“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#228994 Apr 11, 2013
Ocean56 wrote:
<quoted text>
Exactly, and I think what you said definitely applies to the anti-choice crowd. From all I've read from their often-tedious posts, they appear to follow some form of life script, which tells them they "must" (in their minds at least) get married and have children, and in the case of the militant religionists, go to church every Sunday. They're told that it's "selfish" for them to make any OTHER decisions (like NOT to get married, have children, or go to church), and instead of having the courage to disagree and follow their own path, they mindlessly follow along.
The way I see it, that's why some of them go ballistic when people, especially women, have decided NOT to marry and NOT to have children, at any point in their lives. They have spent THEIR whole lives following "the script," so they believe everyone else "must" do the same. The impression I get from them is "my life sucks, and yours should too," even if they don't say that directly.
That pretty much sums it up! These same women who "wanted" children spend all day on FB complaining about their children and husband. Out of all my friends who has marriages and children, only ONE ever says anything nice about them. It's sad.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#228995 Apr 11, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>This is just not true. There is nothing wrong with a woman not getting married or not having children.
You're one of the few on here who has said so.

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#228996 Apr 11, 2013
Grunt56 wrote:
<quoted text>
Why do you set your personal limit at 12 weeks?
Key word being "personal". Why should she justify her PERSONAL limit for anything??

You certainly don't.

What is your "personal" limit on the number of times you masturbate?

What is your "personal" limit on how much life you take?

What is your personal limit on bashing others for their choices?

The world may never know.

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#228997 Apr 11, 2013
Life is Precious wrote:
<quoted text>Liar!, you wouldn't know honesty if it slapped you in your fat face.
She might if you did it with one of your used cucumbers. The smell would at least catch her attention....

:)

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#228998 Apr 11, 2013
Mpnf1979 wrote:
<quoted text>
You're one of the few on here who has said so.
That is just not true! Even the grunting one has said there's nothing wrong with a woman eschewing marriage and children - as long as she never ever ever ever gets pregnant. Which is always Lippy's caveat, as well.

(What's a caveat, Lippy?)

;)

Lippy never said there was anything right with remaining marriage- and child-free, either.

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#228999 Apr 11, 2013
Sister Kathryn Lust wrote:
<quoted text>She might if you did it with one of your used cucumbers. The smell would at least catch her attention....
:)
EW! What did I ever do to you?!?!?!?!?!

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#229000 Apr 11, 2013
Sister Kathryn Lust wrote:
<quoted text>That is just not true! Even the grunting one has said there's nothing wrong with a woman eschewing marriage and children - as long as she never ever ever ever gets pregnant. Which is always Lippy's caveat, as well.
(What's a caveat, Lippy?)
;)
Lippy never said there was anything right with remaining marriage- and child-free, either.
I meant of the forced bithers...lol. Idiot boy had made some comment about me "choosing not to marry" and while I don't think I read the rest of it, I assumed it was something negative. You know, like everything else in his life. ;-P

Usually if a woman like myself has said she doesn't care to marry, then they come back with "because no man will have you!" further proving that they buy into some archaic notion that it is completely up to the man as to whether two people marry or not. Pfft.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#229001 Apr 11, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
<quoted text>
EW! What did I ever do to you?!?!?!?!?!
I literally LOL'd at this one...

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#229002 Apr 11, 2013
Mpnf1979 wrote:
<quoted text>
That pretty much sums it up! These same women who "wanted" children spend all day on FB complaining about their children and husband. Out of all my friends who has marriages and children, only ONE ever says anything nice about them. It's sad.
Agreed.
And then there's the other end of the spectrum. So many of my friends with kids, want to worship the ground they walk on, put them in a plastic bubble, and let them run the show. These are the ones who still put their third 1-month-olds' bowel movements on facebook, to see if anyone recognizes that color, and OMG!!! is there something wrong with that consistency??? The ones who let their 6-month-old dictate the adults' sleep schedules. The ones who bristle with righteous indignation when someone else does anything whatsoever to criticize their kid. The ones who can't come up with any other topic for conversation than what 'little Pookums' did, or said, or puked today.

They are ALWAYS surprised and 'appalled' when the kid screws up, has a differing opinion, refuses to rectify a personal problem, or acts in ways contrary to expectations.

