Is Swinging Bad???

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Me and my wife have been married for 17 yrs and have been thinking about trying a swingers club or with a couple. What is everyones thoughts on this. It doesn't seem to be a thing now that you have to hide in the closet anymore. We live in Tennessee and heard a rumor that if you see a pink poodle animal in a car or a window decal it means your a swinger. Is this some stupid jokes. If anyone wants to chat off line our email is virsta2000@yahoo.com pictures a must :) can't wait to see all of your responses.
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No brains here? No respect for yourself or your wife? What about the guilt afterwards you will feel towards yourself and your wife or husband. What if you pickup a disease and spread to your family, Does not consequences play any part in your life style. No Morals here?
Stop and Think before you act on such dumb lame actions. Look for some way to build a stronger marriage, how about reaching out to someone in need to keep your time occupied?

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virtuesd wrote:
Me and my wife have been married for 17 yrs and have been thinking about trying a swingers club or with a couple. What is everyones thoughts on this. It doesn't seem to be a thing now that you have to hide in the closet anymore. We live in Tennessee and heard a rumor that if you see a pink poodle animal in a car or a window decal it means your a swinger. Is this some stupid jokes. If anyone wants to chat off line our email is virsta2000@yahoo.com pictures a must :) can't wait to see all of your responses.
I've never seen a HEALTHY relationship survive it. It's your choices, but be careful what you wish for...
Every couple I've seen try it, has ended up apart or with new issues and unhappiness. That's only my personal experience.
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Is living like a prostitute good?
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Sure. Go ahead and swing...and watch your trust, respect, love, honor, family, marriage and SELF-respect go to hell in a hand basket.

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You would be better off just banging your wife's friends without her knowing it.
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yes, if its a 3 and 0 count with runners on and the pitch is in the dirt

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virtuesd wrote:
Me and my wife have been married for 17 yrs and have been thinking about trying a swingers club or with a couple. What is everyones thoughts on this. It doesn't seem to be a thing now that you have to hide in the closet anymore. We live in Tennessee and heard a rumor that if you see a pink poodle animal in a car or a window decal it means your a swinger. Is this some stupid jokes. If anyone wants to chat off line our email is virsta2000@yahoo.com pictures a must :) can't wait to see all of your responses.
Relationships can and HAVE lasted in the swing community. However, before anything else you must make sure that your relationship is a secure, happy,healthy and trusting one.
You go only as far as you and your partner want to go and make sure you discuss the idea of swinging fully before doing it and also after.
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The Enforcer wrote:
You would be better off just banging your wife's friends without her knowing it.
I agree I would have an affair before I would swing or buy a hooker.

I may have low morals but I still have them.

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I've never seen a HEALTHY relationship survive it. It's your choices, but be careful what you wish for...
Every couple I've seen try it, has ended up apart or with new issues and unhappiness. That's only my personal experience.
I've seen the same with friends of ours. Now they are in counseling. Many people don't think about the "morning after". It's bound to bring up issues and insecurities.

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My husband and I have done that, it caused nothing but issues, hard feelings, and problems.

Marriage is sacred.

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Swinging has really helped our marriage. After we put up the porch swing, we spend an hour or so every night just sitting there swinging. He puts his arm around me, I rest my head on his shoulder, we tell each other how deeply in love we are, and all the problems we had during the day seem to disappear while we sit there swinging.

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Sep 26, 2008
 
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Swinging has really helped our marriage. After we put up the porch swing, we spend an hour or so every night just sitting there swinging. He puts his arm around me, I rest my head on his shoulder, we tell each other how deeply in love we are, and all the problems we had during the day seem to disappear while we sit there swinging.
You go, girl!
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I thought it was mad in the UK
All you swingers are mad feckers
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please - most people who try swinging to 'save a relationship' already have a shitty relationship. So of course it doesn't work. But if you are secure enough in your reltationship and feel safe enough with your significant other that you can tell her of your deepest desires you can communicate anything. If swinging ruined your relationship chances are your relationship was already broken anyway. I know the standard model is to have an affair, but that's dishonest - and leaves you much more vulnerable to STD's than swinging does.
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I am very surprised at how angry most of the posters sound. If you don't understand a topic or question, you should do a little research.
We have been married over 10 years and swinging for 4 of those years. Our marriage is extremely strong. The people we play with are all in long term marriages. The most important thing to do is listen to your partner and be honest with each other. Find a local site and attend a meet and greet. Ask lots of questions and have fun. Play safe.
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Canadian swingers wrote:
I am very surprised at how angry most of the posters sound. If you don't understand a topic or question, you should do a little research.
We have been married over 10 years and swinging for 4 of those years. Our marriage is extremely strong. The people we play with are all in long term marriages. The most important thing to do is listen to your partner and be honest with each other. Find a local site and attend a meet and greet. Ask lots of questions and have fun. Play safe.
I think the "love" is not in your marraige. You have what I called a convenient, twisted marriage. Perhaps swinging couples like yourselves had given up on looking for the real love of your life.
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Oct 27, 2008
 
Drew wrote:
I thought it was mad in the UK
All you swingers are mad feckers
God bless marraige like yours.Not twisted, undiluted kind of love and most of all it's righteous and Godly
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No Brains to figure out wrote:
No brains here? No respect for yourself or your wife? What about the guilt afterwards you will feel towards yourself and your wife or husband. What if you pickup a disease and spread to your family, Does not consequences play any part in your life style. No Morals here?Stop and Think before you act on such dumb lame actions. Look for some way to build a stronger marriage, how about reaching out to someone in need to keep your time occupied?
It's a fastest way to kill your love.Not long after that you fall apart. If you love each other and doesnt' want to risk losing each other there are other fun things to spice up your marriage. Otherwise go for it! after all it's only fresh meat your after, and of course with an approval from your partner. You don't want good straight marraige that last forever. I can tell you're bored with each other. So go for it!

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