Yeah, and many women DON'T want the child any more after he/she was born than they did before. I guess it's just tough luck for THOSE kids who got stuck with a mother who might be angry and resentful enough to neglect or abuse them, huh?Well I have to say some of the stuff you say makes sense but some doesn't. I don't just care about the nine months. I care very much about the needs of that baby after born. But I will also say many women who think they don't want that child fall in love with that baby after born.
Women who have a strong DISlike of children before they are unlucky enough to get pregnant aren't too likely to change their minds and "fall in love" with a child that they were FORCED to give birth to. Being born a woman doesn't necessarily make that woman maternal.