Doing for things that they could, and should be doing themselves, such as calling in an addict sick for work, giving them money or providing them with shelter and cell phones because they spent their money on drugs. Enabling creates a situation in which the addict or alcoholic can continue their inappropriate and destructive behaviour.
I kept digging, the feeling inside me, the motherís intuition was driving me. I felt almost a panic inside and knew something was wrong. My instincts were validated when I discovered the truth. My son, my precious child and Tim had been using and abusing bath salts. I wasnít sure what it was, but was sure it was bad. I told Timís mom what I had discovered and she said ďNot my SonĒ. I told her again . I felt as if she didnít believe me after all, I couldnít really believe it myself.