Checking nieces browser

Portland, OR

#1 Jun 13, 2013
While our niece who lives with us was at school (she starts high school next year) I fired up her PC and checked the browser history. She's been checking a lot of bondage websites and has bookmarked pages with things like dripping candle wax and other mild sex torture practices, don't know if we should be concerned about this or not whether she's just being curious. I mean she's old enough now to be trying things like that, she's on IUC birth control so we know she's sexually active and wiki per supplied in condoms just to help her be safe. My husband says to leave it alone, she's probably just experimenting to find out what she likes, but I think I should discuss it with her but if I do she's going to know I've been snooping her browser and that will be a whole other argument.

Since: Apr 13

Scappoose, Oregon USA

#2 Jun 14, 2013
First of all don't feel a bit guilty for checking that browser history, if more parents did there'd be less often the tragic headlines! Also don't worry about the fact that she's curious about and possibly dabbling in the whole bondage thing, it's just an extension of her awakening sexuality which she's still exploring. And also BTW good for you guys, getting her on IUC (which is what I've used since I was a young teen) and keeping her in condoms! Again, if more parents were responsible enough to do that there would be fewer teen pregnancies.
dad of 3

Portland, OR

#3 Jun 25, 2013
J- Agree completely, great input. Kids get curious about things, it's important that they get good information and a trusted adult ushers them into exploring to see whether or not they actually want to stick with it. Look forward to seeing you and family this summer out of the island!

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