Are there many guys that Hate SEX?

Are there many guys that Hate SEX?

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Lashandra

Columbia, MO

#1 Nov 22, 2010
We have heard about the women who hate sex, but what about men who hate sex?
Humanoid Beta-Strain

Bloomington, IL

#2 Jan 13, 2011
Lashandra wrote:
We have heard about the women who hate sex, but what about men who hate sex?
What about us? You make it sound like we all have more than the one thing in common. There are lots of reasons a given male might not want or like sex. Let your mind wander. There are a slew of reasons, most of them psychological, a few of them physical. In my case, it's because from the awakening of my desire (Nixon was President, then), it's been all about the wrapper, not the candy...and, that's because I'm a sociopath. I simply Hate other people. It took dating the woman I eventually married (and whom I'm still married to), to find out to what degree I detest and abhor sex. Not the idea of it, mind you. I'm just repelled by other people's humanity...and, it's kind of difficult to ignore human beingness, when you're indulging in that particular activity.
Fact is, sex sounds like a great idea, looks even better via pornography, but, no, thank you. People, even the prettiest of them, are pretty ugly, naked...and, you get to be my age, you're glad you have a ring on your finger that you can wave like a crucifix, in front of all the Venus Fly Traps that used to be flowers.
Sex is hot and sticky, clumsy and gooey, sweat and smelly and gross. It's that way, because someone other than Self is involved. And, as stated, I Hate other people.
or else

Newport Beach, CA

#3 Jan 13, 2011
Humanoid Beta-Strain wrote:
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What about us? You make it sound like we all have more than the one thing in common. There are lots of reasons a given male might not want or like sex. Let your mind wander. There are a slew of reasons, most of them psychological, a few of them physical. In my case, it's because from the awakening of my desire (Nixon was President, then), it's been all about the wrapper, not the candy...and, that's because I'm a sociopath. I simply Hate other people. It took dating the woman I eventually married (and whom I'm still married to), to find out to what degree I detest and abhor sex. Not the idea of it, mind you. I'm just repelled by other people's humanity...and, it's kind of difficult to ignore human beingness, when you're indulging in that particular activity.
Fact is, sex sounds like a great idea, looks even better via pornography, but, no, thank you. People, even the prettiest of them, are pretty ugly, naked...and, you get to be my age, you're glad you have a ring on your finger that you can wave like a crucifix, in front of all the Venus Fly Traps that used to be flowers.
Sex is hot and sticky, clumsy and gooey, sweat and smelly and gross. It's that way, because someone other than Self is involved. And, as stated, I Hate other people.
Do I sense some detachment?

Since: Jan 11

Johnson City, TN

#4 Jan 13, 2011
Well honestly i could care less about sex thats not what its all about, Its about loving someone. and caring for them. But thats just my oppinion

Since: Jan 11

Abuja, Nigeria

#5 Jan 14, 2011
many misunderstood sex,sex is created by God so there is no reason hating what God has created,but as the saying,every things that God created has its own season,the right time to have sex is after marriage,so no man hates sex.it is a pleasure,enjoy it.
Lashandra

Columbia, MO

#6 Jan 19, 2011
There is MORE to a relationship than sex, I was just wondering if there were men who didn't like it, too.
CSS

Minneapolis, MN

#7 Mar 28, 2011
I am a guy, and I don't like sex at all.
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#8 Mar 28, 2011
CSS wrote:
I am a guy, and I don't like sex at all.
Then you get a Man Card Violation.

“Winchester Model 1894”

Since: Apr 07

Roy, Washington

#9 Mar 28, 2011
Like Shirley Valentine said; "It's highly overrated, just a lot of pushing and shoving and in the end you get nothing"
Lashandra

Columbia, MO

#10 Mar 28, 2011
CSS wrote:
I am a guy, and I don't like sex at all.
I enjoy sex, but I don't have to have it. I am happy just snuggling with someone.

Since: Mar 11

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#11 Mar 28, 2011
I love sex, sometimes the women I end up with are a little off, but hey Sex is Sex.
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#12 Mar 28, 2011
Lashandra wrote:
<quoted text>I enjoy sex, but I don't have to have it. I am happy just snuggling with someone.
Men are happy just snuggling also. We don't need anything else. In fact, I could go the rest of my life with absolutely no sex. Just snuggling.
Cali Love

Chicago, IL

#13 Mar 28, 2011
Pool Shark wrote:
<quoted text>Men are happy just snuggling also. We don't need anything else. In fact, I could go the rest of my life with absolutely no sex. Just snuggling.
Aww thats sweet. Now who would you prefer to snuggle with, your girl or the massage dominatrix you seemed so pressed to hire??

:)
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#14 Mar 29, 2011
Cali Love wrote:
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Aww thats sweet. Now who would you prefer to snuggle with, your girl or the massage dominatrix you seemed so pressed to hire??
:)
Uh, do you have a coin to flip?
Playboy

Lake Saint Louis, MO

#15 Mar 29, 2011
This topic makes me sick.Is this for real?
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#16 Mar 29, 2011
Playboy wrote:
This topic makes me sick.Is this for real?
Very much so.
CaliLove

Chicago, IL

#17 Mar 31, 2011
Pool Shark wrote:
<quoted text>Uh, do you have a coin to flip?
Dont you? cheaters keep lots of coins around just in case they run into a dom that will massage them to explosion. I'm sure you know all about that
MarkS95

Round Lake, IL

#18 Apr 8, 2011
My wife is an ugly, bitchy loser who I would drop in a second, and may soon, but not for another bitch. As far as I am concerned they are all excess baggage. I love my cars waaaay more than I care about the loser that I am stuck with. I have not had six in 15 or 20 years, thank God. They are drags on your life that only depress and disappoint. I have never even considered an affair, because why would I want another fucking piece of baggage in my life.
Pool Shark

Santa Ana, CA

#19 Apr 9, 2011
MarkS95 wrote:
My wife is an ugly, bitchy loser who I would drop in a second, and may soon, but not for another bitch. As far as I am concerned they are all excess baggage. I love my cars waaaay more than I care about the loser that I am stuck with. I have not had six in 15 or 20 years, thank God. They are drags on your life that only depress and disappoint. I have never even considered an affair, because why would I want another fucking piece of baggage in my life.
When you need it, just get a hooker.
JENNIFER19

Lake Saint Louis, MO

#20 Apr 9, 2011
OR just jac* off!

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