There is Everything Wrong with Abortion

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#229826 Apr 30, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
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Maybe YOU don't "kill them in the womb" but you don't get to make choices or pass judgement on anyone else.
Abortion might be a "selfish decision" to you. Bully for you. But it's your OPINION, therefore valid ONLY to you.
I'm not justifying my decisions. I don't have to. You don't get to pass judgment on me.
Isn't it great how that works?
And since I don't believe in hell, you can hope all you want. But it's not going to happen.
You never know,it just might.
Ocean56

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#229827 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
I know I can't take all the good in the world. I am not blinded to the children who aren't wanted but I do know there are many children despite what their parents felt who still get through life just fine. maybe they are stronger for it. Who knows? Having children who won't be loved is not the answer. Many parents who have children think they don't want them but something kicks in with them and they are so appreciative that they had them.
Yes, that is true. And then there's the other side; the mothers who are NOT appreciative that they had their children. They bitterly REGRET having their children and only wish they had their "old life" (the one WITHOUT kids) back. The story I posted previously, from the mom who DOES regret having her kids, was one among many.

Again, motherhood is OPTIONAL, not required or obligatory. If some women choose to reject motherhood for any reason, that is THEIR decision, and none of your business.
Ocean56

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#229828 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
It isn't yours either.
Sure it is, if it's MY pregnancy. Thank goodness that isn't the case, as getting pregnant again would be my worst nightmare.

For me, PREGNANCY SUCKS, and I'm very grateful for the availability of the BC which has kept me pregnancy-FREE the last 15+ years. I so love NOT being pregnant.

Since: Sep 07

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#229829 Apr 30, 2013
Ocean56 wrote:
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Sure it is, if it's MY pregnancy. Thank goodness that isn't the case, as getting pregnant again would be my worst nightmare.
For me, PREGNANCY SUCKS, and I'm very grateful for the availability of the BC which has kept me pregnancy-FREE the last 15+ years. I so love NOT being pregnant.
So do I Ocean,been there done that and now just enjoying my grandkids.I loved being pregnant but am glad I can't get pregnant anymore.

Have a good day.

Since: Sep 07

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#229830 Apr 30, 2013
Ocean56 wrote:
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Yes, that is true. And then there's the other side; the mothers who are NOT appreciative that they had their children. They bitterly REGRET having their children and only wish they had their "old life" (the one WITHOUT kids) back. The story I posted previously, from the mom who DOES regret having her kids, was one among many.
Again, motherhood is OPTIONAL, not required or obligatory. If some women choose to reject motherhood for any reason, that is THEIR decision, and none of your business.
I understand there are women out there who regret being pregnant and having children but and this is just my opinion,once born be responsible and love them and nuture them.Thats all I am saying really.

“Becoming a better me!”

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#229831 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>You never know,it just might.
I'm not in the least worried.

“Becoming a better me!”

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#229832 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>I understand there are women out there who regret being pregnant and having children but and this is just my opinion,once born be responsible and love them and nuture them.Thats all I am saying really.
Men should be responsible for their children too, but they don't.

It's been happening as long as people have been having children.

You cannot force anyone to be responsible for something as simple as brushing their teeth every day,let alone taking care of children.

If they know they can't be responsible, then be responsible and prevent the birth of an unwanted child.

“Becoming a better me!”

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#229833 Apr 30, 2013
sorry, that was a really convoluted post! I think I need some caffeine. I'll try again later.

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#229834 Apr 30, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
sorry, that was a really convoluted post! I think I need some caffeine. I'll try again later.
Don't bother. I know your feelings on killing a baby in the womb. Save your breath.

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

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#229835 Apr 30, 2013
Men should be responsible for their born children, as should the women who bear those children. For whatever reason, though, the onus of caring for children seems to fall more heavily on women.

No one can be forced to be responsible for anything. To expect a woman with no maternal instinct to suddenly develop enough to care for an infant is ridiculous.

An infant is helpless and needs care 24/7, yet the Pro-Fetus league doesn't take that into consideration. They use that helpless infant as a tool to subjugate women and to push their own agenda of male chauvinism.

If they CARED about the infant, any infant, they'd want children to be loved and wanted from conception. Instead, they focus on the 9 months prior to birth, and never consider the needs, or the condition of the infant AFTER birth.

They would insist no child be born unwanted or unloved, and would spend their energy and money on BORN, EXISTING children who desperately need help today. Instead, they spend their energy berating women for having sex, and insisting they retain a pregnancy, without considering if that woman is equipped mentally, emotionally, or financially to care for a child.
Ocean56

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#229836 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
I understand there are women out there who regret being pregnant and having children but and this is just my opinion,once born be responsible and love them and nuture them.Thats all I am saying really.
No, you have ALSO said that having an abortion, long before there's any baby or child involved, is somehow a "bad" thing. That is also your OPINION, not fact, and it's an opinion I don't agree with.

Given the choice between an abortion of a clearly unwanted pregnancy to a woman who doesn't like or want children, and forcing such a woman to have a child she never wanted, I'll choose the abortion every time. Not YOUR pregnancy? Not your decision. Deal with it.
LightForce

Warren, MI

#229837 Apr 30, 2013
NWmoon wrote:
<quoted text>They aren't children. I am against the unlawful killing of living breathing human beings.
You, on the other hand, don't give a fig about them once they're born, you only care about forcing women to gestate whether they want to or not.
Ignorant pile of waste, just like lippy.
But if it was legal it would be OK?

