Why almost every man cheats?
andet-gator-danc ing

United States

#22 May 4, 2009
bigitalianguy wrote:
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well hey, there are several options, orifices, etc to have fun with lol. cause let's face it, that could be the difference between an "ewwch" and an "ouch"
you got it :)
someone who cares

Union City, OK

#23 May 4, 2009
satan's a woman so whos the cheater's duh!!!!
raerae

Bowling Green, KY

#24 May 4, 2009
Richard_ wrote:
<quoted text>Mathematically, that is impossible. Unless of course, all these unfaitful men are having sex with the same woman or each other.
In reality, if a man is unfaithful with his wife or girlfriend, by having sex with another woman who knows the man is supposed to be full of faith to his wife or girlfriend, then not only is the man unfaitful to the wife or girlfriend but so is the other woman. In fact, the other woman is more so unfaithful to her sister woman-hood by doing so.
I disagree....

The other women is not the one that promised to be faithful.

Don't get me wrong, if you know the guys is married that's definitely WRONG.... but the married party is way MORE wrong because they are the ones that made a commitment to their wife (or husband). Imo.

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#25 May 9, 2009
raerae wrote:
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I disagree....
The other women is not the one that promised to be faithful.
Actually, the "other women" often promise to be faithfull. Have you ever managed "other women" before?
raerae

Bowling Green, KY

#26 May 11, 2009
Richard_ wrote:
<quoted text>Actually, the "other women" often promise to be faithfull. Have you ever managed "other women" before?
What are you talking about?

Husband and wife have promised to be faithful to one another.

So if hubby cheats HE is the one breaking HIS marriage vows..... not some single chick that has no commitments to anybody. Who has she promised to be faithful to?(Unless she is married, then yeah.....)

I just totally disagree that some tramp that is sleeping with someone else's husband is MORE in the wrong. Sure, it's wrong.... but technically SHE is not the one that promised to be faithful, know what I mean?

“Hi Haters!”

Since: Sep 08

Location hidden

#27 May 11, 2009
I agree; the husband is more in the wrong in this case as he is the one who made a vow to remain faithful to his wife. And while I believe it's wrong to knowingly pursue a married man, in quite a few cases the "other woman" may not even realize that the man is even married.
raerae wrote:
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What are you talking about?
Husband and wife have promised to be faithful to one another.
So if hubby cheats HE is the one breaking HIS marriage vows..... not some single chick that has no commitments to anybody. Who has she promised to be faithful to?(Unless she is married, then yeah.....)
I just totally disagree that some tramp that is sleeping with someone else's husband is MORE in the wrong. Sure, it's wrong.... but technically SHE is not the one that promised to be faithful, know what I mean?
mich1

Shelton, CT

#28 May 11, 2009
On friday night ABC, the topic was about cheating spouses.. very good show. It explained how men cheat for different reasons compared to why women cheap.. did anyone see the show? there must be a reason for someone cheating, whether it be they dont feel loved, lack of attention etc..happy people dont cheap..

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#29 May 15, 2009
raerae wrote:
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I just totally disagree that some tramp that is sleeping with someone else's husband is MORE in the wrong. Sure, it's wrong.... but technically SHE is not the one that promised to be faithful, know what I mean?
Of course, women are not perpetrators, they are victims. It's men that are perpetrators.

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#30 May 15, 2009
NJGirl72 wrote:
I agree; the husband is more in the wrong in this case as he is the one who made a vow to remain faithful to his wife. And while I believe it's wrong to knowingly pursue a married man, in quite a few cases the "other woman" may not even realize that the man is even married.
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Yea, the "homewrecker" is innocent and the man is guilty. It's like chicks dream all their lives of a white wedding dress and cake and then all the sudden they sleep with someone else's husband and their brain goes into "insanity defense" mode. I can dig it. A rapist can't control their urges and a chick that knowingly seduces another woman's husband can't control her urges either.
MadMaxThunderDom e

Colwell, IA

#31 May 16, 2009
Because that's how God made the male body. Sex is kryptonite to men, leaves them vulnerable and powerless. The sex and porn trade is a multi billion dollar a year business because someone capitalized on this male weakness.
raerae

