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Kat

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Jun 26, 2008
 
Fair or unfair?
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Jun 26, 2008
 
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Jun 27, 2008
 

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It all depends on which side you're on..
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Jul 13, 2008
 
what is the real % of support taken from my pay check
river girl

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Jul 13, 2008
 

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What is emancipation and when is that achieved? The way I read the law, as long a child is under 21 and living in the parents house, the non-coustodial parent must pay support. The words "self-supporting" are ambiguous. Self supporting is contingent to where in the state one lives and the job or jobs one finds and works at. Is it fair to have to provide child support to a person over 18, who has graduated from high school, gone to college, flunked out after 1 semester and just can't find a job? Perhaps, the coustodial parent, if support stopped, would then encourage with great passion, the need for the child(?) to get a job and pay its own way. I am sure many a child has found a good paying job and rather than leave home, stays there as the price is right and the savings account can be added to, while the other parent bears the brunt.

And for some, the deadbeats will never be able to pay back all that is owed for the children. What happens to these children after the age of maturity, is that back support just wiped away or is it still collected and turned over to the mother? I'm sure the deadbeat that I know who owes well over $30,000 will not be working or claiming any pay for a very long time. I should ask him, he probably co-wrote the damn laws!
Cindy

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Jul 24, 2008
 

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What are your thoughts on this - My Daughter is 20 will be 21 in Feb. I pay child support, 1/2 the college tuotion, 1/2 of the college apartment & 1/2 of the food, books, etc. I pay for her health ins also. I feel like I am getting double dipped for having to pay child support weekly & for her apartment. When I asked the juge to release me from 1 or th other I was denied. I am not sure what to expect when she turns 21. If she is still in college will I still have to pay support & college expenses? Has anyone been through this?
Cindy

Falls Church, VA

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Jul 24, 2008
 

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A response to river girl, well i have a decent job, my X is a contractor. The SOB sits on his butt 90% of the time , hey why not, I'm paying his mortgage. So, he claims he only made 19000,00 in 1 year but he leases 2 vehicles & has a mortgage on a 200,000.00 home with a built in pool & hot tub etc. Every time he took me to court I lost. I think he co-wrote the laws with the SOB you mentioned above!
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Jul 24, 2008
 

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Tell me why you have to pay child support if both parties have them the same amount of time. Most of the women know that child support is money in thier pocket after the divorce. You have to go to your parties ,do your hair, get new outfits and i see the kids look like slobs!
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Jul 25, 2008
 

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this is how great your system is. 6 years I had a one relationship with women that I did not know she was a lesbian. we lived together for a year and three months just enough time to get pregnant have the and two weeks after the baby was born moved back to IN. for 5 years the court system hid from me the dna records. now just to let you on something she at the baby was at the hosptial that there was 4 other guys and that we should have a dna test done. now for all these year I have not any contact with the mother thinking they droped the case because the child wasnt mine.
last year she take me back to court she gets her child support it so much that afford a lawer to get visittation and even if I could with gas prices I could afford to drive there. any phone number I get she disconnects so I can not speak to him. I dont have a address so even if he read I cant write him courts were collecting back support because the 2 states can not agree on how much I owe they close to 2000.00 and it has been almost 2 months now and I am still paying what ny thinks is back support. I am paying for a child for 18 years that I will never know. maybe if women honest and faithful.there wouldnt be so many dead beat dads not situations are like and I do pay my child support there are a lot of days. I would like quit my job and just disapear.
Tuchabella

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Jul 25, 2008
 

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wow, someone let me know what i have to do to even get any? My son is 12 and i have fought for support since day 1 and at one time recieved 5 a week....whoppie do. He has a court order to pay and doesnt, they took his license away, and he works off the books to avoid even paying the 5. i have simply gievn up on him. he is a lost cause. his money is othing to me, but yet....my son deserves it.
Sick of nasty mother

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Aug 2, 2008
 
My friend found out he has a soon to be 18yr old daughter.3yrs ago.The mother( Debra Hamilton} has kept the child from him for 15 yrs.She aslo have 3 other children by 3 different mens.This person is nasty.If she think you have a dollar she will lay down with you.and she is such a liar.He had to go to court for visitation.Which the mother never wanted.She hides the child out in PA and she lives in NY sometime with her boyfriends.She was 25 and he was 15 when she started messing with him.Can we say child molester.The child went for DNA test several times,before him.This person is not a woman she is a nasty B,,,,.She now collects the money from him for child support but never does not take care of the child,The child will be 18 next month and want to know can she recieve the funds herself instead of the mother getting them.She doesn't live with the mother nor does she take care of her.HOW DO ES SHE GET THE CHECKS FOR HERSELF SO THAT SHE CAN SURVIVE?
mike

