do you think my husband is bi-sexual ??
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philisitine

Saint Louis, MO

#25 Nov 23, 2010
MrObvious wrote:
<quoted text> Unfortunately, for you It's between your legs .....AhHa Needle deck!!!!!!!
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MrObvious

Saint Louis, MO

#27 Nov 30, 2010
philisitine wrote:
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You been reported to topix
You are the Real Bi-sexual!
he is a closet drag queen

Lake Saint Louis, MO

#28 Dec 1, 2010
Amy D wrote:
I have been marriend for the past 33 years and I have heard from several years that my husband might be bi-sexual. We have 3 children together and we still have sex all the time, but I recently found a stash of gay movies and a "toy" in this closet. I've asked him about it and he said he found them in my daughters bedroom. It just got me thinking IF he found them why didn't he get rid of it? He has several "GAY" male friends also that he talks to on a daily basis. How do I confront my husband without him getting mad and fileing for divorce? He has also asked me one time while we were in bed if he could explore other parts of my body. I'm a 48 year old woman and nothing goes in that spot that don't belong there. Am I over reacting about all of this?
Honey, he's not bi - he's just flat out gay. and what kind of a father would use their daughters dildo's? Gays are bad at lying. they don't think it's obvious they're gay, then they "come out" like we didn't already know. I hate gay men, they need to stop using women and confusing them. So really, all sex is to a man is a warm hole ? for gays and straights? they obviously don't get off on it like women do.
Eyes Wide Shut

United States

#29 Dec 1, 2010
Amy D wrote:
I have been marriend for the past 33 years and I have heard from several years that my husband might be bi-sexual. We have 3 children together and we still have sex all the time, but I recently found a stash of gay movies and a "toy" in this closet. I've asked him about it and he said he found them in my daughters bedroom. It just got me thinking IF he found them why didn't he get rid of it? He has several "GAY" male friends also that he talks to on a daily basis. How do I confront my husband without him getting mad and fileing for divorce? He has also asked me one time while we were in bed if he could explore other parts of my body. I'm a 48 year old woman and nothing goes in that spot that don't belong there. Am I over reacting about all of this?
duh!! of course he is gay. did you confront your daughter about the "toy" and "gay movies" you found? Of course you didn't, fearing the worst
Eyes Wide Shut

United States

#30 Dec 1, 2010
he is a closet drag queen wrote:
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Honey, he's not bi - he's just flat out gay. and what kind of a father would use their daughters dildo's? Gays are bad at lying. they don't think it's obvious they're gay, then they "come out" like we didn't already know. I hate gay men, they need to stop using women and confusing them. So really, all sex is to a man is a warm hole ? for gays and straights? they obviously don't get off on it like women do.
he didnt USE the daughters diildo, he used her as his excuse after he was caught with them. they were his all along.
Bisexual2

United States

#31 Dec 1, 2010
I am a bi male and I love women and men...I got tired of the flip flop and chose men because its what I preferred most. I never lied to the women..I told them before the first date and they chose to go out anyway. We are all different, but that dosen't make us bad. What we do need is honesty. No sense hurting others needlessly.
AhhA

United States

#33 Dec 12, 2010
philisitine wrote:
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What a Peter Puffer!
guest

Arkadelphia, AR

#34 Dec 15, 2010
mEAT me in st louie wrote:
Just because he gets alittle FREAKY... hey ...it's not a perfect world...
If you love him and he loves you ...and you can come to some understanding.
we'll some people just go on with their lives...and there are women I can tell you this...that don't have a problem with that...as long as there is honesty...( I wouldn't go for the treesome thing anyway,that was big in the 80's)...we're all alot older now...so I wouldn't just throw the baby out with the bath!!!!
There are all kinds of situations out there...and not all of them have that much to do with love...just look at your neighbors...so take a breath and sit back and see what happens.
Funny thing about life and relationships is that EVERYTHING will change...and you hope that you can accept and handle the changes as they come along.
It might be a life changing moment if some night...you both watch some gay porn together...who knows???? You just might like it too!!!!
Life ain't perfect
DEAL WITH IT!
Acually, if you want to get down to the right or wrong of it, the Bible specificaly states that a man shall net lay in anther man, bed. It is against God's law. When are people going to take into account that God's law is whet determines whether we make it or not.
AhhA

Irving, TX

#35 Dec 15, 2010
Get him a subscription to playgirl magazine for Christmas and call it a day!
Lina

Parafield Gardens, Australia

#36 Oct 22, 2012
I think that my husband is bisexual, a woman knows that from that deep gut feeling.. However, he denies it ..... heck where do I go from there...