They're also the ones who end up beating the kid for an infraction, financially supporting the kid for a lifetime, losing the kid to suicide, or committing suicide themselves.

That's sad too.

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229003 Apr 11, 2013
Sister Kathryn Lust wrote:
<quoted text>When my children were at the age of 'riding tricycles', our favorite family pastime was going to the library. When they became teenagers, it was Scrabble tournaments. Yours seems to be railing against women surviving to create and actually BEAR life, after having saved their own with a therapeutic abortion.(That is, when your 'family' goes back to their mother, I'm assuming. Although, it wouldn't surprise me if you sit in front of your computer the entire time you have with your children, and let the television babysit, while you piss and moan and tell outrageous lies like the one above, on an obscure forum, while telling yourself you're 'protecting' something other than your curdled sense of self-worth and superiority....)
<quoted text>Be grateful - at least you're getting attention. It's all you're here for anyway.
most of us came to the conclusion that he is still a virgin. pretending to have a wife and children.

Look at what he was doing easter weekend. IF he had small children as he claims, why was he posting on topix that whole weekend????

He lives in his mommy's basement.

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229004 Apr 11, 2013
Expert in all things wrote:
Back up a sec, she has the choice to use birth control. She has the choice to have sex. She has the choice to get her tubes tied.
No choices?
another blogger who chose a "handle" that does not fit the persona!

NONexpert in all things..........all birth control fails. including surigical birth control.

i had my tubes tied. 7 yrs later i became pregnant twice.

and people will not stop having sex just to please you anti-choicers.

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229005 Apr 11, 2013
Expert in all things wrote:
<quoted text>
So in your reply you acknowledge there are choices, as I said.
Next, I am in a forum, not a bedroom. Maybe people should keep the bedroom out of the public forum, ya think?
no one ever said there weren't choices. abortion is a choice!!!!!!

and it is usually you anti-choicers who bring up the "bedroom"

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229006 Apr 11, 2013
Grunt56 wrote:
<quoted text>
I probably already do.
YOU would have to actually have a job and pay taxes, which you don't!

you spend way too much time on topix to have an actual job. or family.

and just because mommy had a job and pays her taxes, doesn't mean you do!!!!!!!!!!

“I'm here with bells on.”

Since: Jul 12

Location hidden

#229007 Apr 11, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
<quoted text>
EW! What did I ever do to you?!?!?!?!?!
So sorry, Mama-san. It was a dive at Lippy, and I apologize for using you as the springboard.

CANNONBALLLLLLLL!!!!

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229009 Apr 11, 2013
mamma-san wrote:
<quoted text>
I spent some time last night pondering your question.
Should a survivor of an abortion not only be allowed to live, but extraordinary means taken to help it live. Right?
Okay, so let's think about this. You stated "even if the mother doesn't want the infant to live." So...who will take care of this child? Chances are of it is a survivor of an abortion, it's around 20 weeks which the last time I read about it, gives it a less than 10% chance of surviving, and if it does, it's highly likely to have some profound health problems. Who's responsibility will it be? The chances aren't good it will be adopted. This little survivor has some major battles ahead of it and may need constant care. It's not only a major investment of money, but of time, energy, devotion, and possibly a full time job for two or more caregivers.
Again, it's much more than just "keep it alive." It's afterwards. It's not just the moment of conception or the moment it's born. It's a lifetime.
There are many variables here so there IS no cut and dried answer. I honestly cannot just say "yes" or "no" to this.
I agree with the poster who said "no abortions past the point of probably viability." My personal limit for an abortion FOR ME would be 12 weeks. I cannot speak for anyone else.
What you may not realize is that PRO-CHOICE means CHOICES:
The choice to have a child and raise it.
The choice to have a child and give it up for adoption.
The choice to terminate a pregnancy.
It covers ALL choices. Complete reproductive freedom. The ability to delay parenthood until one is completely ready to be a parent.
Imagine a society where every single child born is loved and wanted.
Isn't that far more appealing than a society where every child is born and many just exist...without love, nurturing, shelter, warmth, and the other things that make life worth living?
they never answer this question. they always deflect.

only one person answered the question when asked how much more they are willing to pay in taxes (but then again she doesn't pay taxes!) and it was LIP.

she did say she would adopt/foster as many children as she could if the state would allow it.

