There is Everything Wrong with Abortion

Since: Feb 08

Philadelphia, PA

#226643 Dec 2, 2012
Mpnf1979 wrote:
Unfortunately, my happiness was short-lived. After my consideration, I decided to terminate my pregnancy. There were many factors, one being that my boyfriend of 7 years decided to move to Kuwait (he left today) for a job that would take him out of the picture for the next year. I moved to where I live now because he moved here to be closer to his daughter. I have no support system, no family (they're hours away) and I'd basically be going through an entire pregnancy and delivery by myself, not to mention caring the a baby by myself. Furthermore, we already had a rocky relationship, but I found out some information about him that made me realize that having a child with him would be the worst possible decision I could ever make. So today I made the right decision for me and ended my pregnancy. It's unfortunate, but I can't say that I was anything but confident that this was the absolute best decision. I just thought I would tell some of you since I had already told you all and I'm sure I'd be getting questions about how everything was going. I don't expect most people to understand, but as we've all discussed on here so many times, no one can make that decision but ourselves.
I understand. Take good care of yourself.
Solai

Lake Worth, FL

#226645 Dec 2, 2012
Mpnf1979 wrote:
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I will conceded that she probably needs to take more responsibility when it comes to birth control. But if she chooses to end those pregnancies, for whatever reason, that's her prerogative. Do I think it was necessary for her to abort six fetuses? It's not up to me to decide what is and what isn't necessary for her. That's HER decision. I don't see how adoption is better. Especially for the woman. To have to endure nine months of pregnancy, give birth and then give the child away to a perfect stranger? No way.
What you don't understand is that in ALL situations, the woman should have the option to do what's best for her. It would be difficult in any situation, regardless of how the fetus was conceived, to carry a pregnancy to term just to give the child away. If someone is capable of it, great for them. They made the best choice for them and their conscience. But me, I'm going to terminate my pregnancy. That was the best option for me.
This wome who would always get abortions, her mother was mad at her for what she did because she wanted a grandchild. She even posted it on FB about getting the last abortion, she didnt have the decency to tell her mom because her mom was mad at for the other fetuses. She had no remorse for what she did...I understand no option is an easy option for some women,and others just don't care.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

West Bloomfield, MI

#226646 Dec 2, 2012
CherryTheTart wrote:
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I understand. Take good care of yourself.
Thanks.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

West Bloomfield, MI

#226647 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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This wome who would always get abortions, her mother was mad at her for what she did because she wanted a grandchild. She even posted it on FB about getting the last abortion, she didnt have the decency to tell her mom because her mom was mad at for the other fetuses. She had no remorse for what she did...I understand no option is an easy option for some women,and others just don't care.
She has no obligation to have a child just because her mother wanted another grandchild. What kind of excuse is that to have a child? I'm sure my mom would love to have another grandchild, but I'm not going to go out and have a child and raise a child for 18+ years just to make her happy.

She doesn't have to feel remorse. She made the right decision for her. I don't necessarily agree that a person should be so careless with their birth control that many times, but I'd much rather her have an abortion than bring a life into this world she does not want.
Solai

Lake Worth, FL

#226648 Dec 2, 2012
Mpnf1979 wrote:
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She has no obligation to have a child just because her mother wanted another grandchild. What kind of excuse is that to have a child? I'm sure my mom would love to have another grandchild, but I'm not going to go out and have a child and raise a child for 18+ years just to make her happy.
She doesn't have to feel remorse. She made the right decision for her. I don't necessarily agree that a person should be so careless with their birth control that many times, but I'd much rather her have an abortion than bring a life into this world she does not want.
That's beyond the point, all I'm saying is that her mother disagreed with her decision and was really upset that she posted it on FB...she waited until the 2nd trimester to have the abortion also, she intended to have one of those fetuses.

Since: Feb 08

Philadelphia, PA

#226649 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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This wome who would always get abortions, her mother was mad at her for what she did because she wanted a grandchild. She even posted it on FB about getting the last abortion, she didnt have the decency to tell her mom because her mom was mad at for the other fetuses. She had no remorse for what she did...I understand no option is an easy option for some women,and others just don't care.
Do you have a sex life of your own?

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

West Bloomfield, MI

#226650 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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That's beyond the point, all I'm saying is that her mother disagreed with her decision and was really upset that she posted it on FB...she waited until the 2nd trimester to have the abortion also, she intended to have one of those fetuses.
Who CARES what someone puts on FB? And sounds like her mother is an A**hole for putting such private information out there about her daughter and her personal decisions. Just because she had a second trimester abortion doesn't mean she had any intention of finding out. Perhaps she didn't know. Who knows. But in all honesty, it sounds like you're a little too preoccupied with what this woman chooses to do or not do. Maybe you should find a life of your own instead of sitting around and finding time to judge others.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

West Bloomfield, MI

#226651 Dec 2, 2012
CherryTheTart wrote:
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Do you have a sex life of your own?
It's not appearing as if she has ANY life of her own.
Solai

Lake Worth, FL

#226652 Dec 2, 2012
Mpnf1979 wrote:
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Who CARES what someone puts on FB? And sounds like her mother is an A**hole for putting such private information out there about her daughter and her personal decisions. Just because she had a second trimester abortion doesn't mean she had any intention of finding out. Perhaps she didn't know. Who knows. But in all honesty, it sounds like you're a little too preoccupied with what this woman chooses to do or not do. Maybe you should find a life of your own instead of sitting around and finding time to judge others.
Her mother didn't post it she did!...who posts that they just had an abortion.Someone needs to get their morals in check,seriously!...Its not judging it's right from wrong!...N ya I'm the one that needs to get a life,sure?..But I'm the1 judgin'?

