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#22 Mar 10, 2010
Cowboy wrote:
Why are there all the stereo types about black men with all their illegitimate kids, lack of gainful employment, violent tempers, and chips on their shoulders? A black woman could do worse than a nice white guy!
its just that black women like myself are tired of being blamed for the problems in the black community but we are the ones that are holding it together.

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#23 Mar 10, 2010
And this guy still honestly thought that he'd have a shot with you after insulting you like that? Wow. He's either the most arrogant douchebag around or he still rides the short bus to school. Hell, even Corky prolly gets laid more than he does if that's how he usually approaches women.
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> no no no no. he told me himself that he dont really want to be seen in public with a black women. thats why i was mad.

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#24 Mar 10, 2010
IMO, I see black men getting more heat for the problems within their community rather than black women, especially when it comes to marriage and playing an active parenting role in their children's lives.
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> its just that black women like myself are tired of being blamed for the problems in the black community but we are the ones that are holding it together.
Cowboy

Minneapolis, MN

#25 Mar 10, 2010
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> its just that black women like myself are tired of being blamed for the problems in the black community but we are the ones that are holding it together.
With all due respect, where are the smart, successful, black women speaking out against the foul mouthed, illiterate, welfare queens, who make all black women look bad? Michelle Obama has a platform, and what does she address; childhood obesity. Clueless!
PTBW Forever

Prospect, KY

#26 Mar 10, 2010
what it comes down to is if he wants to have white kids or not.

If he doesn't mind having biracial kids then he will marry you no problem, it has nothing to do with the black women themselves really.

Basically all black women should ask any white guy that they are dating if they mind having biracial kids, if he says yes and your relationship is strong then you most likely will get married if some other relationship issue doesn't screw it up.

Personally I like black women but I want white kids, that is why I can't marry one, not because she is not worthy or something like that.
Bella Toni

Monessen, PA

#27 Mar 10, 2010
I have black friends (females) and they date white men because they are EDUCATING themselves and their black men are NOT. They want a better life than breeding pit bulls and babies, they want the American Dream, and they can get that much easier with a white man by their side. The white men I know that date black woman have said that they first were interested in them during their college years and found them mysterious and attractive, funny, honest and smart. I have two mixed race black female/white male couples, they are married, have children, are successful and treat one another with respect and dignity. I'm glad that black women are finally seeing that white men are good providers and they're turning more and more to them and away from the black THUG. Good! I'm not jealous, I'm glad for them!~ All women deserve a good man and a good life!

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#28 Mar 10, 2010
NJGirl72 wrote:
And this guy still honestly thought that he'd have a shot with you after insulting you like that? Wow. He's either the most arrogant douchebag around or he still rides the short bus to school. Hell, even Corky prolly gets laid more than he does if that's how he usually approaches women.
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lol he does ride the short bus.
lol. have this ever happened to you

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#29 Mar 10, 2010
Cowboy wrote:
<quoted text>With all due respect, where are the smart, successful, black women speaking out against the foul mouthed, illiterate, welfare queens, who make all black women look bad? Michelle Obama has a platform, and what does she address; childhood obesity. Clueless!
i love our first lady. and there are many many many many many many black women that are smart, successful, like me. but they are still single. thats why its such a big problem. duh

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#30 Mar 10, 2010
PTBW Forever wrote:
what it comes down to is if he wants to have white kids or not.
If he doesn't mind having biracial kids then he will marry you no problem, it has nothing to do with the black women themselves really.
Basically all black women should ask any white guy that they are dating if they mind having biracial kids, if he says yes and your relationship is strong then you most likely will get married if some other relationship issue doesn't screw it up.
Personally I like black women but I want white kids, that is why I can't marry one, not because she is not worthy or something like that.
WHAT THE HELL. DID YOU JUST READ WHAT YOU WROTE.
so you would go out with a black women but you wouldn't let her have your baby!!!!! are you 4real. my thing is if you just so happen to love a women of color and she get pregnant what are you going to do,....make her have an abortion!
and why does it matter if your kids are half white or all white. its still your child. would you love your whole white child more then your half white one if you had one?

