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Jesstess

United States

#63 May 21, 2012
gulf wrote:
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If your husband isn't willing to pay more he obviously views the child support as you mooching off him or you married an idiot who doesn't make enough money to make it worth his while to provide for hid kid(s).
Look all I'm saying is this --- things are gonna get bad, they're not gonna get better. I like Obama better than Romney but that's not saying much. All that hope & change shit he sold was nonsense. This country is going to burn hot as it goes down the economic tube.
Do yourself a favor -- have no more children & assume the worst. The Republicans are about to get rid of most welfare & the economy is going to suffer big time. And a lot of poor & minorities who work their asses off also are going to be in trouble because they work for the govt & the Republicans want to cut the govt expenditures.
This is going to be a bad decade & what few factories that haven't gone to China yet soon will go to China. Mark my words. If tax rates go up much higher ppl are gonna start leaving the country & sadly its gonna go up because the govt has too many unemployed ppl & they don't know what to do with them.
Things are gonna get bad and assuming the govt is gonna either bail you out or extract more $$ out of your deadbeat loser ex isn't going to happen. These ppl are overworked & there's a day coming soon when they're not going to be able to help them @ all.
He makes more than enough he just doenst care .. He got remarried to someone with kids... Fell into a drug and alcohol dependency... Forgot his children exsist.. They r better off without a negative influence in their life. I support my 2 children just fine!!! I just think its unfair for him to not help financially but Never never will they do without anything due to his failings... As far as not having anymore children .. Im not but its not for ur reasons... More that this world is harsh n dirty n mean n criminal... Theres no more GOD in anything and I would feel bad to bring another sweet innocent life into this mess!! I love my 2 children and only hope that ive instilled some values and beliefs into them so the world doesnt make them bitter n hateful. My oldest graduates this year ...colege bound...and my Youngest going into 9 th grade .. Both a/b honor rolls since kindergarten.. Im very blessed/proud of them.. They have big plans for their future...
gulf

Mcnary, AZ

#64 May 21, 2012
Jesstess wrote:
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He makes more than enough he just doenst care .. He got remarried to someone with kids... Fell into a drug and alcohol dependency... Forgot his children exsist.. They r better off without a negative influence in their life. I support my 2 children just fine!!! I just think its unfair for him to not help financially but Never never will they do without anything due to his failings... As far as not having anymore children .. Im not but its not for ur reasons... More that this world is harsh n dirty n mean n criminal... Theres no more GOD in anything and I would feel bad to bring another sweet innocent life into this mess!! I love my 2 children and only hope that ive instilled some values and beliefs into them so the world doesnt make them bitter n hateful. My oldest graduates this year ...colege bound...and my Youngest going into 9 th grade .. Both a/b honor rolls since kindergarten.. Im very blessed/proud of them.. They have big plans for their future...
Congrats on the kids & all that & having the ability to pay for them.

Now, stop asking me to shell out my tax money to pay for your vendetta against your stupid ex. If he's on dope, you do the right thing, let him wallow in his problems.

But don't expect us to pay for your kids if you have more(just saying) like so many fucking retards do nowadays.

Good luck & keep off welfare.
Jesstess

United States

#65 May 21, 2012
gulf wrote:
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Congrats on the kids & all that & having the ability to pay for them.
Now, stop asking me to shell out my tax money to pay for your vendetta against your stupid ex. If he's on dope, you do the right thing, let him wallow in his problems.
But don't expect us to pay for your kids if you have more(just saying) like so many fucking retards do nowadays.
Good luck & keep off welfare.
Wow.. Why dontca march ur lil tail over to the garbage can and spit ur grouchies out... Remember i didnt ask for ur tax dollars... I also work ....have since bring 16 ...so I think that means MY Tax dollars too... By the way im prayin for ya... Dont need luck.. I have Jesus.... ;)
gulf

Mcnary, AZ

#66 May 21, 2012
Jesstess wrote:
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Wow.. Why dontca march ur lil tail over to the garbage can and spit ur grouchies out... Remember i didnt ask for ur tax dollars... I also work ....have since bring 16 ...so I think that means MY Tax dollars too... By the way im prayin for ya... Dont need luck.. I have Jesus.... ;)
Honey God helps those who don't make stupid decisions. If you haven't figured that out you will soon.

