Why do women expect free food on a first date?

Created by Laflin Jr on Mar 7, 2009

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They think they are a slut

Friends claim they did it

want money spent on them

want to brag tomorrow

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“NM Desert Rat”

Since: Mar 08

Elephant Butte, N.M.

#2 Mar 7, 2009
The same reason men want sex on the first date.
Houston

Houston, TX

#4 Mar 7, 2009
Women don't EXPECT free food on a first date. Plenty of women are just fine with going dutch. It is my thought that the person who did the asking should pay...male or female.

This question was obviously posed by a cheap bastard who should just stay at home with mama and eat meatloaf until he's mature enough to treat a lady with respect.

Since: Dec 06

TX

#6 Mar 7, 2009
I feel if a man ask you out to dinner, yes? There is nothing wrong in going dutch either.

This all depends on how much you know each other.
TexasGuy

Dallas, TX

#7 Mar 7, 2009
That's only fair if the man is making more money than you. I'm not, so you should pay the whole tab. But don't sweat it, I can nurse a longneck beer all night.

Since: Dec 06

TX

#8 Mar 7, 2009
TexasGuy wrote:
That's only fair if the man is making more money than you. I'm not, so you should pay the whole tab. But don't sweat it, I can nurse a longneck beer all night.
Longneck beer...ahhh sounds good
the quesionarian

San Jose, CA

#9 Mar 7, 2009
This would be a good area for government intervention.
Let's get some of that bailout money to sponsor first dates across the land.
It would boost morale and save countless restaurants.
Houston

Houston, TX

#10 Mar 7, 2009
the quesionarian wrote:
This would be a good area for government intervention.
Let's get some of that bailout money to sponsor first dates across the land.
It would boost morale and save countless restaurants.
Now that's funny.
bystander

Bradenton, FL

#12 Mar 8, 2009
Ramson wrote:
It's the same feeling as sluttiness, but at a lower price.
They feel that dating is an exchange, their time for his money.
It's called ' manners '. People that do the inviting, unless otherwise agree beforehand, pay for the date.
Did yor mammy ever teach you any manners?
Maverick

Houston, TX

#14 Mar 8, 2009
Ramson wrote:
It's the same feeling as sluttiness, but at a lower price.
They feel that dating is an exchange, their time for his money.
Is this why you are unable to get a date with a woman?
Maverick

Houston, TX

#15 Mar 8, 2009
"ramson",
Perhaps you would be better off taking an inanimate object out on a date.

You know like the one in the movie with Ryan Gosling.
bystander

Palmetto, FL

#17 Mar 9, 2009
Lorma wrote:
You sure are tied to your mama. Can't seem to cut the cord, huh? Have you tried therapy? They have new drugs that make you not sane but at least less obnoxious.
How are they working out for you?
bystander

Palmetto, FL

#19 Mar 9, 2009
love_spell wrote:
bystander, you are so predictable, All your answers must be on a crib sheet
ROFL! Must mean you're doing shift work as an Obama operative. I wondered how that went; shift work or a volunteer an hour here and there.
bystander

Palmetto, FL

#20 Mar 9, 2009
Primer for women:

1) If a guy asks you for a date and expects you to pay for the food and drinks or is resentful, he is not a keeper.
2) Cut the date real short, if he is a cheapskate.

“Not all who wander are lost”

Since: Feb 09

Olavarria, Argentina

#21 Mar 9, 2009
thus the death knell of chivalry comes crashing down upon this era if ignorance, conceit and selfishness...how sad, how very, very sad....
Erica

United States

#22 Mar 9, 2009
Where have all the gentlemen gone
A-ha

Ramsey, NJ

#23 Mar 9, 2009
Why do women expect free food on a first date?

It has been well established in American contemporary society that the three date rule provides up to three free meals with entertainment to the female party, before the A/s\s, Gas or Grass clause of the social contract becomes enforcable.

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bystander

Palmetto, FL

#24 Mar 9, 2009
A guy that invites a girl out and then expects her to go dutch ( without agreeing to it beforehand) is a big time loser.
He'll expect the girl to do all the heavy lifting thru out their relationship.
She'll look old before her time.
Seen it happen.
Pretty girls look worn out financing their lazy boyfriend or husband.
A-ha wrote:
Why do women expect free food on a first date?
It has been well established in American contemporary society that the three date rule provides up to three free meals with entertainment to the female party, before the A/s\s, Gas or Grass clause of the social contract becomes enforcable.
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Crim

Beebe, AR

#26 Mar 13, 2009
What about if the girl asks him out on a date expecting him to take care of everything? I mean, I would because that's just how I am. But I know there's a lot of people out there who think differently.
Jen

Sarasota, FL

#27 Mar 13, 2009
Crim wrote:
What about if the girl asks him out on a date expecting him to take care of everything? I mean, I would because that's just how I am. But I know there's a lot of people out there who think differently.
Talk it out in advance.
Waiting for the last minute or when the bill comes says you're cheap.

“END THE FED!”

Since: Feb 07

DON'T TREAD ON ME!!!!

#28 Mar 13, 2009
This is a fair question, equal rights, equal pay; = no expectations of a hand-out.

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