So you do want to be forced and you do want God to come to you on your terms. That's interesting. You say you've been in churches a lot throughout your life, you should know that man is on God's terms, not God on man's.<quoted text>
Force? No. If your god exists, I want to be made to comply with it happily. Why would I want anything else?
Not if you had the power to prevent them from making them.
What would be the point in existing if God controlled every step of our lives? That would be the only way for us to live out our lives without making any mistakes. If that were the case, then I would agree with your assumption that we have no free will. But since bad things happen, and evil people exist, and murders occur, and rape happens, etc. that tells me that God does not control anything that we do.