Rochester, NY

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Aug 6, 2008
 
Cindy wrote:
What are your thoughts on this - My Daughter is 20 will be 21 in Feb. I pay child support, 1/2 the college tuotion, 1/2 of the college apartment & 1/2 of the food, books, etc. I pay for her health ins also. I feel like I am getting double dipped for having to pay child support weekly & for her apartment. When I asked the juge to release me from 1 or th other I was denied. I am not sure what to expect when she turns 21. If she is still in college will I still have to pay support & college expenses? Has anyone been through this?
here is how it works. stupid but true you are only responsible if this is court ordered when the child turns 21 you have to go back to court and have discontinued if you dont go back to court they will continue to take your money
Bonnie

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Dead beats need to pay!
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Dead beats? All you women just want money. You could care less about the kids. I see my kids more then most fathers and i still pay. Just to see their mother buy herself stuff get her hair done nails. All you women are the same when you hit 30s and have kids. You pack up and leave and knowing you get a % of his money. I see it all the time and you all are a pile off ****.!
Tuchabella

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yeah its me wrote:
Dead beats? All you women just want money. You could care less about the kids. I see my kids more then most fathers and i still pay. Just to see their mother buy herself stuff get her hair done nails. All you women are the same when you hit 30s and have kids. You pack up and leave and knowing you get a % of his money. I see it all the time and you all are a pile off ****.!
your amazing. not all women are gold diggers. in my case i have a guy who cares less about his kid, i never get my hair and nails done or even take care of myself the way i wish. hair cut for me once a year, new clothes, once a year if i am lucky and anything...nite out...no clue what that is. everytime i have time and money it goes towards my son and he has never helped from day one nor taken care of him, when he almost died he was no where to be found.

some women are actually good mothers and i find it very rude of you to label us all the same. the women you are attacking live in very small groups-most moms take care of the kids and more.

and honestly, i gave up on him a LONG time ago. I have taken care of my son without him or the system and even if he tried to help now after 12 years i wouldn't want his dirt money. for what...so he can say he was there or did something, please.

you sound angry with your ex, maybe you should handle your situation instead of putting it on others
Tuchabella

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yeah its me wrote:
Dead beats? All you women just want money. You could care less about the kids. I see my kids more then most fathers and i still pay. Just to see their mother buy herself stuff get her hair done nails. All you women are the same when you hit 30s and have kids. You pack up and leave and knowing you get a % of his money. I see it all the time and you all are a pile off ****.!
oh yeah by the way, i never asked for money until my son was five, instead i was fighting in court to try and make him step up and be a father to his son, then i became so enraged with his ignorance and how he dismissed my son- then i itook him for money and still dont see it and dont even want it.

also i ahve found out he fas five other kids with five other women so i am sure they have a wonderful tiem with him too. i wish he would fall of the face of this earth instead of popping around once a year to PLAY daddy

and then the court allows him to do this, but if a mother did this we would lose rights to our children, be told we abadoned them and so forth, but he the "dad" does it and they give him chance aftrer chance...

real nice how the courts work
frankie from depeew

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Aug 8, 2008
 

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like the old saying goes its cheaper to keep her
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Tuchabella sounds like you shound be on the maury povich show. Are you sure he is the father?
frankie from depeew

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Tuchabella quoted text
i never get my hair and nails done or even take care of myself the way i wish. hair cut for me once a year, new clothes, once a year if i am lucky and anything...nite out...no clue what that is.
maybe thats why he ran around so much take care of your self have some pride in yourself fix yourself up forget about that clown and live for yourself a little bit
then call me
Tuchabella

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yeah its me wrote:
Tuchabella sounds like you shound be on the maury povich show. Are you sure he is the father?
unreal. you know crap about me and you are so quick to try and label and act as if you do know me. maury? you must brainwash yourself with a lot of TV, maybe you should be on the show. I guess you cant handle the truth or handle thers opinions. maybe you should not post

AND YES HE IS THE FATHER!

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