Bowling Green, KY

#32 May 18, 2009
Richard_ wrote:
<quoted text>Of course, women are not perpetrators, they are victims. It's men that are perpetrators.
Never said she wasn't a perpetrator.... but a husband that took a vow is WAY more in the wrong then the tramp he's cheating with. HE made the VOW to his WIFE.... the tramp.... sure, she's a tramp.... but she never promised to be faithful to anyone.... Quit acting like the MAN is some victim.... Puleeze!
Giovani

Lakeland, FL

#33 May 18, 2009
All men will slip from time to time, thats just male nature. Women should have a little more compassion for us. It;s not that we don't love our wives girlfriends we just need a little extra spice on the side thats all. I am not married but when I do, I plan on being honest with her. I am going to tell her that I can't be with just one woman for the rest of my life, I refuse to be a slave. I am a man and I will act like a man.
xinvidor on top of andet

United States

#34 May 18, 2009
not all men cheat !!

muslim men do not cheat because they are allowed to have more than one wife or women, part of their culture.

christian men are cheaters, that's for sure.

andet1987

“Now I know how strong I can be”

Since: May 07

Marthastown

#35 May 18, 2009
Xcntrik InVidor wrote:
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Perhaps you are running around in the wrong circles.
Ooh, look, boobies !!
X- on my couple of years on Topix, I have never once doubted your honesty, I would never suspect you of cheating on Mrs. X. Looking at boobies, maybe, but cheating , NO

“Uzi Does It”

Since: Nov 08

UZILAND

#36 May 22, 2009
raerae wrote:
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Never said she wasn't a perpetrator.... but a husband that took a vow is WAY more in the wrong then the tramp he's cheating with. HE made the VOW to his WIFE.... the tramp.... sure, she's a tramp.... but she never promised to be faithful to anyone.... Quit acting like the MAN is some victim.... Puleeze!
Of course, I see what you're saying. Because the wife did not live up to her vow, the man had to seek pleasure from another woman. Especially, if the husband were to force sex on his wife and be charged with the crime of rape.

See, the wife has the right to say "no means no", but the wife loses control over the man, then. Therefore another woman, call her a "helper woman" or "service woman", can step in as a mitigator and not be raped, then saves the wife from rape, which helps keeps the vows sacred.
Joe

Slate Hill, NY

#37 May 22, 2009
Women Cheat much more than men do.
Women's relationships today follow
a very predictable pattern:

They push men for commitment
They get what they want
They lose interest in sex
They become attracted to someone else
They start cheating
They become angry and resentful
They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
They blame their partners for their behavior...and eventually, after making themselves and everyone around them miserable for an indefinite, but usually, long period of time, they end their relationships or marriages. The courts generously financially reward women for this. Women initiate 75% of divorces.

First no guy should get married today,
See www.nomarrige.com
Second no promises of fidelity to women period, they should know you will dump them at any time, she will do the same so it only is fair.
Randall

Old Town, ME

#38 May 23, 2009
Bitter123 wrote:
Men cheat because they simply don't care what havoc they cause. They're selfish creatures who have no regard for anyone but themselves. Even if they swear they would never cheat on you, until they're blue in the face, they always do in the end, purely because they can't comprehend what damage it does.
Never trust them, and don't ever fall in love with them it'll only end in tears. It ALWAYS does.
I think what happened to you was due mostly to your obesity.
Joe

Slate Hill, NY

#39 May 23, 2009
Women are are very aware of how attractive they are, they really are in love with themselves. You will often see an attractive girl with a fungly one. Now I understand why the attractive one has a less attractive girl around her, it is less competition. This makes sense but what is up with the unattractive one?
Caffeinated

Schaumburg, IL

#40 May 23, 2009
People cheat because they don't understand respect.

For some, it is a need for attention, and for others it is a sick sense of control. They like to hurt other people.

In any case, there are plenty of decent men out there. Not all of them cheat.
DCA

Tracy, CA

#41 May 23, 2009
Because they are too weak and cannot resist their own selfish needs....then they try to turn around and blame on genetics...thats a heap of horse sh!t.

It's about choice and self control.

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