Why do white women love black men?
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#217 Jul 9, 2012
Reverend Vegas wrote:
Usually it's the low self esteem. Especially the white girls with identity crisis that talk all ghetto black. They act like they're the shit but they know their just shit...
You know what, I have dated black women and I never acted like I was black or from the hood. How fake is that, when some of these women grew up in the suburbs and they talk like they are from East St. Louis.
Love BBC

Haslet, TX

#218 Jul 9, 2012
yomama wrote:
My point is, you have probably been with black men who have more experience than the white men you have been with, because you haven't been with any white man that most women desire, therefore they aren't as good from lack of experience. Not trying to be hateful but I hang around some black dudes and they will fu.. women you would have to pay me to fu...
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I believe yours is wrong and only helps perpetuate stereotypes..but you have every right to believe it. I'm not going to waste my time arguing, because I highly doubt that even the most intelligent debate is going to change anyone's mind on topix.:)
Love BBC

Haslet, TX

#219 Jul 9, 2012
yomama wrote:
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You know what, I have dated black women and I never acted like I was black or from the hood. How fake is that, when some of these women grew up in the suburbs and they talk like they are from East St. Louis.
This I will agree with. I am not from the ghetto, therefore nobody will ever hear me speak like I live in one. I do not always speak in perfect English, and I do use slang, but I don't speak ghetto.
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#220 Jul 9, 2012
Love BBC wrote:
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This I will agree with. I am not from the ghetto, therefore nobody will ever hear me speak like I live in one. I do not always speak in perfect English, and I do use slang, but I don't speak ghetto.
Nice name, pretty classy. You do articulate very well though, surprisingly.
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#221 Jul 9, 2012
And you can say what you want, but I just came back from the gym and what I posted previously was right in front of me. A built, decent looking black dude with a dimple assed, muffin topped white woman who had to weigh 235 if I am 185. A black dude would say she is "thick" and I say she is grossly obese. They can have a mixed child that is obese and has diabetes and hypertension, how wonderful. Man, where do I sign up?!
Love BBC

United States

#222 Jul 9, 2012
yomama wrote:
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Nice name, pretty classy. You do articulate very well though, surprisingly.
Hey, I admitted I was a little over the top with the name. I was in one of those moods I guess and honestly didn't plan on posting to this particular thread anymore. Just as I surprised you by being articulate, you have surprised me by not merely resorting to childish name calling. Stereotypes happen for a reason. I agree that a large portion of interracial couples are exactly as you described. I just don't see what it should matter to the rest of the world.
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#223 Jul 9, 2012
Love BBC wrote:
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Hey, I admitted I was a little over the top with the name. I was in one of those moods I guess and honestly didn't plan on posting to this particular thread anymore. Just as I surprised you by being articulate, you have surprised me by not merely resorting to childish name calling. Stereotypes happen for a reason. I agree that a large portion of interracial couples are exactly as you described. I just don't see what it should matter to the rest of the world.
And that's fine, and I don't care if you date black men, but the whole header to this topix is to ultimately try and belittle white men. How would someone like, "White men are smarter on average, are more loyal to their wives and girlfriends, less likely to be involved in a crime, more likely to hold a job and pay their bills and in general don't abandon their kids nearly as often as black men." Would that be an acceptable post to black men? If someone wants to find fault with my race, I will find fault with theirs, but generalized statements about any race, just piss people off. I am a proud, strong white man and I have had many lovers, black and white and I am pretty sure I satisfied all of them, as I am a pleaser and was very conscience to their actions afterward to see if it was genuine or not because them getting off was probably more important than me getting off, because it is a personal turn on. I am not one of the dudes that only wants to get mine. I have had 3 black women that only came over to fu.. me, so apparently this white man is doing something right. I have had a significant amount of white women and in my wilder days, the women told me the only reason they stayed with me was because of the level of the sex between us, otherwise they would have left me for my crazy actions because of my wild lifestyle. So I am pretty sure there are some pretty phenomenal white male lovers as well. Ultimately it doesn't matter, live and let live, but don't put my race down in the process.
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#224 Jul 9, 2012
And if you think I am racist but black men aren't, then why is it whenever I went out with a pretty black woman in public, the black men around always gave me the mean mug. I was ready to fight a whole crowd of black men, and I know I would have gotten my ass kicked as I am not capable of fighting 10 men, black or white, because of the comments being made. I said in earlier posts that I am a tough looking white dude, so not one really made an outright comment, they just mumbled shit under their breath, but I am not stupid and with them all staring at me, I knew they were pissed. If it were reversed then I would have been a huge redneck. Why the double standard? Its bullsh.t.
Love BBC

