Nope, that's not what I've ever said.There doesn't have to be an actual connection. They don't have to share the same views or proclivities or opinions or desires or morals or beliefs. They just have to belong to the same group so that common association will allow people to connect other things that aren't related.
Christian message <> Christians <> Two different concepts.
You did make that statement, however, in regards to Boy Scouts of America.