when you have to invent a new name and come in as a grey boxer, you have lost your standing.I was born a premature baby and I do have FAS and I lead a very protective life. I do a lot of volunteer work helping kids deal with day to day issues. I have talked with kids in the schools and I have also been on the news and panels to discuss the effects of alcohol while it is being consumed by a pregnant woman. My mother could have had an abortion but decided no to and give me a fighting chance and I am here to tell you that people with FAS like myself can lead normal productive and rewarding lives.
and even if it were true, most people with FAS do NOT lead a productive life as you describe. they exist.
again let me point out, i am a mental health professional.
you are really desperate.