Well, sumbitch.....<quoted text>
I understand your thinking even though I don't agree with it. At one time...I would have thought the same thing.
Look at it this way...
If a heathen had sex with a Christian...would that make the heathen a Christian? or...
If one was in to mules...would that make that person a mule?
I learned through one of my teens that I mentored for a while about "experimenting". She was straight but wanted to experience same-sex sex.
If someone tries drugs once...does that make them a drug addict?
I tried bowling for a while...believe me...it didn't turn me in to a bowler.
Your sexuality is who you are...not always defined by your actions.
There are some homosexuals that have had only heterosexual experiences and never had gay sex. It didn't make them straight...because the homosexual feeling were still there.
You are equating feelings with acts...two entirely different things.
Then if you take into account...societal pressures...putting on the front to cover up what you really feel. Some people will live a lie just so that they don't have to deal with society and the condemnation. It doesn't change who they are however.
Don't know if this helped but maybe it gives you something to think about.
That makes perfect sense.
"I tried bowling for a while...it didn't turn me in to a bowler"
Thank you for an open & honest response.
I still have more questions, I'll post them as they come.