18 weeks pregnant with a 1yr old cons...

18 weeks pregnant with a 1yr old considering adoption?

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Ashleykay

Frisco, TX

#1 Feb 7, 2012
I'm 19 and am on my own pretty much... I'm in college and live with my grandma I am seriously considering adoption for both of my babies... I have made horrible decisions and do not want them to suffer from what I've done... Any opinions? I'm very depressed and I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm not going to be selfish i love my son and my daughter so much.. Please no rude comments
anonymys

United States

#2 Feb 7, 2012
there are situations that will come all your life school will always be here but your kids can never be replaced and time away cant be replaced and once they get adopted tpo the state its impossible almost to get them back get government assistance if u have to be strong pray theres nothing that can replace them. or if u have any close freinds or family u could get to care for them temporary, but ktap will halp u with babysitting but stay strong im a mom and im in a similar situation if u need food go to christian life fellowship hud but im not judging u just giving advise
sincerely

anonymys

United States

#3 Feb 7, 2012
try to do both get day care if u have to
Karma

Valencia, CA

#5 Mar 2, 2012
My husband and I are very interested in discussing the possibility of adopting both children with you. Please contact us at your earliest convenience via email:
[email protected]

Looking forward to hearing from you sweetie...

Blessings!
Chea

Roodepoort, South Africa

#6 Mar 3, 2012
Ashleykay wrote:
I'm 19 and am on my own pretty much... I'm in college and live with my grandma I am seriously considering adoption for both of my babies... I have made horrible decisions and do not want them to suffer from what I've done... Any opinions? I'm very depressed and I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm not going to be selfish i love my son and my daughter so much.. Please no rude comments
My dear, dear friend, please try and think of the children.What you can offer them and what other people could!!!! I have an adopted child whom I adore more than life.BUT if you cannot give them all that they need, it is so important for a child to get the education and the living experience and life experience from people that understand and care for them. Life is a shitty mess all around. AND being on your own with two children to rear, My goodness what a thing to have to carry at such a young age of 19 years old.

If you do get the children adopted, you cdan then start afresh. BUT are you ready to say goodbye for ever. THAT is the question. You could have a wonderful life again if you did adopt them out, but your mind must be in the right place and you must understand that adopting them out could and would be forever.

I pray for you dear on. Only you can make such a decision. God bless you hamba kahle
I want to adopt

Boise, ID

#7 Jun 15, 2012
If your looking to place your babies I am interested in taking both for you. I cant have kids anymore and so sad by this

[email protected]

Since: Jun 12

Location hidden

#8 Jun 16, 2012
Hey, I'm 42 and was in your situation and just despondent over it. Don't be too hard on yourself. Look, I kept the kids and struggled for about 4 years during school. It was hard, but people donated clothes and helped with a bit of money now and then. The local Catholic charities regularly got me formula and diapers.

My daughter the oldest, is now in college at 17. My son is 13 and they got me through it all. They always say that they knew my struggle and they love me.

I think you need to think it through and don't jump to adoption, unless it's necessary. You have people on this blog that will help, including people that will help if adoption is your choice. Let us know how it goes....
Dont give up

London, UK

#9 Jun 17, 2012
If you're a troll then shame on you. If you're genuine, listen to Patricia Syling. I'm a single father to a 6 year old. It's hard, but the rewards overshadow the hardship. Life's good.
Kathy

United States

#10 Aug 7, 2012
Ashleykay wrote:
I'm 19 and am on my own pretty much... I'm in college and live with my grandma I am seriously considering adoption for both of my babies... I have made horrible decisions and do not want them to suffer from what I've done... Any opinions? I'm very depressed and I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm not going to be selfish i love my son and my daughter so much.. Please no rude comments
Hi my husband and I are from Hawaii . We are looking to adopt .please email me [email protected]

Since: Jan 13

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#11 Jan 7, 2013
Ashleykay wrote:
I'm 19 and am on my own pretty much... I'm in college and live with my grandma I am seriously considering adoption for both of my babies... I have made horrible decisions and do not want them to suffer from what I've done... Any opinions? I'm very depressed and I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm not going to be selfish i love my son and my daughter so much.. Please no rude comments
1 min ago

I am in Florida and looking for a baby a healthy baby any kind I am black my husband white and looking for someone that can't care for their child or doesn't want their baby I am open to anything contact no contact adoption closed or open even guardianship as long as the baby lives with me and is a newborn if you are interested please contact me via email at [email protected]
Spring

West Jordan, UT

#12 Jan 17, 2013
I am single but have a very supportive family. I am real and sincere, not a scammer. I know it must be a difficult decision for you, but I would be able to give your children a good life. if you are interested, contact me at [email protected]

Since: Jan 13

Canton, MA

#13 Jan 17, 2013
My husband and I would be very interested in adopting your children, if that's what you decide what is best. We have been unable to have our own children and have soo much love to give!
We will be praying for you and that god leads you to make the right decision for you and your family

Since: Jan 13

Canton, MA

#14 Jan 17, 2013
You can contact me at [email protected] even if you just need to talk or prayer!

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