United States

#225 Jul 9, 2012
I can understand your point completely. Sometimes maybe I get caught up trying to defend having a relationship with a black man, that I inadvertently do to white men exactly what I'm trying to get other people to stop doing. I have no doubt that there are great lovers of every ethnicity. I have been with white men that were very good in bed. My greatest lovers have been black, but I think that's more about the chemistry between us...not the color of their skin.
yomama

Saint Louis, MO

#226 Jul 10, 2012
One last thing and I am done, even those in agreement with me are probably tired of my opinion, I am not ignorant. I do have something nice to say about black people but its about the women. I see more and more in the younger black women the independence and swag that they have. They don't need men, they have learned to live without a man, they may have boyfriends but they are not dependent on them. They, I think at some point will become possibly the most dominant in business because they are so strong minded. This will sound racist as hell, but black men many times will get with a fugly white woman, if the white woman will take care of their ass. I hang around black men and they hustle, even from others they act like they are friends with. In my opinion they don't have a conscience like the white men, because apparently we are soft. They will use a white woman who likes them and the woman thinks giving them stuff will keep them around. Many white men would feel guilty about doing that, not all, but many would. Many black men have no problem hustling a person, acting like they love a woman and using them and have absolutely no conscience about it whatsoever. I went through that period briefly in my late teens and early twenties, but you reap what you sow and I lost a good woman because of it. After that I just couldn't do it anymore, because I realized how mean it was to manipulate people. Black men don't care. But you will call that swag. You aint hustling a strong minded black woman, they just know better and have more sense. You white women are just too damn gullible, I mentioned I went through that player period and I got away with murder, but again it was a short period and then I quit. But you go on and think what you want to think, but I bet at some point you will realize what I am saying. My props to black women, even though they probably hate what I am saying, even though it is not directed at them, but because they are black as well. My apologies, I am just calling it like I see it.

Since: Sep 11

Chattanooga, TN

#227 Jul 11, 2012
Love BBC wrote:
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I see your point, but actually no that's not the only reason I date black men. And for the record, I don't only date black men. Maybe I was being a little over the top with the username and my statement. I would not turn away from a man because he is white. I date men based on their character. I will still argue that, in general, black men do make better lovers. ;)
exactly, only lovers.

Since: Sep 11

Chattanooga, TN

#228 Jul 11, 2012
yomama wrote:
One last thing and I am done, even those in agreement with me are probably tired of my opinion, I am not ignorant. I do have something nice to say about black people but its about the women. I see more and more in the younger black women the independence and swag that they have. They don't need men, they have learned to live without a man, they may have boyfriends but they are not dependent on them. They, I think at some point will become possibly the most dominant in business because they are so strong minded. This will sound racist as hell, but black men many times will get with a fugly white woman, if the white woman will take care of their ass. I hang around black men and they hustle, even from others they act like they are friends with. In my opinion they don't have a conscience like the white men, because apparently we are soft. They will use a white woman who likes them and the woman thinks giving them stuff will keep them around. Many white men would feel guilty about doing that, not all, but many would. Many black men have no problem hustling a person, acting like they love a woman and using them and have absolutely no conscience about it whatsoever. I went through that period briefly in my late teens and early twenties, but you reap what you sow and I lost a good woman because of it. After that I just couldn't do it anymore, because I realized how mean it was to manipulate people. Black men don't care. But you will call that swag. You aint hustling a strong minded black woman, they just know better and have more sense. You white women are just too damn gullible, I mentioned I went through that player period and I got away with murder, but again it was a short period and then I quit. But you go on and think what you want to think, but I bet at some point you will realize what I am saying. My props to black women, even though they probably hate what I am saying, even though it is not directed at them, but because they are black as well. My apologies, I am just calling it like I see it.
Everything you just said made every bit of sense. Most of it is true how bm treat women, whether she's black or white. I'm not saying that all bm do this because i know that there are good,decent working and nice bm out there but finding that good black man is like you trying to find a diamond in the ruff or a needle in a haystack.
big daddy