Since: Oct 12

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#37 Oct 23, 2012
Bisexual I would agree. I myself have a hubby with those tendencies. The happy for a guy is best reached rectally so when I bought a strap-on and used it on him. He had the best orgasm ever. Was a little different from my side, but he has been pleasing me for years. It was a nice return favor. Now I don't have to worry about him having sex with other men. I able to give him that. It's quite intimate if you can get over the social stigmata of it all. Just saying.
Curious

Irving, TX

#38 Nov 15, 2012
Redhottred wrote:
Bisexual I would agree. I myself have a hubby with those tendencies. The happy for a guy is best reached rectally so when I bought a strap-on and used it on him. He had the best orgasm ever. Was a little different from my side, but he has been pleasing me for years. It was a nice return favor. Now I don't have to worry about him having sex with other men. I able to give him that. It's quite intimate if you can get over the social stigmata of it all. Just saying.
Do you ever take on new partners during your encounters? I would have to disagree with the first comment unless it's a man giving it to a female, that's why i asked.
Ha Ha

Irving, TX

#40 Nov 16, 2012
greta hamilton wrote:
my husband is very very big you know where....we been married 26 yrs 2 good kids married and gone etc,,,,,but has for the last 5-6 years or so charges men from out of town to have sex with him he demands first they get a high dollor room usally at drury inn spends the night most of the time next day he has hand full of hundreds i got no complant got a 3000,0000 home 2 new cars living well he also has a 6 figure job .....he isby no means bi just a hobby as he says....lol
Once a cck skr always a cck skr!
SatSwing

Los Angeles, CA

#41 Feb 3, 2015
Amy D wrote:
Thank you (Been There) for your input. I just don't know how to go about asking him. You know when we first got together everyone always told me that they thought he might have alittle "sugar" in his tank. I guess I never seen it, just cause he didn't hunt or work on cars any of that kind of man stuff didn't mean he was gay. But I guess the longer we've been together he just stopped caring if I found out. I looked around some more today and I found other stuff. This makes me ill! I know topix isn't for all this, but I needed some advice on how to handle this. I just don't understand why after all these years am I just seeing this. How can he keep this in the closet for so long? But then I might be over reacting cause he is so against gay people.
You said it all right there. He's 'so against gay people." The applicable saying is, "The lady doth protest too much methinks."

First, working on cars and hunting doesn't make you gay or straight. And why as he been keeping it a secret for so long? Well, that's pretty obvious. He doesn't trust you enough to tell you.

And by the mere fact that you're digging through his personal stuff tells me you might not be someone to be trusted.

Would you divorce him if he came to you and told you he was attracted to men sexually? If so, well there you go. He loves you and your relationship and doesn't want to lose that. So, instead, he's kept something that is a part of him that has NOTHING to do with you, a secret. That must suck.

You might want to consider that some men who are attracted to other guys are ONLY that way when it comes to sex. They have no desire to be 'intimate' and share the kind of relationship they would have with a woman. And believe me, there are WAY more men like that than you could imagine.

Personally, I feel like life is a one time shot and living it in secret is nothing but a bad thing. I'm straight but have had a couple of experiences with guys in threesomes with a former girlfriend who was very open minded. Yeah..it was fun at the time but it's not who I am. But if I was I would have NO problem telling a girlfriend or wife. Why would I? It's just sex. Another thing in our lives that is meant to be enjoyed.

Good luck.
low key

Florissant, MO

#42 Feb 10, 2015
Amy D wrote:
I have been marriend for the past 33 years and I have heard from several years that my husband might be bi-sexual. We have 3 children together and we still have sex all the time, but I recently found a stash of gay movies and a "toy" in this closet. I've asked him about it and he said he found them in my daughters bedroom. It just got me thinking IF he found them why didn't he get rid of it? He has several "GAY" male friends also that he talks to on a daily basis. How do I confront my husband without him getting mad and fileing for divorce? He has also asked me one time while we were in bed if he could explore other parts of my body. I'm a 48 year old woman and nothing goes in that spot that don't belong there. Am I over reacting about all of this?
I had an "gay encounter" when I was younger. I'm pretty sure I'm bi because I still love women but if a really good looking guy comes by I get those feelings. I think that the best thing to do is ask especially if he isn't the type to get mad and he is generally very truthful with you it may be really hard for him to talk about it I know it's hard for me but I think it's best to ask and talk about it maybe even like a marriage counselor.
Desperate

Tulsa, OK

#43 Sep 8, 2016
I don't know how to start so here it goes. We have been married for 26 years to start with we had been married 7 years when he confided in me at 17 he let his best friend give him a blow job. It was 4 years later when he hired a guy that was clearly under qualified for the job one day this guy called asked to speak to my husband I told him he was in the bathroom he replied by saying I bet he's holding his dick that's my job he said and began to describe nasty things he said that he was doing to him and that my husband told him he did it better than me. I promptly told my husband and he said I was lying and kept hanging out all the time with him. After a while he just disappeared. That was about 1999. Right now there is more suspicion about a man again, I found a text between him and a man he works with he's known as long as we've been married they were calling each other love in these texts am I crazy what the crap do I do?

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