why do fat women hate on skinny women
joebob sampson

Uniontown, PA

#109 Nov 22, 2011
if women wouldnt gourdge at every meal then they might be able to loose some weight they need to issue a fat bitch hunting license !
Vanessa

Limerick, Ireland

#110 Feb 14, 2012
I'm a small petite businesswoman working in the financial services industry. Over the last few months i've been doing business with some delegates on the board of a client of ours. I recently was at a business meeting meeting the client and two of the directors. They were both female both a lot taller and overweight. They both sat each side of me and glared down at me. I've not sure if it was an attempt to intimidate it me but I refused to be intimidated.

I tried to make small talk before the rest of the meeting attendees entered the room but one just looked down at me again and goes your tiny, we hate you!!.

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#111 Feb 24, 2012
Vanessa wrote:
I'm a small petite businesswoman working in the financial services industry. Over the last few months i've been doing business with some delegates on the board of a client of ours. I recently was at a business meeting meeting the client and two of the directors. They were both female both a lot taller and overweight. They both sat each side of me and glared down at me. I've not sure if it was an attempt to intimidate it me but I refused to be intimidated.
I tried to make small talk before the rest of the meeting attendees entered the room but one just looked down at me again and goes your tiny, we hate you!!.
i find this very hard to believe.

i am 5'3" and weigh 101 lbs.

i meet all kinds of people on a daily basis. most people who are larger than i am are very friendly and professional.

but then again i am a confident person and am often told i have a knack for putting people at ease the moment they meet me!

i am also told that for such a petite person i sure do have alot of energy!

my point is, maybe it is the vibes you are giving off that makes people treat you the way they do.

not once have i been told by a person who weighs more than me, that they hate me because i am "tiny".
Mel

UK

#112 Mar 29, 2012
I recently lost just over 5 stone, im in.the best shape ive ever been in, im toned and very active, yeah i get a few evil stares from fat women but not all.of them are nasty it depends on the person under the skin and inside, The majority of fat womem have issues but then again everyone of us does, most women whether fat or thin have some sort of jealousy issues as women are the jealous gender over men, at the end of the day you should live your life for you regardless of peoples opinions as they don't count in your life family and friends exempt.
gdj_2009

Warrenton, VA

#113 May 2, 2012
Ok I understand the loving yourself no matter what size, but i do believe the most important thing that needs to be considered is "am i healthy?".If your going to love yourself, then love and take care of your WHOLE self, not just the outward shell.
Gia

Worms, Germany

#114 Jun 2, 2012
Alpha Omega Game wrote:
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Hell no a lot of skinny women are shallow and vain they want everything from a man a-z because she is as thin as women in holly-wood. Even the thin ones with tore up faces! If you can believe it. lol
It's defnitely not easier to have sex with a skinny woman.
It's easier to bed a fat chick.hehe
Generalizing much?

And it IS easier to have sex with a skinny woman. And yes, far chicks are easier to bed because they put out quicker. There! Bitch!
Gia

Worms, Germany

#115 Jun 2, 2012
Well, I'm one of the naturally skinny ones, and I always loved it.

Been put down for being an XS lady, but guess what, I am the happier one, at least in love.

I've had fat gfs, and they gave me sh*t all the time. They made my life miserable and also called me skinny bitch.

Noticed that pretty much all of the fat chicks I ever had the unfortune to come across were very bitter, bitchy, hurtful and non P.C. women who loved putting in intrigues and throwing mud at me or my other thin gfs.

I am not even trying to hide or sugar coat the fact that I have come to also hate fat chicks. I openly admit it. I always avoid them like plague, and I'd rather not risk becoming friends with any of them, as every ''friendship'' with fatties ends up becoming rather neurotic and weird. There will ALWAYS be that silent tension between them and you, and they will always deep down resent you. I don't like to be put in weird moments when I have to watch what I want to say, no matter how harmless, because they are just waiting for the smallest excuse to lash out at you.

I endured too much BS coming from them to even have the least amount of willingness to be polite and kind to them, or about them. I don't care about being politically correct, nor do I care to sugarcoat them. They don't care to do the same with us, so, why should we be careful and nice with them? Every time I hear a fatso tell me or someone to ''eat a burger'', I tell them they need to quit stuffing junk down their throats.

Some of the most insecure people on earth are fat women. No joke. Not to mention some of the bitchiest.

I avoid them like plague, don't wanna have anything to do with them, and I cannot stand their glares either. I don't need to take any sh*t from them. Normally, I don't have a problem with them as long as they stay away from me, and if the situation requires that I cannot actually walk away or whatever, I don't have a problem with them as long as they act nice to me and not bring up the weight topic, or say something ignorant and mean. Because if they do, I don't shy away, but tell it to their face. And the funny thing is, they ALWAYS bring up the weight topic. ALWAYS. It just makes my eyes roll. Just shows how insecure they are.

Ugh, I really just can't stand them. Simple as that. Can't help it.
Skinny girl

Hopkins, MN

#116 Aug 19, 2012
Because they wish they have a body like skinny girls that why. No model looking guy is going to look at a fat girl only skinny girls maybe even thick. Most guys want there girlfriends to look like them. But don't get me wrong a lot of guys don't care at all but some do. It all depends but big girls dont hate skinny girls they just don't like them because there skinny and beautiful...