Haslet, TX

#229 Jul 11, 2012
They get knock up by a. Coon and have a monkey t
Dude

Tucson, AZ

#230 Jul 21, 2012
Yeah, no surprise women wanting to feel like trash. Over time they realize the mistake of being with black men when the welfare check runs out and he throws her on the street for "mo money". Sure there are some successful black men out there, but that's like looking for a specific black guy in a sea of black people. Call me a racist because I don't care about your opinion when fact trumps your liberal white guilt. It's sad really when so many good men put their lives on the line so we can be equal, and what do they do? Ask for more on the taxpayers earned money. Quick question, how do you starve a black man? Hide the food stamps in his work boots, yet, he probably wouldn't own a pair.
fuckyau

Quogue, NY

#231 Aug 14, 2012
Why does it matter?

Since: Jan 11

United States

#232 Aug 14, 2012
The same reason why asian women love white men.
aur56

Monett, MO

#233 Aug 15, 2012
Dude wrote:
Yeah, no surprise women wanting to feel like trash. Over time they realize the mistake of being with black men when the welfare check runs out and he throws her on the street for "mo money". Sure there are some successful black men out there, but that's like looking for a specific black guy in a sea of black people. Call me a racist because I don't care about your opinion when fact trumps your liberal white guilt. It's sad really when so many good men put their lives on the line so we can be equal, and what do they do? Ask for more on the taxpayers earned money. Quick question, how do you starve a black man? Hide the food stamps in his work boots, yet, he probably wouldn't own a pair.
Do you know what stereotype means? You idiot...You ARE a racist and I assume you are proud of it.I mean, why wouldn't you be? You and the KKK are hand in hand..pig

“wittol white boy!”

Since: Nov 13

St Louis

#234 Mar 30, 2014
My wife grew up in a small Illinois farming town, and was exposed to very racist attitudes. When she went to college, she dated a black guy, and became fascinated with black culture. She dated black men almost exclusively before we met, and continues to do so today! She enjoys both a comfortable suburban lifestyle, and an exotically active sex life!
eyeKnow

Piggott, AR

#236 Apr 6, 2014
"Why do white women love black men? " because television promotes it, just like it promotes drugs, killing your own children, anal "F"ing, and all sorts of weird immoral stuff ... it's cool!
Larry Williams

Hickory, NC

#238 May 8, 2014
luvher wrote:
My wife grew up in a small Illinois farming town, and was exposed to very racist attitudes. When she went to college, she dated a black guy, and became fascinated with black culture. She dated black men almost exclusively before we met, and continues to do so today! She enjoys both a comfortable suburban lifestyle, and an exotically active sex life!
I would never date or marry any white skank who dated an n-word.
We say it in North Carolina, but I'll be 'politically correct, here.
Also, if I could have every wish I asked for come true, but I had to become black
for that to happen, I wouldn't do it.
Two of my best friends, Richard and Roger, are black.
I like them better than my siblings, but the above still holds true.
Mixing those two races has brought America down.
We brought them up some, but they dragged us down.

Rant and rave all you want to......I won't return to read it.
When I click on "post comment" that's it.
I frankly don't care what you say.

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