Thanks to you as well.The words people use, people choose for many reasons, and those reasons may vary, but I know that as far as it concerns IANS, Tide, myself and many others, they are chosen to communicate precisely what they mean, and the meaning is important and it isn't up for you to decide what the person intended, especially when the person has clarified just exactly what it those words, that sentence, that paragraph did mean.
See? You took what I said, and added something that wasn't implied, as a matter of fact, I said what I meant. Now, what did I say concerning friendship?
There's your problem. You do not comprehend what you read, and in your incomprehension, it becomes something else unrelated to what was said.
Dim is a great testimony to the power of his religion. Look at how little it does for him. One can only assume that that is all it does for anybody, and that the better Christians are better for having been born better or raised better.
But with a person like Dim with little or no inborn or acquired character to confound the matter, you can see the isolated benefit of his faith - none. You see the power of the Spirit unaided by nature and nurture.