Men, do not marry an American woman. ...

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1360 Apr 7, 2008
Info wrote:
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WOMEN ARE SUPERIOR!
I spent 2 weeks at the University of the West Indies... Mostly women. It was sad. I would be ashamed if I were a Jamaican man. I see why you feel this way.
Joan W

AOL

#1361 Apr 7, 2008
angelah wrote:
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Snake,
First let me say that there is some people, men and women who have or develop health problems that can cause weight gain. I have seen it many times. Some have to take certain meds. for their illness and the meds can cause weight gain. Also, thyroid problems will cause weight gain and their is little you can do about it. Some cancer patients have to take steroids and it causes them to gain weight. So their is some people that have no control of their weight gain.
I also agree that there is alot of overweight people in the US and that is both women and men. It is a huge problem. I think it is very important to stay healthy. That does not mean to be stick thin. Some women can be healthy with some weight on them. I also agree that some people in the US don't get enough exercise which is very important to be active for your health. That doesn't mean you have to be obsessed with working out.
Now let me respond to your statement that Beautiful American women only want hot guys. That's not true. I actually am not attracted to "buff" men. I don't want a man thats thinks he is "prettier" than me. I don't want a man that is obsessed with his looks and body. I prefer the average looking guy.
I do have friends that came to the US from other countrys that have only been here for a couple of years and can't speak very good english. I also hate to say the word foreign. If we think about unless your a native indian your are "foreign" in the US.
Now for the women that are more sexually active in other counties. It is not a "healthy" thing for a woman to be open to having sex with anbody. It is very dangerous in any country. I think that you should always have protected sex unless you have with your partner for a while. That way you can find out more about that person and if you can trust that they won't give you a std.
Last but not least, I hate the term " African gorillas" it does sound very racial and you said you were not a racial person so it would be nice if you didn't refer to them that way.
Thanks and be nice....
Oh, I want one prettier than me, it's a lot of fun. Most people get health problems from being overweight, high blood pressure, diabetes, high cholesterol, joint problems, gallbladder problems, hair loss. They have to take meds for all the problems that obesity causes, and the meds harm their liver and create more problems. It's as simple as do I want to eat this bag of chips now and that does it for me emotionally, and I will accept my body as it is with what I put into it, or, do I want to not eat the bag of chips now and be thinner, and deal with men hitting on me and heavy women not liking me. One thing I've noticed is most women up here where I'm living are heavy to protect themselves from men bothering them. It is a form of protection. I don't blame them, the guys are pretty stupid up here. But, when people choose the food addiction to comfort them, to deal with their emotions, they need to turn that finger back around and point it at themselves, not be jealous because someone else didn't eat all of the extra food and is doing life another way. You know, I'm 50, at it's a heck of a lot harder for me to get in a pool and swim and do things than it would be for a 20 year old. They have no injuries, more elastic joints than I do. I'm out there doing all this stuff with a pinched sciatic nerve, an old rotater cup shoulder injury and old torn ligiment arm injury. When I walk down the street, everything starts popping. So, for young girls to sit around a pool being way overweight, and then stare at me swimming and look puzzled as to why I'm not fat, they are the ones who should jump in the pool and get moving as quickly as possible.

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1363 Apr 7, 2008
Joan W wrote:
<quoted text>I don't think Justin Timberlake is good looking. He has a squishy face, looks like a little white boy. I like the bull rider type. Clooney is getting old, five years ago I would say Clooney. You are still so young at 33, the body doesn't fall apart until you're about 50. The testosterone starts to leave the body, then your body puts fat on all by itself, the hair starts to fall out, the muscles start to go, the skin gets flabby, by 60, it's a mess. You have a long way to go. Same thing happens to women, their estrogen starts to leave the body. Well, 20 year old guys are so young, kids to me. 30 year olds are more mature. I like right around 40-45 for me, I'm a young 50. I think Justin McBride is hot, and this one other newer bull rider, short, dark hair, he's a doll. I like old guys too, intellectuals, Chris Matthews is hot, lots of older women like him.
All I can say is that if you are turning down George Clooney then you must really have it together! But please consider that your opinion, especially in light of your age demographic, is at least 3 standard deviations from the mean. lol.

