will catch up me until I am who u are looking!
here is my mail too : [email protected]
erichik2010 wrote:
Hi,
I am currently 22 years old and single. I am not single by choice however. I would like a relationship with a decent man but sorry to say, I have no found him yet. I am also Eritrean-American or habesha as some people prefer and am restricted to my race ONLY in terms of marriage. For this reason, I do not want to date a person who is not Eritrean/Ethiopian for fear that it could possibly lead to something more and simply put: I don't like toying for guys' feelings. If a guy really likes me and he asks me to marry him, I am afraid to say no so my solution is either find a decent Eritrean man or opt to stay single (I much prefer the former). However, my question is where do you go to meet these bachelors? I also have high standards which consists of 1) Must be educated 2)Spiritual 3)Honest 4)Family person and look good which can vary in degree of importance. Thoughts? Thanks. Sorry if my requirements seem ridiculous.
Cry Baby

Chicago, IL

#14 Mar 25, 2011
Dixie Diva wrote:
This thread is so sweet!
I agree.:heart:
mimi

Houston, TX

#15 Oct 17, 2011
Try http://www.habeshatoday.com i hope you will find someone suits you it is free
Samuel

Sugar Land, TX

#16 Dec 5, 2011
I say visit this website https://www.habeshatoday.com it is free dating and community site for ERITREAN and ETHIOPIAN people,I am member my id is sami87,Hope see you there

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Since: Mar 12

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#17 Mar 26, 2012
There is also http://www.lovebirdconnections.com its a relatively new dating site on the market but it is not limited to ethnicities, religions, and regions like some of the big online dating sites that you see out there. Another plus of the site is that they take security seriously there. If the site admins find that there is a scam artist or a known rapist or pedophile on the site they will remove that profile immediately and alert their members of the removal. I suggest you try it out. Did I mention they have the lowest membership fees out there so you know people are serious when they are on it. I don't recommend anyone to go on free dating sites because you never know who you will meet on there since most members are not too serious and security is not the best on free sites. Always stick to paying online dating sites, they have more security and more serious members. Like I said before, try http://www.lovebirdconnections.com - where relationships soar!
Jen

Aurora, CO

#18 Apr 13, 2012
Wait so can habeshas date or intermarry? Such as a habesha and a Ugandan for example? Could they at least date?

Since: Jul 12

Dordrecht, Netherlands

#19 Jul 14, 2012
See i was born & raised in Amsterdam, Holland. 29 years old Habesha still trying to discover the world. At this point in life my life mainly contains working, working, working, make music in my free time and spending time with family and friends. To be honest life is grand at this moment, accept 1 thing: every female family member likes me to change gear and start settling down. And offcourse they prefer a habesha lady. 

See i was i raised by black women (mom, sisters, aunt) so my first love was a black woman. I always prefered a black woman when i was dating. Nationality didnt meant much to me as long as her skin reflected mine. But with every women i date or had a relationship with, i always missed somerhing. Maybe it's the shiro, maybe it's the kitja firfir in the morning. Or maybe its the that i can not talk with her in different language we both knoe hoe to speak   In the past i had a brief period that i had relationship with a beautiful habesha, but i always felt that i was dating the whole family. Besides the habesha community in Amsterdam/Holland is not so big, so expectations are high and people tend to talk alot. Something i can't get passed, being the private person that i am. 
But in the process in "settling down" i understand that i need to make a bigger effort then looking from the side line. 

So this is what i'm sayin: i prefer music over television or a movie. Hiphop is my firsl love but also a big reggae,soul,jazz,afrobeat and funk head. Prefer using my fixed gear bike over using a car(besides it is useless in Amsterdam). I love food. You can suprise me always, but no pork on my fork. Hate shopping but love shopping for records that i can sample. Love doing nothing and chill with friends and family but love my work that i can spend more than 10 hours a day working. Socially aware but hate politics. Like to have good conversation as long if its no to complex. Love humor and mos def love my own people habesha & and my fellow africans. 

So basiclly what i am saying is; it would like to meet some nice habesha ladies who can relate my story. 

Peace & love,

The one they call D AKA Ras AKA Aman AKA Count von Count AKA kiko (thats how my moms call me even tho i'm 6'3" and she is 5'7") and the list goes on. 

[email protected]
LOOKING FOR MR HABESHA

Harrisburg, PA

#21 Aug 4, 2012
Hi every one, I am a 25 years old woman single and looking for my other half. I am Ethiopian so I prefer some one from my country. Just a very serious one.I live about 2 and half hours away from the washingtond dc area and I donot see successful datings or serious ppl around that area so if you are not into long relationship then with all do respect do not contact me. I can find a bunch of not serious guys near me.However, if you are serious then here is my email address: [email protected] I hope you are my other half.
miracle

East Brisbane, Australia

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