trannys - am I the only straight guy attracted to them?

[KSF]

LAFF wrote:

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You don't need to make that determination...you are a queer!!

No, he is definitely attracted to women. Anyone with a brain can see this. He is not a gay man.

[Billy R]

KSF wrote:

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Maybe you would be gay, maybe you wouldn't. What about the straight men that like shemales but aren't into their weiners? What about straight men that like shemales that have gone all the way and no longer have weiners at all? Personally I'm gay and I find it strange that you would call someone who likes shemales Gay. I like men. Not men that look like women. Yes, if a guy likes a shemale and her wiener too, yes, this would be a bit gay ... but what if he just accepts her like that???

First of all,understand that I assign no moral judgement to being gay.I don't think they're evil,or god hates them,or anything like that.Having said that,a vagina is the prime characteristic of a woman.Some women have large breasts,some women have small breasts. But all women have a vagina.In my experience,I can't imagine a truly straight man wanting to have sex with a trannie.

[KSF]

Billy R wrote:

<quoted text>First of all,understand that I assign no moral judgement to being gay.I don't think they're evil,or god hates them,or anything like that.Having said that,a vagina is the prime characteristic of a woman.Some women have large breasts,some women have small breasts. But all women have a vagina.In my experience,I can't imagine a truly straight man wanting to have sex with a trannie.

I respect what you're saying ... you're honest. From my own gay experience, I often find that there are many reasons to be attracted to another man. A nice face beats a nice anything else, for me. Perhaps many men may feel the same way about a woman and not feel that the vagina is the thing that most defines a woman.

[Billy R]

KSF wrote:

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I respect what you're saying ... you're honest. From my own gay experience, I often find that there are many reasons to be attracted to another man. A nice face beats a nice anything else, for me. Perhaps many men may feel the same way about a woman and not feel that the vagina is the thing that most defines a woman.

I agree that there are many reasons to be attracted to someone,and there is no reason a gay man wouldn't be attracted to different men for different reasons. Just like me (a straight man) with women. Some women have beautiful eyes,some women have a sweet smile,some women have a great body,some women are just nice. They are almost all attractive to me at least to some degree.Really,what I believe is at issue here is just what is a woman. For if a man likes to have sex with another man,that makes him gay,right? In my opinion,a person with a penis is a man. That's pretty obvious to me.

[marco]

I've read your posts discussing the question of attraction to trannies as well as the debate as to whether I'm straight or gay. It's funny that the gay guys think I'm straight and the straight guys think I'm gay. I've played a lot of sports and have been in a lot of locker rooms and have never been even remotely attracted to any of the guys there. On the other hand, my girlfriend has a fully functioning penis along with her female characteristics.

Well, I did it. I said I was going to ask my old girlfriend to have a threesome with my new girlfriend and I. In the interest of full disclosure, I told both of them what I had in mind. I figured this would be a good opportunity for a roadtrip so I booked a room for 2 nights in New York City and made reservations at the River Cafe. After a romantic dinner, we returned to the hotel room for a marathon session of lovemaking. I'm not sure who else has had experience with threesomes but it was more like serial twosomes than a real threesome. It was more like me making it with one while the other watched. My old girlfriend liked to pleasure herself while watching us and cheering us on. This went on for a few days and my new girlfriend and old girlfriend are good friends now.

[Mysterious Stranger]

If it wasn't born a woman, it isn't a woman. Someone who is attracted to it is gay, or some other form of sexual oddity.

[KSF]

Billy R wrote:

<quoted text> I agree that there are many reasons to be attracted to someone,and there is no reason a gay man wouldn't be attracted to different men for different reasons. Just like me (a straight man) with women. Some women have beautiful eyes,some women have a sweet smile,some women have a great body,some women are just nice. They are almost all attractive to me at least to some degree.Really,what I believe is at issue here is just what is a woman. For if a man likes to have sex with another man,that makes him gay,right? In my opinion,a person with a penis is a man. That's pretty obvious to me.