Oh and they're also my tax dollars. When the economy goes south in another few years, lemme know it is.
Really

United States

#67 May 29, 2012
The hard truth wrote:
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Why did you get married to such an idiot in the first place?
Either you're a horrible judge of character and frankly an idiot for being into bad boys instead of into nice guys who would treat you right.
Unless you were forced under thread of physical harm into the marriage, I have no sympathy for you. You brought your own proverbial house down upon your own head.
Men cheat. Men are stupid. But that doesn't mean you have to marry a stupid jerk just because it turns you on.
If you married such a jerk, you did so willingly and dug your own grave.
As cruel as this sounds, you did it to yourself and therefore you won't find much sympathy from most people.
I am sorry I have to disagree with you, that she was an idiot and did it to herself. I found myself in a a situation like that. After 12 yrs of marriage hubby cheated and girlfriend got pregnant. I promise u he was the nicest,most considerate man and a wonderful husband and father.( I thought) there were no signs or warnings. One day he said I'm not wanting this life anymore. Please try not to pass judgement on someone till u have been in their shoes. I am a college grad, I do have a job, and the ex and I do get along for the kids sake. I don't think I ever asked for it or brought it on. He will even tell u, it was his fault and something he will always regret.
ridiculous

United States

#68 Jan 23, 2013
Write your congressman. There's a bill, its called deadbeat parents punishment act. If they owe more than 5,000 and are avoiding paying they are supposed to take it to a federal level.
are you kidding me

United States

#69 Jan 23, 2013
I think those posting about their tax dollars are taking it out on the wrong people. Ask her who her x is, ask for his phone number and call and harass him. Maybe YOU can get him to pay and then assistance won't be needed.
dsn childs wrker

Austin, TX

#70 Jul 9, 2013
MS girl wrote:
what a bunch of excuses and rationalizations. I went back to school and earned a doctorate while a single mom - yes I did get financial aid and now owe a ton in stufent loans but I can pay for them because I have a REAL JOB. Also, I was fortunante in that my ex-husband paid for childcare (although he was late so often that I ended up having to get him garnished), but I had other single mom friends in my program that got childcare paid for through the certificate program. And Medicaid will pay for your kids health insurance while you are in school. SO the only thing stopping you is MOTIVATION!


you will get it back.. you have to allow time. keep calling and checking in.. they will blame it on the case load. but you will
Ms k

Byram, MS

#71 Jul 10, 2013
My daughters father has not paid child support in years I had to find out where he works at and then report it and they still didnt do any thing about it wat n tha hell r tha case workers getting paid for and to top that they give me my youngest daughter money when they want too and how much they want her to have wat is going on here ?we go to them for asst and they just do as they plz something gotta give we have a sorry dirty system here in forest ms and Jackson us as parents need to stand as one woman and mens and do something about this
Jennifer Jill Weatherford

Springfield, VA

#72 Aug 15, 2013
Holy smokes you all need better lawyers! I haven't worked for years and my ex has to pay child support for 3 kids who I don't even let into my house. They stay with him or wherever most of the time. My oldest daughter is 18 and lives on her own. But I still get child support for her and it keeps my bar tab paid! Come visit me on Facebook! I love MS judges- just gotta know how to work them!!!!
ANGRY WITH MS

Salina, KS

#73 Aug 31, 2013
I have an Interstate case. Mississippi doesn't do their part, and my State is at its mercy. I had an increase in child support, which my State sent the paperwork to MS to change on their end. They have yet to change the ordered amount in THEIR system. Court was the beginning part of July, and tomorrow is Sept. 1. The increase was from $252 to $681. That is a HUGE difference, but MS isn't the least bit concerned about the children; they are slow about doing their part in Interstate cases!
help

Lakeland, FL

#74 Oct 9, 2013
live in Fla trying to get child support for 3 years from Tim w. green order by court in miss. but will not pay state of Fla can't get it for me state of miss wont help if you move to miss you don;t have to pay child support dead beat dad
MsEllie0274

Brandon, MS

#75 Jan 4, 2014
Frustrated Mom frm GA

Albany, GA

#76 Feb 9, 2014
I live in Georgia and unfortunately my child' father lives in Mississippi. I'm not allowed to contact MS myself (I've tried several times and was told to contact my State). I have to go through a GA's Agent, and they have to contact MS via email. It is going on 3 years and MS have not responded. It is so frustrating. MS system is ridiculous. He was scheduled for court in 2010 and I have no idea the outcome of that.
Screwed Non-custodial

Essen, Germany

#77 Feb 18, 2014
I live in MS, and the mom (babysitter) moved to GA with the kids to get more money. I'm not allowed to contact GA, and MS keeps coming up with excuses not to give me answers on my case. I have been pushed to a Supervisor over the phone numerous times and have yet to get a satisfactory answer. Hell, they tell me they are putting in my facts, but no one can ever say if they see comments from my phone calls. I pay over $1,300 a month for 3 children to a woman who sits on her fat ass with a Master's Degree and does not work every day. She is nothing more than a pathetic baby sitter living off the system.
ANGRY WITH MISSISSIPP

