Women, Do Not Marry An American Man, Period*******

[Phaerae]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>I am only drinking water, the other night was the first time I drank in 12 years , that was enough for me.

Hugs...good for you handsome.

[paintedquote]

Phaerae wrote:

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I think SR is good as I noticed that he had posted on the music threads ICOS had started just an hour ago...RR is on as well tonight...Redneck I haven't met so not sure there...

Could you give me the link to that music thread?

[paintedquote]

Phaerae wrote:

Did my av change yet?...dont want to leave that pic up too long...could send out the wrong message...lol

Nope - I'll let you know.

I changed mine, too.

When mine shows, you'll know yours is definitely up.

[Phaerae]

paintedquote wrote:

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Could you give me the link to that music thread?

Sure thing sugar:

http://www.topix.net/forum/topstories/TSRTOID...

[paintedquote]

Phaerae wrote:

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I'm drinking my lovely Pink Zinck...had some shots of Cachasa earlier...so feeling no pain...but typing amazingly well considering...
What you drinking sweetie?

What is Pink Zinck?

I've got a nice Tradicional Reserve - tequila with a side of Gatorade as its damn hot and humid, here.

Good way to enjoy the drink and avoid the hangover - Gatorade and a multi...works every time!

[paintedquote]

Phaerae wrote:

<quoted text>
Sure thing sugar:
http://www.topix.net/forum/topstories/TSRTOID...

Thanks, doll - just left him a scolding there!

[paintedquote]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>Ty

Ya know - you mentioned that fateful night that you hadn't had a drink in a very long time.

But, you also said you had stopped by your own choosing, for which I have tremendous respect. Good to know yourself that well.

Were you terribly sick after drinking that night? That, with the emotional upset, I would imagine might have made you not feel so well after.

[Phaerae]

paintedquote wrote:

<quoted text>
What is Pink Zinck?
I've got a nice Tradicional Reserve - tequila with a side of Gatorade as its damn hot and humid, here.
Good way to enjoy the drink and avoid the hangover - Gatorade and a multi...works every time!

It's Paul Zinck's Cremant Rose champagne...I love the stuff, I'm a fan of my red wine but over the summer I've grown very fond of it. I used to drink coolers but they are so bad for you, too much sugar and get you drunk and sick way to quickly. With the PZ I can drink a fair bit and not feel bad at all the next day.

It's not a bad night...its misty cool and frosty...I just curl up with a blanket, the pets and stay warm.

[Phaerae]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>No I have not exchanged an e-mail address with anyone. Was I suppose to?

Yeah, we expected you to read our minds...its a chick thing...we're also collecting birthdays!

[paintedquote]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>LOL

We had this whole discussion the other night - well, actually, maybe last week....anyhoo, most of us agreed that we were more "smokers" than drinkers, anyway.

Booze was never a big deal in my house so I never had a real curiosity about it...I was given wine with holidays in a small glass when I was younger and my parents always drank.

BUT, the only time I ever saw my father drunk was at my wedding and, my mother, never.

Booze scares me more that pot - especially as a woman. Its really easy to get taken advantage of or hurt for girls when they've had too much.

My daughter is 14, now, and she isn't interested in drinking at the moment. Her dad is a "functioning alcoholic" and she knows that. Since he's adopted and we don't know his medical/genetic background at all, she's a little wary.

I would rather bust her stoned than drunk...now, I'm not saying that is right or rational - its just me.

[roadrunner48808]

I CANNOT CATCH UP!!!!

[paintedquote]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>No I have not exchanged an e-mail address with anyone. Was I suppose to?

No, "supposed to" isn't the way we play.

:)

Only if you want to...I don't publish mine because I only have one that I maintain.

But, I think that Phaerae has one for general use....she's put it up here, before, but I'll leave that to here, again.

Once you get her's, you'll be able to get mine (I'm just too paranoid to list it due to trolls, spam, etc) and then you can get in the "loop".

:)

[paintedquote]

I keep popping into CNN to see if I can see WD.

They may be on FOX, too, but, for some reason, my tv spontaneously combusts when I turn it on...I change to BBC or CNN and its all good again....funny thing, huh?

(note sarcasm)

:)

[Phaerae]

paintedquote wrote:

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No, "supposed to" isn't the way we play.
:)
Only if you want to...I don't publish mine because I only have one that I maintain.
But, I think that Phaerae has one for general use....she's put it up here, before, but I'll leave that to here, again.
Once you get her's, you'll be able to get mine (I'm just too paranoid to list it due to trolls, spam, etc) and then you can get in the "loop".
:)

Too true so many scamemrs put there, thats why I have the yahoo one...it's my general account for basic stuff. Not my actual home or office.

It's [e-mail]

[Phaerae]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>LOL my b-dayis 02/09/71

Gee...another February baby!

[paintedquote]

roadrunner48808 wrote:

I CANNOT CATCH UP!!!!

hi there babycakes!!!!

Eh, don't even try - I gave up and jumped right in.

I took a little time off to regroup so to catch up seems damn near impossible....just take the bull by the horns, as they say!

:)

Good to see you!!!!! How's things?

[Phaerae]

roadrunner48808 wrote:

I CANNOT CATCH UP!!!!

Just jump in, we'd love to hear how you and the new job are doing!

[paintedquote]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>LOL my b-dayis 02/09/71

Aquarius, right?

My brother is the 11th but '61 - I'm 7-14-66

[Phaerae]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>Yes very sick, I'm not a pro any more. With it being the 1 year anniversary date , that did not help at all, i'm not sure what made me sicker, the date, or the alcohol, or both, sometimes when I wake up I think ok it was all just a bad dream, and I think I hear their voices in the other part of the house when I am at home, but then reality kicks in, as I walk through the house and see that nobody is there, that is when it really slaps you in the face, to think it was all a bad dream, i do that alot, i wake up thinking i am hearing them in the other room playing and talking, I run in there and it is nothing, just me dreaming of them, I guess they will never be back, but then sometimes I think maybe I am dreaming right now, maybe this is all a night mare I will wake up one day and everything will be the same, maybe right now you guys are just in my dream.

I was telling the ladies here I lost about 7 family members and friends in the last year and a half. Was the first time I'd lost anyone close to me, more specifically my Gran who was more like a mother to me. While it in no way compares to what you've been through I can tell you that as time goes on the pain will heal. I feel like Gran is still with me in just about everything I do, especially when I'm feeling lost or sad I just think of her and the advice she would give me...it's healing.

I know PQ has experience in this area as well as Wolfie...a whole lot of experience and wisdom in this thread.

[paintedquote]

LIQUEUR AND POKER wrote:

<quoted text>LOL... THats my tv to it only like cnn

I guess they have an aversion to "fair and balanced"...haha!

But, to be fair, I have a good friend, who is a pretty high profile lawyer in the city who does a lot of on air analysis for them and he's a raging Dem...and, I believe that Shepard Smith is gay so....

Hey, have you guys seen "the Cooler" - a great flick with Maria Bello, Alec Baldwin and William H Macy....on IFC now.