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#226653 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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That's beyond the point, all I'm saying is that her mother disagreed with her decision and was really upset that she posted it on FB...she waited until the 2nd trimester to have the abortion also, she intended to have one of those fetuses.
So what if her mother disagreed? That's no one's business but theirs.

People disagree all the time. It doesn't mean that one disagreeing is right and the other wrong.

You don't know WHY that woman had a 2nd trimester abortion, I take it. Did it occur to you that it may have been for the woman's health? Or that something was very wrong with the fetus?

Regardless, it's not YOUR body, therefore your opinion matters only to you.

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#226654 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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Her mother didn't post it she did!...who posts that they just had an abortion.Someone needs to get their morals in check,seriously!...Its not judging it's right from wrong!...N ya I'm the one that needs to get a life,sure?..But I'm the1 judgin'?
Who made you the judge of what is moral and what is not?

Seriously, mind your own business and get a life. What someone else does with their reproductive decisions is NOT your concern.

“Ignorance is bliss.”

Since: May 11

West Bloomfield, MI

#226655 Dec 2, 2012
Solai wrote:
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Her mother didn't post it she did!...who posts that they just had an abortion.Someone needs to get their morals in check,seriously!...Its not judging it's right from wrong!...N ya I'm the one that needs to get a life,sure?..But I'm the1 judgin'?
Yes, you ARE judging. It's none of your business. I don't know why she'd post anything on FB about having an abortion, but again - HER business.

Since: Feb 08

Philadelphia, PA

#226656 Dec 3, 2012
Mpnf1979 wrote:
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It's not appearing as if she has ANY life of her own.
I agree. She seems fixated on the "bad girl." Maybe she is gay? Maybe she envies bad girl her freedom, sexual and otherwise?

Since: Feb 08

Philadelphia, PA

#226657 Dec 3, 2012
Solai wrote:
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That's beyond the point, all I'm saying is that her mother disagreed with her decision and was really upset that she posted it on FB...she waited until the 2nd trimester to have the abortion also, she intended to have one of those fetuses.
You are small minded and dumber than a box of Twinkies.

Since: Feb 08

Philadelphia, PA

#226658 Dec 3, 2012
Solai wrote:
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This wome who would always get abortions, her mother was mad at her for what she did because she wanted a grandchild. She even posted it on FB about getting the last abortion, she didnt have the decency to tell her mom because her mom was mad at for the other fetuses. She had no remorse for what she did...I understand no option is an easy option for some women,and others just don't care.
So do you want to criminalize abortion and force women "who just don't care" to be Mothers?

“No Allah: know peace”

Since: Jun 07

A sacred grove in Tujunga, CA

#226659 Dec 3, 2012
Doctor REALITY wrote:
How many of you women who choose to abort your pregnacies would like to stand before Almighty God on Judgement Day and have the Lord bring the soul of the baby you aborted before His Throne so that you and see the soul of the preson you chose to MURDER through abortion??
Silly child, fetuses do not have souls, so it is impossible to murder a fetus.

Also, the God of the Bible does not have any problem with abortion. If He did, there would be a verse in the Torah calling it a sin. There is no such verse. On the other hand, there are several verses that say that it IS a sin to add anything to the list of sins listed in the Torah. Better repent now, and stop making up such lies in the future.

“No Allah: know peace”

Since: Jun 07

A sacred grove in Tujunga, CA

#226660 Dec 3, 2012
Solai wrote:
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This wome who would always get abortions, her mother was mad at her for what she did because she wanted a grandchild. She even posted it on FB about getting the last abortion, she didnt have the decency to tell her mom because her mom was mad at for the other fetuses. She had no remorse for what she did...I understand no option is an easy option for some women,and others just don't care.
Why should she have any remorse? Remorse is for when you do something wrong, and regret it. The only thing that she should have remose about is her inability to use birth control responsibly.

“Think BIG!”

Since: Dec 12

National City, CA

#226662 Dec 4, 2012
Nothing in life truly means anything other than the meanings you place upon them....the fact that we are mere electromagnetic energy beings housed in these machines we identify as bodies leaves the gateway open to explore in the possibility that a soul doesn't actually truly arrive in the baby body machine until closer to its scheduled birthdate.

“Becoming a better me!”

Since: Jul 09

Location hidden

#226664 Dec 4, 2012
Many Pro-Birthers have stated that a woman doesn't "have the right" to choose death for her unborn z/e/f.

Yet, they have no issues with the fact that we can choose life for that z/e/f.

Another inconsistency!
Nanack Kenden

Racine, WI

#226665 Dec 4, 2012
mamma-san wrote:
Many Pro-Birthers have stated that a woman doesn't "have the right" to choose death for her unborn z/e/f.
Yet, they have no issues with the fact that we can choose life for that z/e/f.
Another inconsistency!
That's a joke. right?

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