Salina, KS

#78 Mar 8, 2014
Frustrated Mom frm GA wrote:
I live in Georgia and unfortunately my child' father lives in Mississippi. I'm not allowed to contact MS myself (I've tried several times and was told to contact my State). I have to go through a GA's Agent, and they have to contact MS via email. It is going on 3 years and MS have not responded. It is so frustrating. MS system is ridiculous. He was scheduled for court in 2010 and I have no idea the outcome of that.
I can sympathize with your situation. I can't contact Mississippi, but they are constantly ignoring Kansas' attempts to correspond. For seven months, Kansas has been trying to get Mississippi to straighten up their arrears balance, and they haven't done so. Kansas has sent its arrears calculation at least 4 times, and Mississippi, when contacted directly, always seems to pawn it off that they "haven't received it." Whoever their secretary is needs to get off her/his duff and allocate information to the proper departments to get the job done!!
jason h

United States

#79 Apr 16, 2014
i am off 7 days out of 14 and want joint 50/50 custody

my soon to be ex is a stay at home mom.

we have been seperated for four months operating under this same 50/50 plan.

She does not work on the 7 days out of 14 i have the kids

she goes to our joint account every other wednesday (payday) and gets $650 out in cash from the teller.

based on 650 x 26 paychecks a year then divided by 12 months averages $1408 a month

i make $65000 all the calculator i have seen range from $927 to the $1197 for child support on three kids

my question is how does the 50/50 custody effect this amount?
Is alimony a factor?
And will te court require her to get employment for her 7 days off out of 14?
thumper

Jackson, MS

#80 Sep 22, 2014
lala wrote:
i have seven childrens noneof them recieved child support,just let me show u the ages of my childrens,tonton is 36, smart is28, toddy is26 mag is25,jimis24,timis24,kaka is23,thanks to the system ,my childrens made it through without their help,ijust dont see how so many mens r getting of the hook, once trey r old and gray they will need there childrens,i hope and pray my childrens tell there farther how hard of atime they had growing up,thanks to him,then walk away,leaving him to suffer the way they had to suffer,
He will pay for what he has done one way or another.you need to let the hate you have for him go.for your sake,not his.
Hazelmis

Ridgeland, MS

#81 Dec 1, 2014
The child support in Wayne Co Ms is the absolute worst! If an that's a big IF u can get somebody on the phone they tell u nothing because they know they have screwed ur child support up an don't want to take the blame for the wrong they have done you! Looks like I'm goin to have to see if I can sue them for taking payment an not giving it to me like they r suppose to! It takes years to get a court date an if the payee gets behind they do absolutely nothing to get him to pay! I have put in for revaluation on One of my child's father's cases at least 5 times over the last 6 yrs an have been due for 2 in that time frame an they say they didn't get my letter requesting such an tell me to write another one! I say what the hell for u just gonna say the same trash next time like always!! My other child's case, his dad pays thru his job an for some reason it don't get to me! Go figure!!! If I didn't need my kids child support to help raise them id of never bothered to start with! MS has absolutely no child support enforcement what so ever! We have nobody in this State that will help! Period! But I know for a fact it's against the law for them to take payment an not give it to me an I'm looking for the right place to call right now so that I can get to the bottom of it! I'm fed the hell up!
Anonymous

Ridgeland, MS

#82 Dec 1, 2014
jason h wrote:
i am off 7 days out of 14 and want joint 50/50 custody
my soon to be ex is a stay at home mom.
we have been seperated for four months operating under this same 50/50 plan.
She does not work on the 7 days out of 14 i have the kids
she goes to our joint account every other wednesday (payday) and gets $650 out in cash from the teller.
based on 650 x 26 paychecks a year then divided by 12 months averages $1408 a month
i make $65000 all the calculator i have seen range from $927 to the $1197 for child support on three kids
my question is how does the 50/50 custody effect this amount?
Is alimony a factor?
And will te court require her to get employment for her 7 days off out of 14?
Sweetheart she's gonna have to learn how to take care of herself! In 50/50 cases there's no point for childsupport I wouldn't think... Maybe ins... But for one child is 14% of ur income tho that's it! But No that's not right at all! Get u a good lawyer! Trust me ur gonna have to jus b firm an look out for u n the baby now! U didn't take their mother to raise... MS laws of alimony R very vague so U'll need to talk to a lawyer bout it but I think unless u made her stay home n b a house wife I dont c y Ud have to pay any alimony! GET A GOOD LAWYER!!!!! Lol &#128522;

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