Help Stop SCDSS from stealing our children - Part 1

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Paul Garrick

Spartanburg, SC

#1 Mar 8, 2013
I’ve been in the unfortunate position to watch as a mother loses her children due to false allegations made by her 3 year old daughter, who has been coached into making these allegations by her father and step-mother. You should ask; how do I know this? Well I know because since Christmas I’ve been personally present during each visit.

The level of frustration is intolerable for me – I can’t even imagine what her mother and grandfather are feeling. Since I don’t have knowledge and thank God never had a personal visit from DSS when raising my son, I went on the internet and looked up the Mission Statement for SCDSS. I’ll say more about that later.

I’m writing this because to be quite honest I don’t know what happened to the concept of common sense. Although not a party to these proceedings I’ve been present for each step since Christmas Day 2012. My perception is that the first person to get to DSS has instant credibility. Then should I assume, I could make up something about a friend or neighbor and go to DSS and have their child removed from the home – now in what world does that make any sense? Better watch out, you could be next.
This story is so confusing I just had to bring it to the public. I certainly agree with the basic mission of DSS – who wouldn’t. But, that being said – what happened to common sense. Where to begin; in the beginning. Almost 4 years ago a precious little girl was born to a very young couple, their youth was evident in their parenting and in their relationship – there were problems. Well a little over 2 years ago a precious little boy was born and shortly after the couple separately permanently. Their lack of maturity was evident to anyone that paid attention. At any rate, the children were separated; the father kept the little girl and the mother kept the little boy. The mother wanted both children but the father wouldn’t allow her to take the little girl and due to the mother’s youth she didn’t fight. So they shared custody and weekends until approximately a year ago.
You should ask; what happened then. Well the father got married and the real problems started. This part is conjecture on my part; the father’s wife lost custody of her biological child and attached herself to the little girl. Oh and during this time the mother started fighting in court to get the little girl. At this point the lies started. After a weekend visit this past summer the first false allegation was made, it began by the little girl making the statement that her mother kissed her front and pointed to her stomach area. The mother described blowing on the little girl’s stomach whiling tickling her – we all should be under investigation – I don’t know a single parent who hasn’t done this to their child – really. Anyway DSS began their attack on the mother. There were a few more allegations made of the same type every time the mother’s weekend came around. Well then the child advocates became involved. Do you know there’s such a thing as “Forensic Interviewers”– I didn’t know that either. Well they have some method for determining when a young child has been sexually abused and took both children and placed them with the father and step mother. The mother was granted weekend visitation until DSS could work this out, well guess what – the father decided to go against the court order and denied the mother visitation. Back to the court they go; this time the mother’s father was brought into the case and named supervisor.

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