Why do you think I want to want to give a pass to the black person who hates in the first place?<quoted text>Why do you differentiate between black people who hate all white people because a white person hurt someone they love and a white person who hates all black people because a black person hurt someone they love? Both are just as wrong, but you don't seem to think so. You want to give a pass to the black person because?????
There's a boatload of assumption in your question, lisw, and I'm not sure where it comes from. It's certainly not based on anything I've said.