Without knowing exactly what you mean, I am guessing that you are saying that your wife lived the life of a lesbian, and then somehow, or for some reason, changed and married you, who I assume is a man. Curious claim, but I would need more information about her previous claim of being lesbian (if that is what you refer to), what the hell was she lived (which I suspect the life of a lesbian can be hell, especially in the past and in some places because of the horrible and unjustified persecution of gay people by bigots).<quoted text>
Uh no. The word of God is quite clear on it. I just see his rants as pointless. My wife lived it and all the hell that goes with it. Latter.
If she was living as a lesbian then switched to the life of a heterosexual, then I would need some more information about her true sexuality, since it would appear that either then or now she was/is confused about her true sexual orientation, or she is a true bi-sexual.
Not being homosexual myself, I can only hypothesize about these matters, because I have not had to deal with being part of a persecuted minority like that.
Because of unjust societal pressure and persecution throughout most of history against homosexuals, I am aware that many of them have experienced living a 'hell' through no fault of their own, other than being true to themselves.