redrose1981 HoustonTX

Houston, TX

#47 Jul 7, 2013
I am an African American woman dating a Mexican man, and I must say, its the best decision I ever made! I was skeptical at first, but something told me to give him a chance. I was always stuck on my IBM (Ideal Black Man) and nothing ever worked. My opinion is the black man today doesnt respect the black woman and they feel they are a hot commodity if they have money, education, nice car, etc. The man I met has been a gentleman from day 1: opening doors, takes care of me when I was sick, go out to eat and PAYS (no questions asked.), cooks for me, massages me, texts me, asks about my day,teaches me spanish, everything that we women want, my man does. I dont even have to ask; its like second nature. He intoducues me to the Mexican culture and its amazing! We go to the fresh market, where i can practice on my spanish, he teaches me how to make guac, pico, sopes, chorizo con huevo, everything! We go places and people stare, i honestly think people are jealous bc we are genuinely happy. I wouldnt trade my man for anyone. And he's the hardest working man that I know. Period. He has really shown me what love is; my past experiences honestly made me give up on love and think it was something only from the movies. Patience, communication and respect is key. I never got that from a black man. Never. My advice to anyone out there considering dating a mexican man, give it a try. I dont know how ALL of the men are, but it's definately a change for the better.
Tony

United States

#48 Jul 7, 2013
Well said!! Love is out there sisters! Give it a chance! A lot of latin men for the taking! H-Town in the house! Lol.
Kayla

El Sobrante, CA

#49 Jul 20, 2013
'm a black girl, i'm 16 and dated a latino boy who was a year older than me. He's from el salvador. We went out for a while but i broke up with him. i feel like the stares and people talking got to him. people were so shocked that we dated bc you usually only see black girls with black guys. Maybe it's just where im from but the latino guys here aren't ready to be with a black woman. maybe because im only talking about the young guys,, people my age. maybe its maturity. I just feel like he was ashamed to go out with me simply because i was black and it wasnt the norm. latino guys went out with latino girls, it was that simple. at least where i live. i dont think he was racist, i think he let other people affect us.

Anyway SO FELLAS, if you want a black girl, GO GET HER. people are gonna try to stop you. give them the finger and keep going. so many black girls dont date latino guys because they think you wont like them. if you show interest they will like you. BUT, show interest in them like you would any other girl. Court them, take them out on dates and most importantly BE PERSISTENT.

Some of us do like to play hard to get, and persistency (even when we tell you not to) is ridiculously sexy. go for it. Show them you're serious, and you really want them, show them that you dont care what everyone else thinks.

last bit of advice.. if you want a black girl, get out of the racist crowd. again maybe its just where i live, but the black girls like the latino guys until they hear a racial slur come out of their mouth. even if its a joke. hopefully this isn't a problem where u live..

anyway, GOOD LUCK GETTING YOUR BLACK GIRL (:

-a black girl who likes latinos
juanito zambrano

Holly Springs, NC

#50 Jul 20, 2013
Atia wrote:
I am also a Black woman dating a Mexican man and I also have the same problem. We either recieve stares from Black men or Mexican women. I never knew that it was a problem either, I guess it's more of jealousy on both sides. We went to his friends shop and his friends wife asked him if he was crazy dating a black woman. Of course this was said in spanish which she assumed that I didnt understand. I believe that interracial dating of all kind is beautiful and people will always have their views, I too speak what's on my mind, but on the other hand just love who you love and care less about what people think.
oye I'm Mexican and dating italiana girl and just me alone I get the stare but don't care race and culture shouldn't matter me and my Novia have a Latino son and my dad taught us to date inside our culture but we didn't but how he's over it and just happy for me. Nothing gets me mad only people hurt or talk about my son being Mexican or about my Mexican culture I never dated black girls but always wanted to
calikim1405

Houston, TX

#51 Jul 21, 2013
I love all your stories!! I'm a 34 yr old black woman who is engaged to a 36 yr mexican man whom is really light skinned. We get dirty looks from black men and hispanic women and its really bad cause I have a cute shape and my body is all real....His parents liked me when we were dating always wanted to come by when I was his girlfriend but once he purposed they were not happy and the invites stopped. They don't speak about me cause I think they just thought he was going thru a phase and we would eventually break up. I feel sad for him because he never knew he had racist parents til I came along. But he is in love and stated if he has to choose they will not like his choice.My family on the other hand loves him and told him they have enough love for both of us since he may be seperating from his family...I feel its there loss they will miss out on our beautiful children due to there ignorance...

Since: Jul 13

United States

#52 Jul 29, 2013
Morenasa wrote:
Am canadian black lady,since september last year i was dating ,sexy cute,understanding,loving and most good looking mexican man,he went for vacation to mexico city to see his parent,when he come back his friends mexican guys lie on me,that i was dating some other guys,which was not true,now almost 5 moths my guy doesnt say hi to me,i miss him alot,,we work in the some company...eye contact nothing else....i dont feel dating again i will wait for him back to my life for awhile...
hey, maybe his friends r jealous of ur relatioship im from México city too and my girlfriend its black and i we have a bby in away , acctually its coming in the next month, the doctor said she come in the 14 of September, almoust the day of my independence, Jesus, heje, anywho, my question its if u wan I can help u fir contact him, my mail its papireno28@hotmailcom God Bless You, bye
my-name-is-rick

