Except at home with you. What is your role in this? What did you do/ornot do that lead to this?The boy is a gym trainer, I dont know the ins and outs of his qualifications but I know he works in the gym with clients because friends of mine that go there say hes worked there since last year.
As far as my wife's weight goes, she did indeed have some excess skin but only around the thigh area, everywhere else was perfect and beautiful.
This is classic alienation and desperate behavior.
Turn your anger into adult behavior. Try to reconcile and FORGIVE her for whatever you did to cause this OR
Separate and divorce her.
Regardless, MAN UP and face the consequences as an adult.
Under no circumstance threaten or cause any mental or physical damage to this person.
Ask God to direct your head and your heart in all matters concerning this. He will answer your call.