Now i understand why the great state of INDIANA won't allow her too!

but to give her credit, she did actually answer the question with no deflecting (but a bit of prevaricating).

“IMAGINE no religion!”

Since: Feb 09

usa

#229010 Apr 11, 2013
WowTheBoogieDown wrote:
What would Jesus think?
..........
hey!!!!!!!!! you know my gardener????!!!!!! AWESOME!

he thinks i am gonna have the best damn looking yard in the neighborhood! then again, that's what we pay him for!

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#229011 Apr 11, 2013
Sister Kathryn Lust wrote:
<quoted text>So sorry, Mama-san. It was a dive at Lippy, and I apologize for using you as the springboard.
CANNONBALLLLLLLL!!!!
I may never eat cucumbers again!
Ella

Newberry, MI

#229012 Apr 11, 2013
Liam R wrote:
<quoted text>
Next time, try reading for comprehension before you post.
Exodus 21:22 If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her, and yet no mischief follow: he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine.
21:23 And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life,
21:24 Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot,
21:25 Burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.
"If men strive, and hurt a woman with child, so that her fruit depart from her..." So, the men cause the pregnant woman to abort the fetus.
"...and yet no mischief follow..." So, the fetus is a slowly drying wad of goo in the dust, but the woman herself was not harmed.
"...he shall be surely punished, according as the woman's husband will lay upon him; and he shall pay as the judges determine." The woman just lost her fetus, aborted,(against her will even) so the husband gets to take them before the judge and he can be paid a few shekels for the loss of a potential child.
But if the WOMAN is hurt, THEN it becomes a serious matter!
"And if any mischief follow, then thou shalt give life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot, burning for burning, wound for wound, stripe for stripe."
Lost fetus = a few shekels, just as if a ox broke loose and damaged as field.
Injured woman = eye for an eye retribution for the injured person.
You are not interpreting scripture correctly. The woman lost the child NOT as an act of her will. When one aborts their child it is an act of choice. It is premeditated...read the scriptures regarding that.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#229013 Apr 11, 2013
Sister Kathryn Lust wrote:
<quoted text>Agreed.
And then there's the other end of the spectrum. So many of my friends with kids, want to worship the ground they walk on, put them in a plastic bubble, and let them run the show. These are the ones who still put their third 1-month-olds' bowel movements on facebook, to see if anyone recognizes that color, and OMG!!! is there something wrong with that consistency??? The ones who let their 6-month-old dictate the adults' sleep schedules. The ones who bristle with righteous indignation when someone else does anything whatsoever to criticize their kid. The ones who can't come up with any other topic for conversation than what 'little Pookums' did, or said, or puked today.
They are ALWAYS surprised and 'appalled' when the kid screws up, has a differing opinion, refuses to rectify a personal problem, or acts in ways contrary to expectations.
They're also the ones who end up beating the kid for an infraction, financially supporting the kid for a lifetime, losing the kid to suicide, or committing suicide themselves.
That's sad too.
I have a cousin whom I am almost positive has some form of Munchhausen. Her kids are always "sick" and she posts quite frequently on FB about what's going on the entire time they're at the doctor's office. Once her son had a fractured skull because she said her daughter picked the baby up and dropped him on his head. While at the hospital, she was using her phone to get onto FB. I thought, "If my kid had a serious injury, the last thing I would be thinking about was FB." Anyway, she's always posting the gross stuff that could easily be google'd, but she wants the attention. She ended up quoting the bible about spare the rod, spoil the child. I argued with her that while I don't think there's anything wrong with smacking your kid on the butt (my parents did to me and I turned out just fine) that corporal punishment is actually largely ineffective and often times just makes the child fearful of the parent rather than understand what he or she did was wrong. I posted studies that showed that children who are beaten as children often go on to have a propensity toward violence and become depressed.

She deleted me. Some people don't like to hear the truth. And to hit your child in the name of "god"? Yeah, no.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

Hightstown, NJ

#229015 Apr 11, 2013
Ella wrote:
<quoted text>
You are not interpreting scripture correctly. The woman lost the child NOT as an act of her will. When one aborts their child it is an act of choice. It is premeditated...read the scriptures regarding that.
God condones abortions. He sees nothing wrong with regretting the life you may create and aborting it.

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