Riverside, CA

#53 Aug 5, 2013
i-too-iam-looking-for-that-bla ck-woman-of-,my-dreams--iam-me xican-too-if-she-has-black-hai r-that-will-do-it-for-me
Cesar

Riverside, CA

#54 Aug 16, 2013
I began liking black girls in high school. I really grew a liking for them and i had a crush on a black girl in high school. I never really dated one so i can't say how the experience was. I would enjoy to date a black and i am Mexican, preferably a chicano, i have my reasons to that.
Jasmine

Mocksville, NC

#55 Sep 9, 2013
Im a 24 yr old half black, half white female. Ever since I was 16 and I got my first taste of latino men ive never looked back. I have a gorgeous 2 yr old son. Hes blavk, white, and Mexican. Most beautiful mix you could ever imagine.
yvette

United States

#56 Sep 10, 2013
My boyfriend is mexican and im african american. I have a one year old daughter from a previous relationship and shes half mexican her father is from durango however the quy im dating now is from michoacan i love him and he loves me bt when were in public ppl stare at us. Mainly white and other mexican ppl. White ppl stare as if we shouldnt be together but idc what people think or say. Im happy with him im very much into the culture and i do speak spanish i can dance to mexican music im very happy with who i am. Mexican quys find me very attractive now dnt get me wrong i have met a couple of mexican guys who say they dont like black girls bt always managed to like me. My ex Luis i was his first black girl he ddnt like them before bt now his opinion changed and he loves african american women now:-)
yvette

United States

#57 Sep 10, 2013
Youu can share your thoughts with me through email and I do have some questions that needs to be answered
Yvette.tellez22@gmail.com
Nick

Lampasas, TX

#58 Sep 11, 2013
Well I will say this I am Mexican men that loves black woman( more beautiful). Why is it ok for black men to date white and Hispanic women? The way I see it is everyone has there preference and people should just mind there own business
Cboone03 wrote:
I am a Black Woman dating a Mexican guy. Sometimes when we walk hand and hand down the street we get rude comments and looks, all from black men. I am not saying all black men say something rude or look at us weird, but that when it happens, it comes from black men. Some black men could care less. The looks I could care less about. It is when you open your mouth that there is a problem. The way my boyfriend looks at it is "As long as they don't touch us then there is not a problem". I agree, but I am the type of person who speaks my mind and it is hard for me to hold back, because of the disrespect we receive. I did not know there was a problem with a black woman dating a Mexican guy. Just need some insight, experience, and suggestions on how to handle when someone says something rude. Thanks!
PS: Also, he is light skin so he might look like a different race to them, definitely not white though. But either way it is my business who I date not stupid people on the street.
my first mexican man

United States

#59 Sep 29, 2013
I can honestly say i don't ever want a man from my race again. i am have a lot of questions. i can't tell if he is interested in me or what. should i change how i dress n act? he is so hard to read .
TRINIDAD

Colima, Mexico

#60 Oct 1, 2013
IAM A MEXICAN MAN AND I LOVE BLACK WOMEN I JUST HAVENT BEEN RESPECTED OR TREATED WELL BY MEXICAN WOMEN BLACK WOMEN ALSO PAY MORE ATTENTION TO ME THAN MEXICAN WOMEN
TRINIDAD

Colima, Mexico

#61 Oct 1, 2013
i am a mexican man and i love black women they pay more attention to me and respect me more than black women i like big black women as well as small black women
Rick

Anaheim, CA

#62 Oct 10, 2013
i also iam a mexican male and black womans turn me own maybe is the affirmative way they speak but any way i get attracted to them dont know why I hope i find my self a mature black woman who dont mind being with a white blue eye mexican where are u if any singles out there write to mechanicmarineu@hotmail.com
marissa mesa

United States

#64 Oct 14, 2013
I'm a black woman and going out with a half mexican and half native american man. I haven't experienced rude comments from black men yet but all i know we make sure that doesnt effect our relationship. As long as our relationship is going well and we're happy together. That's all that matters.
cutlady30

United States

#65 Oct 14, 2013
they treat woman good
Emiri

Southaven, MS

#66 Nov 5, 2013
Cboone03 wrote:
I am a Black Woman dating a Mexican guy. Sometimes when we walk hand and hand down the street we get rude comments and looks, all from black men. I am not saying all black men say something rude or look at us weird, but that when it happens, it comes from black men. Some black men could care less. The looks I could care less about. It is when you open your mouth that there is a problem. The way my boyfriend looks at it is "As long as they don't touch us then there is not a problem". I agree, but I am the type of person who speaks my mind and it is hard for me to hold back, because of the disrespect we receive. I did not know there was a problem with a black woman dating a Mexican guy. Just need some insight, experience, and suggestions on how to handle when someone says something rude. Thanks!
PS: Also, he is light skin so he might look like a different race to them, definitely not white though. But either way it is my business who I date not stupid people on the street.
Hey, I was wondering do you still have this problem or if you finally figured out how to deal with it? Im having the exact same problem. & its scary sometimes.
rigo martinez

United States

#67 Nov 6, 2013
I would love to date a black woman. I am 18 years old would Love to start talking to this goddess in my college class. Im kinda nervous cuz I don't See too many African Americans in my town. My college classes are in another city 40 mins away, and I started to see more black women. Im real interested. Need help and some inspiration.

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