I am happy to see you better define your definition of 'older men'. Truthfully, I cannot disagree.

“It's a catastrophic success”

Since: Apr 08

28th star on the flag

#1365 Apr 7, 2008
Cheeka-Weeka wrote:
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She can vow all she wants....20 is still a kid, and she is still "growing" mentally and she will not be the same person in 10years, I guarantee it.
No one can guarantee that.

Sure they may become Americanized to a degree, but that doesn’t mean for certain they will just give up their traditions, their culture just cause there in America now. I’ve met a lot of different people from all over the world (thanks to the military) in different countries. Not visiting but actually living there for a couple of years.

To be honest they have more belief in their traditions and culture, than you give them credit for. Sure they like being here, things here are a lot better here than in some of the countries over seas.

I work with a gentleman who is married to a woman who is Thai, she’s been here since she was 16, they got married when she was 24, she still to this day goes to Wat (that’s temple for those that don’t know), every Wednesday and Sunday, and they eat traditional food 5 times a week.

They have 2 children together, and they are brought up to speak not only English, but Thai as well. She works part time, but for the most part is a stay home mom. It’s this traditional value that a lot more American men are seeking. They also have been married 11 years. Yes I can say I kinda know him well, we served together in the military.

I’ll agree to a point, yes age somewhat has some to do with it, but it also has the do with the culture you’re brought up in.

To say there’s a chance she “might” become more American, and forget her Russian culture, I would agree with, but guarantee?

“It's a catastrophic success”

Since: Apr 08

28th star on the flag

#1367 Apr 7, 2008
Lucy Ricardo2 wrote:
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"Princess and the Marine" story.
Yeah would have been nice to see it last, but come on, reality check here, she WAS a PRINCESS…had this been a common woman, things “might” have been different wouldn’t you agree?

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#1369 Apr 7, 2008
Snake wrote:
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You are correct. Just any hot women between 18-30.
I grew up in So Cal, I HAVE NEVER been in ANY PORN MOVIE. Quit sterotyping!

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#1370 Apr 7, 2008
Average joe is doomed wrote:
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No one can guarantee that.
Sure they may become Americanized to a degree, but that doesn’t mean for certain they will just give up their traditions, their culture just cause there in America now. I’ve met a lot of different people from all over the world (thanks to the military) in different countries. Not visiting but actually living there for a couple of years.
To be honest they have more belief in their traditions and culture, than you give them credit for. Sure they like being here, things here are a lot better here than in some of the countries over seas.
I work with a gentleman who is married to a woman who is Thai, she’s been here since she was 16, they got married when she was 24, she still to this day goes to Wat (that’s temple for those that don’t know), every Wednesday and Sunday, and they eat traditional food 5 times a week.
They have 2 children together, and they are brought up to speak not only English, but Thai as well. She works part time, but for the most part is a stay home mom. It’s this traditional value that a lot more American men are seeking. They also have been married 11 years. Yes I can say I kinda know him well, we served together in the military.
I’ll agree to a point, yes age somewhat has some to do with it, but it also has the do with the culture you’re brought up in.
To say there’s a chance she “might” become more American, and forget her Russian culture, I would agree with, but guarantee?
I didn't say she would lose her culture, I said she will not be the same person he married in 10 years...people change constantly, it's a fact of life....for all we know she may want a Russian man of her own age in ten years.

