Which factors are typical for the homo-threatened child? The academically never disproved psychoanalytic position says that the homosexual tried fellow did not succeed in coming successfully by Abnabelungs-and Individuationsphase of the toddler age. Homo's marsh in Seattle, in the west of the USA ( kreuz.net/Der
new way) The following list is a summary of the factors which homosexual men normally remember from her childhood:
Deficits in sporty talent and hand eye coordination
Fear and aversion against "rough" plays – sometimes on account of chronic illnesses in the childhood
Frequent elusiveness with developing duties; difficulties, themselves of the mother abzunabeln
Stubborn feeling to be towards the other boys „differently and inferiorly“
Mother´s best friend and trust person“
Held with quarrel between the parents to the mother. The marriage of the parents was unhappy.
Defective father's son's respect with „incompatible characters“
Estrangement and refusal by the father. The father is weak, closed, is narcissistic or criticising.
Makes way other boys. Male people are an object of fear, irritation, envy, longing. They are "mysterious".
Disdain of the masculinity of the father and the other boys
Excessive physical modesty in present of other boys
Nervous need for male allowance; receptively for sexual seduction by male of the same age or adults
„If the favourite small boy of the world“ was called
Went for aggressive, daunting older brothers from the way.
To explain, why they felt always "different", homosexual theorists state typically, no homo-genetic homosexuality is a form psychosexueller Unreife.daß them „just thus born“ are and therefore for the homosexuality were determined.
However, hope to think a gene which fixes the sexual orientation is among gay's activists and scientists in dwindle.
Almost without exception agree the researchers that the equation still contains other factors.
As such factors family relations in the early childhood, experiences with of the same age and other socialisation experiences, as well as later a certain element of the choice and habituation – for example, experiences are valid sexual harassment in the childhood or contact with homo's pornography.
The classical psychoanalytic position – which has never academically been disproved – says that the boy did not succeed in coming successfully by Abnabelungs-and Individuationsphase of the toddler age and in developing a stable male gender identity with the father-figure.
The boy romanticises the "other", for him inaccessible, somewhere „there outdoors“ recumbent masculinity in the figure of another man.
Therefore, homosexuality is a form of psychosexueller unripeness.