Yes, a person with a penis is a man. Even a trans is a man because they can't change their DNA. But if they have significantly altered their body and can pass as a woman, it shouldn't be surprising that straight men would be attracted to them. When straights find out that said woman has a penis, some will think , "Oh well, but the rest is so hot". They overlook this. That to me would show someone to be a heterosexual.

[KSF]

marco wrote:

I've read your posts discussing the question of attraction to trannies as well as the debate as to whether I'm straight or gay. It's funny that the gay guys think I'm straight and the straight guys think I'm gay. I've played a lot of sports and have been in a lot of locker rooms and have never been even remotely attracted to any of the guys there. On the other hand, my girlfriend has a fully functioning penis along with her female characteristics.
Well, I did it. I said I was going to ask my old girlfriend to have a threesome with my new girlfriend and I. In the interest of full disclosure, I told both of them what I had in mind. I figured this would be a good opportunity for a roadtrip so I booked a room for 2 nights in New York City and made reservations at the River Cafe. After a romantic dinner, we returned to the hotel room for a marathon session of lovemaking. I'm not sure who else has had experience with threesomes but it was more like serial twosomes than a real threesome. It was more like me making it with one while the other watched. My old girlfriend liked to pleasure herself while watching us and cheering us on. This went on for a few days and my new girlfriend and old girlfriend are good friends now.

It doesn't sound like you had a good time.

[marco]

KSF wrote:

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It doesn't sound like you had a good time.

A lot of guys, including me, have fantacized about having a threesome with 2 women. I'm not saying that my experience is indicative of threesomes in general or threesomes with 2 women or threesomes with a woman a tranny, but it was not as sensual as I expected. Each person seemed to approach this more as an audition or job interview. We all went through the motions and had sex a bunch of times. In regard to the discussion about whether I'm straight or gay, I don't have a great deal of insight or concern on the matter. I'm not attracted to guys that look like guys and I am attracted to women. At first, I was angry that my girlfriend has a c--k, but now I'm extremely turned on by seeing her hot naked body.

[Over Haul]

marco wrote:

My current girlfriend is a tranny, although she likes to be called a shemale. We have the absolute best and wildest lovemaking. She is beautiful and lives as a woman. I've dated and made love to a lot of women and have never had a typical gay experience because I'm not attracted to guys. My girlfriend looks like Courtney Cox. Am I the only on with this affinity for trannys.

Question: in all respect, does the tranny use his tool or does it even get erect at all? If so, how does he handle this problem? Don't you think that he might want a piece of you sooner or later? How do you deal with the fact that he might be looking at you the same way that you see him/her(as someone to enter)? Have you guys discussed where to draw the line or is it an open or grey area issue? Do you embrace his/her tool, by now, or does he/she take care to keep it out of your way? Have you guys discussed getting it removed? What In your sex acts did he/she use it on your girlfriend? would you mind if he some day wanted to (or any girl for that matter)? So many, many questions....

[lord_jesus]

Over Haul wrote:

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Question: in all respect, does the tranny use his tool or does it even get erect at all? If so, how does he handle this problem? Don't you think that he might want a piece of you sooner or later? How do you deal with the fact that he might be looking at you the same way that you see him/her(as someone to enter)? Have you guys discussed where to draw the line or is it an open or grey area issue? Do you embrace his/her tool, by now, or does he/she take care to keep it out of your way? Have you guys discussed getting it removed? What In your sex acts did he/she use it on your girlfriend? would you mind if he some day wanted to (or any girl for that matter)? So many, many questions....

LOL, now its getting interesting. I was going to ask, but I thought it might seem a little intrusive. Do you get f*cked by your tranny girlfriend's she-c*ck? Do you s*ck your tranny girlfriend's she-c*ck? There's nothing wrong with it if you do, I'm just wondering....

[marco]

Over Haul wrote:

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Question: in all respect, does the tranny use his tool or does it even get erect at all? If so, how does he handle this problem? Don't you think that he might want a piece of you sooner or later? How do you deal with the fact that he might be looking at you the same way that you see him/her(as someone to enter)? Have you guys discussed where to draw the line or is it an open or grey area issue? Do you embrace his/her tool, by now, or does he/she take care to keep it out of your way? Have you guys discussed getting it removed? What In your sex acts did he/she use it on your girlfriend? would you mind if he some day wanted to (or any girl for that matter)? So many, many questions....