What would make you think that I want to force a woman to gestate if I never even forced her to have sex or not? The truth is that you just don’t want to give the child a choice to live. You’re anti-choice - I’m pro-choice.

Since: Sep 07

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#229838 Apr 30, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
Men should be responsible for their born children, as should the women who bear those children. For whatever reason, though, the onus of caring for children seems to fall more heavily on women.
No one can be forced to be responsible for anything. To expect a woman with no maternal instinct to suddenly develop enough to care for an infant is ridiculous.
An infant is helpless and needs care 24/7, yet the Pro-Fetus league doesn't take that into consideration. They use that helpless infant as a tool to subjugate women and to push their own agenda of male chauvinism.
If they CARED about the infant, any infant, they'd want children to be loved and wanted from conception. Instead, they focus on the 9 months prior to birth, and never consider the needs, or the condition of the infant AFTER birth.
They would insist no child be born unwanted or unloved, and would spend their energy and money on BORN, EXISTING children who desperately need help today. Instead, they spend their energy berating women for having sex, and insisting they retain a pregnancy, without considering if that woman is equipped mentally, emotionally, or financially to care for a child.
Well I have to say some of the stuff you say makes sense but some doesn't. I don't just care about the nine months. I care very much about the needs of that baby after born. But I will also say many women who think they don't want that child fall in love with that baby after born. Maybe it is rough for them but there is lots of help out there. But I will also say not all men say they don't want the responsibility,some step up to the plate and are very responsible. I will never in my life say abortion is the most loving thing you could do. And yes I will bring God into it. God created that little baby and knew from the moment of conception what his plans were for that baby.For a woman to interfere with his plan is IMO just pure selfish.

“Becoming a better me!”

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#229839 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>Well I have to say some of the stuff you say makes sense but some doesn't. I don't just care about the nine months. I care very much about the needs of that baby after born. But I will also say many women who think they don't want that child fall in love with that baby after born. Maybe it is rough for them but there is lots of help out there. But I will also say not all men say they don't want the responsibility,some step up to the plate and are very responsible. I will never in my life say abortion is the most loving thing you could do. And yes I will bring God into it. God created that little baby and knew from the moment of conception what his plans were for that baby.For a woman to interfere with his plan is IMO just pure selfish.
I didn't say ALL women, nor did I say ALL men. Re-read the post for comprehension.

And those women who think they might fall in love with that baby, more power to them for having the baby.

But just because SOME might, does NOT mean every woman should carry EVERY pregnancy to term. There ARE women with no maternal instinct, and should they fall pregnant, they have to do the most responsible thing for them AND for any possible child. If that is giving it up for adoption, then do that. IF it's having an abortion, then do that.

God is your belief. It applies only to you.

“I'm here with bells on.”

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#229840 Apr 30, 2013
LightForce wrote:
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OK, let’s see how your commentary compares with somebody who spent most of their life studying the Bible – John Gill.
Naah. Let's not, and say we did.

Liam is right, you're wrong, and so is Gill.

End of story.

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

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#229841 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>Well I have to say some of the stuff you say makes sense but some doesn't. I don't just care about the nine months. I care very much about the needs of that baby after born. But I will also say many women who think they don't want that child fall in love with that baby after born. Maybe it is rough for them but there is lots of help out there. But I will also say not all men say they don't want the responsibility,some step up to the plate and are very responsible. I will never in my life say abortion is the most loving thing you could do. And yes I will bring God into it. God created that little baby and knew from the moment of conception what his plans were for that baby.For a woman to interfere with his plan is IMO just pure selfish.
How are you to know that 'his plan' doesn't include abortion?

After all, can mere humans, pitiful creatures that we are, actually THWART the plans of an omniscient omnipresent GOD???

"Interfere with God's plan" sounds like an impossible concept, to me - He's GOD. We can only carry out HIS PLAN...and we do.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Columbus, OH

#229842 Apr 30, 2013
LightForce wrote:
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So your saying that your own personal rights don't matter?
In some cases they don't.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Columbus, OH

#229843 Apr 30, 2013
LightForce wrote:
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How many people is "we"?
However many it takes.

Since: Feb 08

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#229844 Apr 30, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>It isn't yours either.
But none of the pro choicers are trying to threaten women with damnation or tell them what they HAVE to do when they find themselves unexpectedly pregnant.
That is ALL on you and yours. YOU are the ones condemning women for their choices and insulting them for what they chose. YOU are the ones who think you have the right to tell them what to do.
WE only want them to have a choice in what they do, you want them to only make the choice YOU would make.
You're a hypocrite of the lowest sort.

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#229845 Apr 30, 2013
LightForce wrote:
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But if it was legal it would be OK?
What would make you think that I want to force a woman to gestate if I never even forced her to have sex or not? The truth is that you just don’t want to give the child a choice to live. You’re anti-choice - I’m pro-choice.
Nice try imbecile, but no. The truth is you are only pro fetus, and pro forced birth. You've said so time and again.
Again, I have attempted to bring EVERY pregnancy I've had to term. That was MY CHOICE. You don't want women to have choice.
Wads of goo are not children, they are not babies. They are incomplete and not persons. Just wads of goo.

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