Since: Mar 08

Tennessee

#1371 Apr 7, 2008
Snake wrote:
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Yes and I made an exception to those people that get fat due to weigh problems. Actually you can tell who got fat and how. Those that get fat from taking medications or genetics are generally very weak. They look big, but they get tired just from walking a step.
The people that eat and dont excercise and get fat are the majority. I mean what in gods name is the reason to eat 3 Big Macs ???!!!! Those people are the ones that laugh and think everything is funny being fat.
Now being anorexic is also horrible. Its bad too. I dislike Paris Hilton. I like girls that are have tight and toned bodies, athletic,(not butch) and bubble butts.
Well foreign is the right word but if your friends are from UK, Ireland, or Nordic nations, they are not real foreign since they ripped of on the U.S. and were too weak minded to maintain their culture.
For sex I dont use condoms for oral, and sometimes I creampie but only vaginal. Anal I never or rarely do, and if I do it, I always wear a cover.
So you are saying you are hot but you dont like buff men. However I like girls that 5'7''-5'8'' that are tight fit and in the U.S. they only go for buff tall or gay looking men. I never see young average looking guys with hot tall and tight gorgeos women. I mean you see the girl being slightly better looking than the guy, but that is pretty useless. I mean I dont see average guys with knockout stunners as I do see in Central/Eastern Europe and South America. I dont like people telling me to downgrade and go for fat cow women or ugly women.
But if you are a hot woman, then you should condemn other hot women for going after buff men or that go to spring break. See I never hear hot women condemning other hot women. Sorry to say this but when it comes to the U.S. porn is an accuarte portrayl of real life since they hire buff or gay looking or african gorilla men with hot women.
Snake,
I do have friends that go for the "buff" Guy. However, not all of them. Some are like me and would rather have the average guy. Like I said before I don't want my guy to be obsessed about his body and looks. If the guy is all focused on himself than he wont be that that focused on me. I do want him to take care of himself and exercise "normally".

I do worry about how some people judge people that are heavy. I consider my self lucky to be thin and I do work hard at staying that way. But what if something happened to me and I did develop a health problem that caused weight gain. I try not to judge people and just hope that they are trying to stay healthy.

Not everyone that is overweight "due to health issues" look and act sick. The reason why I say this is because I have seen people that look and act healthy. Everyone that is healthy and are at a normal weight should be grateful. I know I am.

We all shouldn't be so obsessed with our looks. I know it is harder said than done, but the society that we live in puts alot of pressure on women to
look a certain way. Thats why so many women develop eating disorders. They feel they have to look like a model.

I thank god everyday for my health. I also am greatful that I blessed with good genes. It all could be very different. I am a cancer survivor of 20 years. When I was 15 y.o. I was diagnosed with AML leukemia. I had a less than 20% survival rate. I had to fight to live. I weighed 73 pounds and lost all my hair and had to learn how to walk again. So now I look at things differently. I am a survivor. I have been healthy for 20 years now.

You never know which day is going to be your last.
So you should enjoy life and find someone special that you can enjoy it with. It may not be a foreign lady. Your putting to many titles on American women. Your sole mate just might be an American woman. So you should leave your options open because you may miss out on something very special.

Thanks...

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1372 Apr 7, 2008
Info wrote:
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Oh and sweetie, it has nothing to do with ratio,
women are simply superior, hate me for saying that, love me for same, that fact wont change.
I don't believe in superior and inferior. People have strengths and weaknesses. The weight you assign to value these determines YOUR SUBJECTIVE OPINION as to superior or inferior.

I hope someday you meet a man who changes your mind...

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1373 Apr 7, 2008
Average joe is doomed wrote:
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No one can guarantee that.
You are correct. I am assuming she is an intelligent, healthy person with a soul. You are correct. Some women and men do not fit this model.

Since: Dec 06

Saint Louis, MO

#1374 Apr 7, 2008
Cheeka-Weeka wrote:
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She can vow all she wants....20 is still a kid, and she is still "growing" mentally and she will not be the same person in 10years, I guarantee it.
OMG! I feel totally disheartened by this! So what can I do about it?? Please help me out - step-by-step instructions, please!:)

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1375 Apr 7, 2008
Snake wrote:
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Techically the Eastern Roman Empire did fight and even ally with the Vikings.
But had the Western Empire(at its strengths) fought the Vikings, then the Vikings would have been toast because Romans used brains.
And the Western Roman Empire did not fall because of the Germanic tribes. They were weakened by their own doing and they had bigger enemies to fight like the Huns and a resurgent Persia. So they had to have alliance or foderati.
Hmm... interesting. I was not aware of the Eastern Empire having contact with the Vikings. Very interesting... I will have to look into it. Thanks.

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1376 Apr 7, 2008
Snake wrote:
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I was referring to the men,
That's encouraging to hear.

