Asexuality/Demisexuality

“For Narnia!”

Since: Jan 13

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#1 Jan 20, 2013
Why is it when you inform someone of your sexuality they suddenly think it's okay to ask sexual questions?._.
Or try to "change you" ?

I've never been able to figure this out myself, you don't go up to random strangers and ask them if they're still a virgin, and a million other personal questions. Why is it suddenly acceptable because you're a different sexuality then the "norm".
I don't understand the human mind.
o.e Am I alone in this happening?

“Priestess of the Mountains”

Since: May 10

United States

#2 Jan 27, 2013
Sharkbai wrote:
Why is it when you inform someone of your sexuality they suddenly think it's okay to ask sexual questions?._.
Or try to "change you" ?
I've never been able to figure this out myself, you don't go up to random strangers and ask them if they're still a virgin, and a million other personal questions. Why is it suddenly acceptable because you're a different sexuality then the "norm".
I don't understand the human mind.
o.e Am I alone in this happening?
Not at all! Non of my friends cared or even seemed to want to ask me personal sexual questions which I think would be considered normal...until I told them I was asexual!
Then suddenly it seemed perfectly okay to ask be if I'd ever had sex, did I like touching or being touched sexually, did I masturbate, what did I masturbate too, what part of porn aroused me if any...I'm sorry, I can understand a basic curiosity, but even when I'd tell them how most asexuals are this or that, it didn't matter. They only wanted to know about what *I* did personally. I don't go asking them weird personal questions about what sort of sexual behaviors and likes/dislikes they have!

It's honestly kind of insulting and disturbing!

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