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#31 Mar 10, 2010
Bella Toni wrote:
I have black friends (females) and they date white men because they are EDUCATING themselves and their black men are NOT. They want a better life than breeding pit bulls and babies, they want the American Dream, and they can get that much easier with a white man by their side. The white men I know that date black woman have said that they first were interested in them during their college years and found them mysterious and attractive, funny, honest and smart. I have two mixed race black female/white male couples, they are married, have children, are successful and treat one another with respect and dignity. I'm glad that black women are finally seeing that white men are good providers and they're turning more and more to them and away from the black THUG. Good! I'm not jealous, I'm glad for them!~ All women deserve a good man and a good life!
white doesn't meen better just to let you know that. and most black women want black men. white men can provide but that doesn't meen that its better. if black women start going to white men becuase we think that white men are better. then we will be doing the same bull crap that black men are doing. and i will not or ever be a fake and i will not forget where i come from. and black men are doing just that
PTBW Forever

Prospect, KY

#32 Mar 10, 2010
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> WHAT THE HELL. DID YOU JUST READ WHAT YOU WROTE.
so you would go out with a black women but you wouldn't let her have your baby!!!!! are you 4real. my thing is if you just so happen to love a women of color and she get pregnant what are you going to do,....make her have an abortion!
and why does it matter if your kids are half white or all white. its still your child. would you love your whole white child more then your half white one if you had one?
which is why I won't ever get a black woman pregnant in the first place so I don't even have to think about an abortion or not being the best father I can be to my child.

Biracial people just don't sit right with me(not that I hate them as a person or anything, I have biracial family), there is a reason why there are black and white people instead of one color like there used to be, and we didn't look like biracials then so that means we should stay 2 different kinds of people for the most part now as 2 clearly defined different groups of people.

If you mixed all the different people together, it would just be a jumbled up mess, not like the origin of humanity or the origin of modern humanity that were very similar to modern day Africans.
Big black man

United States

#33 Mar 10, 2010
Anonymous wrote:
do white men like black women for who they are or is it just a slavery fetish. you being the master and she being a slavery bitch. alot of black women think this is what white men are up to so is it true
Of course that is what the white devil is doing, and the greedy ass black bitches are falling right into their traps! Then on the other hand a lot of black bitches might get off on being the master's slave! go figure!
White_Man

United States

#34 Mar 10, 2010
Big black man wrote:
<quoted text>Of course that is what the white devil is doing, and the greedy ass black bitches are falling right into their traps! Then on the other hand a lot of black bitches
uh..and why do you refer to the opposite gender of your same race as b-tches ?

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#36 Mar 11, 2010
PTBW Forever wrote:
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which is why I won't ever get a black woman pregnant in the first place so I don't even have to think about an abortion or not being the best father I can be to my child.
Biracial people just don't sit right with me(not that I hate them as a person or anything, I have biracial family), there is a reason why there are black and white people instead of one color like there used to be, and we didn't look like biracials then so that means we should stay 2 different kinds of people for the most part now as 2 clearly defined different groups of people.
If you mixed all the different people together, it would just be a jumbled up mess, not like the origin of humanity or the origin of modern humanity that were very similar to modern day Africans.
if you say so! but everyone these days are mixed. damn near everyone. so you must not like maybe yourself and or like 70% of america

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#37 Mar 11, 2010
Big black man wrote:
<quoted text>Of course that is what the white devil is doing, and the greedy ass black bitches are falling right into their traps! Then on the other hand a lot of black bitches might get off on being the master's slave! go figure!
so what are white women doing to black men to make them come crawling like yall do.

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#38 Mar 11, 2010
White_Man wrote:
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uh..and why do you refer to the opposite gender of your same race as b-tches ?
he has no idea and thats a good question.
White_Man

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#39 Mar 11, 2010
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> so what are white women doing to black men to make them come crawling like yall do.
there are obviously severe self-esteem issues for both parties in many of those relationships many will attest who have seen so..just being honest.Black women imo owe no allegience to only dating black men,look how they have done you.Alot of black guys watch an adult vid and think all white women want them,there is absolutely no disconnect from what is fantasy and what is reality for many of these guys.
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#40 Mar 11, 2010
I have a fondness for pleasantly plump, very fair skinned, green or blue eyed, shaved natural blondes, with small breasts, wide hips and bubble butts (`a la Alexis Texas and Briana Love). It's got nothing to do with bigotry, just personal preference.
PTBW Forever

Prospect, KY

#41 Mar 11, 2010
black W 23 wrote:
<quoted text> if you say so! but everyone these days are mixed. damn near everyone. so you must not like maybe yourself and or like 70% of america
I am 100% European descended going back as far as anyone can, I am very ethnically mixed though coming from many different western European countries.

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#42 Mar 11, 2010
PTBW Forever wrote:
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I am 100% European descended going back as far as anyone can, I am very ethnically mixed though coming from many different western European countries.
what are you mixed with

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