-skinny girl91
Skinny girl

Hopkins, MN

#117 Aug 19, 2012
Like me:)
Skinny girl

Hopkins, MN

#118 Aug 19, 2012
Gia wrote:
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Generalizing much?
And it IS easier to have sex with a skinny woman. And yes, far chicks are easier to bed because they put out quicker. There! Bitch!
Totally agree gia... Skinny, chicks rule
Patricia Senecal

Caruthersville, MO

#119 Aug 19, 2012
non_ya wrote:
i think they have to hate because of how they feel about themselves. we didn't feed you that cheeseburger
Now this will be more fun to write than the last. Fat woman, dang what do we consider fat anymore. Remember Marilyn Monroe (sp?) and she was a beauty for sure. Today her size is considered border obese to some. Dang.

People Hate for all the most ridiculous ideas. I hate to Hate and even use the word. But dislike just does not carry the necessary weight when I express I HATE STUPIDITY. That is the core of HATE>

I find I have more envy the older I become, but I will not hate on another for ....... any dang reason. Now My own mother is proof of that.

:O //// Oh I know - honor and all that.
jennifer stewart

Austin, TX

#120 Sep 16, 2012
wow really i don't think having a double chin and my belly extend down too my knee's and my feet so soar because i can't walk properly as being jealous i think i'll keep more too myself bye
genetically skinny

United States

#121 Feb 1, 2013
I think pudgy women are cuter than skinny, some are down right gorgeous. A women that has muscles toned look the best. I've tried to gain weight to fit in & tried to look a little ugly to just be friends & all I have gotten is hate. This has been over years at work, at church & everywhere in between. I give up & try to no longer care. The bullying is hard though & I've come home everyday & cried after work at some points in my life. How dare them treat another human being like that. You think if you go to church, it would subside for an hour or so. Nope! Men like whatever they think they can have sex with, in my opinion, until they mature & grow some brains.

“Petite twink, barely legal”

Since: Dec 12

Location hidden

#122 Feb 2, 2013
In my school Humanities class it's easy to see how society's standards of beauty have changed. Some of the nudes by artists in the renaissance depict round, lumpy-looking women and that was considered desirable and beautiful in that time. If we were living in that time of history, the skinny ones would be feeling the pressure to gain weight and be beautiful. Today society's ideal form is slender, and androgyny is considered cool.

Males have no immunity to society's standards of beauty either. Boys my age (18) are supposed to be tall and muscled and have hairy bodies and a two-day growth of facial hair. Small, smooth, skinny guys are considered less attractive, except perhaps to preteens who like androgynous pop singers like Justin Beiber. I've got the androgynous look down, lol.

I've learned to quit worrying about my size (4'10" not even 90 pounds) and trying to make myself fit into the popular ideal. It's hard to be taken seriously when you're a child-sized adult who looks like a middle school kid, but it can also be alot of fun. So when those of us who don't fit the ideal can accept what God has given us and make the most of it, there is no lack of friendship and fulfillment for us too.
Doctor REALITY

United States

#123 Feb 2, 2013
Satan will use ANYTHING to destroy a person's feelings of worth and their self-esteem. And FOOD,especially HIGH-FAT,UN-NATURAL,MAN-MADE JUNKFOOD,which serves absolutely no pupose but to satisfy the ignorant,carnal-minded cravings of people who REFUSE to be more responsible and more discerning when it comes to eating healthy. JUST KEEPIN'IT REAL.
Analyst

Georgetown, Guyana

#124 Jul 21, 2013
When I cam on here, I thought I would read constructive posts to showcase intelligent minds but all I'm reading is a bunch of crap. Dyrad effectively said don't hate but maybe he's wrong that it an't be controlled. At least for some people, in the same way some skinny people can't help what they are.
Analyst

Georgetown, Guyana

#125 Jul 21, 2013
The problem with fat women is they idealize skinny girls and sadly can't reach that ideal. Then to feel better bash us. WTF?!

Of course there are some skinny bitches who are just too goddamn rude and cocky. The type who are all perky and sit, the "cheerleader type" that even fellow skinnies hate.

(not offending cheerleaders just using stereotype to give psychological perception of character)
Tortured

Denver, CO

#126 Aug 18, 2013
Can't count how many girls and women have attacked me because I am not skinny. No matter how much I diet, exercise, and starve myself my genetics just F*** with me and I can not be thin.

Yes I hate this about myself. Have been suicidal, and have had to hate the women who give me shit. Because if I didn't I would have killed myself a decade or two ago...

I can't count how many women have asked me if I am pregnant or asked about my weight because they are trying to feel better about themselves. I have a pretty face, so maybe that is why they torture me.

But why do women hate on the skinny? Because ten times that number hate on the overweight!

We HAVE to! As a self defense mechanism...

If you have EVER asked a woman if she was pregnant because you thought she looked pudgy...or asked about her diet because she didn't meet your standards. YOU are the reason that skinny chicks catch s**t from the normally sized.

We don't hate anyone for the genetic luck that made them skinny, any more than a woman with a big nose, hates those that don't have one. What we hate is those who attack us, mock us, and make us think we should slit our wrists because we can not be thin.

NO MAN has EVER given me shit about my weight. Not once, it has ALWAYS been other women. SO ask yourself why we hate...it is all in defense of what other women have done to us...
ric

Phoenix, AZ

#127 Aug 27, 2013
hahaha wrote:
yall wrong. men love big women
Not, NO! WRONG! THIS MAN LOVE FIT HEALTHY WOMEN!!!
ric

Phoenix, AZ

#128 Aug 27, 2013
crazy wrote:
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you imagine that in reverse
Now don't get that "beep beep beep" sound confused when you back up in reverse with men wanting anything more than a work truck...

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