No, YOU are deflecting, and you're utterly blind to the truth, because you're guilty of doing the very things I've been pointing out in here that get nobody anywhere. Your very first post was a slut-shaming one, arrogantly launching into assumptions about women who abort. I've never called any woman a sellout; I've calmly stated that women are as much to blame for the sexist double standards we still live under as men, because they have been conditioned to condone or ignore men's sexual behavior, while demonizing women for theirs.You're all deflecting. If a woman disagrees with you she's a sellout. You blame all men for your problems. None of you have hit a nerve with me. You're all out of touch with the reality, the thing is that most all young people approach sex very casually. There are worse results than pregnancy for unprotected sex. You ladies are from a different generation. Girls don't get pressured into sex from thier intimidating boyfriends much anymore . There is no consequences. Get pregnant, get rid of it. Easy peasy!
I'm not sure who in here you think is blaming her troubles on all men. I've flagrantly put the blame on society and the BOYS that help cause unwanted pregnancy but never get smacked down for it like their female sexual partners do.
You came in here immediately talking nasty about girls that find themselves in trouble, and yet you get offended by the very THOUGHT of anyone criticizing the boys that helped get them that way. I make it a point to remind people who like to slut-shame that behind every pregnant woman, there's a man with an erection and he could have just as easily kept it in his pants, but oh no...to you people it would be cruel and hateful to say such a thing to a boy. It's fine to have that attitude against the girls, but the boys can do no wrong.
It's like you think women are asexual creatures that get themselves pregnant, without ever going near sperm or a penis. And if you think that boys never pressure girls into sex, you're delusional...or you've got Male Entitlement Syndrome and have no concept of sexual pressure, because you don't want to believe males should ever have to pressure their partners for something they are so clearly entitled to have whenever they want. Time to wake up to reality and examine your hypocrisy.