What do you mean I am restricting it to abortion only? I don't think every unexpected/unplanned pregnancy should be aborted. I just think the choice of whether to attempt to carry to term or not belongs to the woman, nobody else.<quoted text>
I am looking at this on the universal scale so gender is irrelevant on my approach to this problem and your answer is not acceptable on the universal scale because you're restricting a life and death situation to abortion only and this is not the case. This life/death situation is broader than that.
MY personal choices were to attempt to carry every pregnancy to term.
That didn't work out, but not because I aborted, but because pregnancies to not all come to term even when they are wanted.