It does get erect and she wore 3 pairs of stretch womens' underwear to hide it under a black cocktail dress when we went out in NY. When we make love, I grab it and she climaxes. She has said she has no interest in entering me or my old girlfriend. Since her penis is on the large side, I think that's a good thing. She went down on my old girlfriend and they sucked each other's t-ts when each was sitting on my c-ck. My old girlfriend wanted to f her but she didn't want to. Coincidently, they're both nurses which may call for a whole separate analysis.

[marco]

lord_jesus wrote:

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LOL, now its getting interesting. I was going to ask, but I thought it might seem a little intrusive. Do you get f*cked by your tranny girlfriend's she-c*ck? Do you s*ck your tranny girlfriend's she-c*ck? There's nothing wrong with it if you do, I'm just wondering....

The answer to both questions is no. Like I said above, she gets erect very easily and wore 3 pairs of womens' stretch underwear to hide it under a black cocktail dress. I like to get her aroused in public and see her try to hide her c-ck. It's always erect during lovemaking.

[lord_jesus]

marco wrote:

<quoted text>The answer to both questions is no. Like I said above, she gets erect very easily and wore 3 pairs of womens' stretch underwear to hide it under a black cocktail dress. I like to get her aroused in public and see her try to hide her c-ck. It's always erect during lovemaking.

Does she have a visible scrotum, or just a penis in the place of a clitoris? Exactly how is her anatomy constructed?(She does go by her, right? I know lots of transgendered people are very precise about which term they prefer to be referred to as, and I try very hard to respect that,'cause sometimes they get offended)

[marco]

She goes by she. She has a fully developed and functional penis and scrotum.

[PAZZ]

marco wrote:

This is the first time I've been out with someone who was not born a woman. I met my girlfriend at the Cape Cod Irish Pub and I had no reason to believe that she was not a typical woman. She was wearing a dress with a plunging neckline and had great cleavage. She had excellent legs, a nice a-s and sexy feet. I struck up a conversation with her as I was standing at the bar and we ended up dropping her car off at her apartment and going to another bar. When we left that bar, things got and heavy in the car and I realized that she had some extra equipment. At first I was angry enough to throw her out of the car, but I looked in her eyes and was overcome with passion. We make love for 2 hours on and off in my car. We went to my house and made love and passed out. She is a woman. She is my soulmate. This love transcends the gay-straight label.

So I can understand you situation, let me ask this. You went out to socialize and find a woman, when getting hot with this new date you found the person has male equiptment and chose to keep pursuing a sexual act that could be called homosexual.
Would you say this choice was like ordering a steak, getting served a veal cutlet, and thinking "I've never tried this before" and chose to give it a try? You like your exciting new discovery and are choosing to continue this relationship?

[shiki]

KSF wrote:

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No, he is definitely attracted to women. Anyone with a brain can see this. He is not a gay man.

women do not have penises..does your woman get to penetrate you or do you have all the fun? I mean you seem pretty gay to me, or at least bi..what's the big deal?

[Over Haul]

Why throw away a cadillac just because it has a dent in it,I guess(or a bump).

[LAFF]

KSF wrote:

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No, he is definitely attracted to women. Anyone with a brain can see this. He is not a gay man.

Anyone with a brain would know that a woman does not have a penis.

I did not say he was gay! I said he is queer. If you have sex with a woman who just happens to have a dick...you are a queer!!

[marco]

Yes, but I have only focused here on the sexual aspects of the relationship with Miss X. She knows I'm posting and has approached this in a more clinical way because she feels it's good for me to explore my feelings on this site. We've been to the library, cooked for each other, gone bike riding, and attended functions at her hospital, where they know her only as a woman. We going to the Boz Scaggs concert (kind of like our parents' music, but she likes it) in Hyannis next week. Tonight we're going to the Barnes and Noble Bookstore because one of my friends is playing guitar there. This is the first step in meeting some of my friends.