Since: Dec 06

Saint Louis, MO

#1377 Apr 7, 2008
Gadfly wrote:
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Dave, I think you do yourself a disservice by adopting Snake's description of people of African descent. I have spent time with several women of African descent and I can tell you that they are as high quality as women of any race. I find such descriptions are offensive and inaccurate.
LOL! Gadfly, I was just parodying Snake as I do with some others on Topix. But your right - I can see how it could be viewed as offensive and inaccurate.

As far as African-American women, I just do not know much about them as I had never dated or really gotten to know any well enough. However, I did date Caucasian, Latin and Asian women (before I got married) and many of these ladies had some fine qualities!:)
Not a Dyke

East Aurora, NY

#1378 Apr 7, 2008
A Formal Satire wrote:
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I can't think of one reason aside from insecurity that would make a man desire _to marry_ a younger woman--I mean by 10-20 years--and vice versa.
I can't speak for the men aside from enjoying the fresh beauty of a young woman, but as for a younger man, it's all about stamina...but I agree, not to marry ;)~

“Looking for trouble.”

Since: Jun 07

Atlanta

#1379 Apr 7, 2008
Rainforrest wrote:
<quoted text>WHERES OLGA IS SHE OUT SCREWING THE NEIGHBOR THAT HOE!!!!!!
Wait... I'm confused.

Is Olga a victim of a shallow older man using her because of her poor economic circumstances?

Or is Olga a calculating gold-digger using poor Dave for a green card and his money?

Either way, I don't think calling her a 'hoe' is helpful in the discussion.

“Have you adopted a child today”

Since: Nov 07

Somewhere in the USA

#1381 Apr 7, 2008
American Man wrote:
American woman are basically worthless wives. They want a 'dual career' marriage. They are very materialistic. Once you stop buying them things, they are off to the next john. They can't make it on their own and end up leeches. They are always btchy 90% of the time. Some are bi-polar nutcases. Don't lest looks fool you. Women turn ugly at 30-32 yrs old. They get fat and smell. That is when they want you back. No one wants them.
Solution: Marry an Asian woman who has NOT been brought up in the USA. They are great wives. The do great with the kids while the man is out working.
By all means, stay away from American women, most are bi-sexual.
And here is my story.

I married a Costa Rican man 13 years ago. We hd twin dauhters who are now 12. I had a son rom a previous rlationship and he had two gron daughters from his previous relationship.

Long story really short. Seven years ago, we decided notto renew a lease here for our apartment and went to Costa Rica. He and the kids lived with his mother and I worked here in the states going back and fort to see my family.

The first year I found out that Ihad liver cancer and had 3/4 of my liver removed down there. He sent me back to the states after 3 months.

Six months later he wanted to buy a house thre in Costa Rica and I was hesitant ut he talked me into it.

Mind you, he never had to work while I was working in the US.

We really didn't hve a lot of money savd because of me being sick but I was willing to try.

After 6 years o sending him more than 165,000 dollars, I left him. He spent my money on crap. My mortgage was 350 a month an cost o lving was cheap.

Ias dissappointed in him. He promised to save my money and he became a horrible lover.

While I will hold a special place in my heart because he is the father of my kids and because hewas a true friend while I was sick, I could no longer bare to tay insuch a relationship.

Men, in my opinion ae really scummy.

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#1384 Apr 7, 2008
Snake wrote:
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But you are not hot. So you dont count.
You are the only one that seems to think so sweetheart...:P

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#1385 Apr 7, 2008
dave1467 wrote:
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OMG! I feel totally disheartened by this! So what can I do about it?? Please help me out - step-by-step instructions, please!:)
Fun it all you want, but you will remember what I said when she gets older and doesn't want you anymore :o)
Joan W

AOL

#1386 Apr 7, 2008
Gadfly wrote:
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All I can say is that if you are turning down George Clooney then you must really have it together! But please consider that your opinion, especially in light of your age demographic, is at least 3 standard deviations from the mean. lol.
I am happy to see you better define your definition of 'older men'. Truthfully, I cannot disagree.
George Clooney still looks really good sometimes, but when you see him in older movies and then now, I do see a big difference. We're all going to be old one day, gravity and all of it. I'm getting there. I tell the young kids wait until you are my age. Then, the real old lady jocks tell me, wait until you are 70 and see how you feel when you get up in the morning.

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