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Kerry

Champaign, IL

#1346 Nov 25, 2013
Mike wrote:
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1st time on this blog.....thought I was the only one with issues with DCFS.
Unbeleivable how wide spread this is..... and how long things have been going on.....
My issues started Early JUne of this year.
Took both my kids... Same BS and tactics that I have been reading about.
Just filed my own POC (Petition of Custody), and have contacted INspector General for DCFS......Oh, and also I am seeking Damages of $5M....for all the Scurrilous Conduct by DCFS.
Will see how this goes, Could use a Good , Agressive Lawyer to help me run with this.....in Civil and Federal court.....
God Bless you all.....
Mike K.
Just wondering how this worked out for you? Been fighting these guys for almost 3 years. Completed all services, passed every drug test, and yet they always find something to prevent our daughter from coming home. Any suggestions?
Better Mom than You

Naperville, IL

#1347 Nov 29, 2013
Richard Kikalo wrote:
she was hit at home. Yes, I've slapped my daughters hand, but I do not consider that abuse. I've been a single father all my daughters life with full custody, and I do not know how to punish her without the state breathing down my back.
How about not hitting your children. Seems simple to me.
Better Mom than You

Naperville, IL

#1348 Nov 29, 2013
Praise be to god wrote:
After dcfs stepped into my life from the birth of my second child my daughter finding drugs in her maconem but not her blood nor urine remind you neither her nor I had active drugs in our system they just based it upon the first poop collected at the hospital allowing me to take my baby home and after four days showed up on my door step with county cops demanding I give them my children. My grandmother died the same day of my daughters birth and they allowed me to take my children home the worst feeling is knowing you are getting attached to your child and or childre for some days and they come back saying you are sout to be neglectant parent but allowed you to take them for four days. If they thought for any second I could not be a parent why would they allow me to take my child from the hospital period? Just a thought. Besides this I have been dealing with them for almost two years dropping clean did parenting classes got my certification re-entered back to school been getting straight A's along with perfect attendance, work up to 25 hours a week being a full time parent and I am two months away from having my third child now. I pay my own bills and got out of a relationship that became violent because my kids were taken from my hands. I have been clean I attend CADS still for the fifth month and haven't been in no legal trouble ever, with having this baby I fear. I fear that they are going to rip my child right out of my hands again, I also fear now that my children are 2 and 3 that they will grow up hating me that I will be able to gain custody of this child and they will be confused to why they can not come home with mommy but the baby can I don't want any of my children thinking that they are going to be treated different in any way. As a 23 about to be 24 year old single mother I don't know what to do to make things any better I am and have done what they ask of me and the whole school thing being extra the courts have not asked of me but to look good on my part. The question is when will this end?
23 years old and having your 3rd after having your others taken by DCFS? Have you heard of birth control? You should give it a try.
Better Mom than You

Naperville, IL

#1349 Nov 29, 2013
Donna wrote:
We need DCFS but we need them to be honest. My brothers little girl was taken away. My brother had 3 or 4 friends over. They were watching a game having some beers. The cops in this small town constantly harrassed him, this day they barged into his house and since he was drinking underage they called DCFS. My neice was taken away and put into my care tempor. I was told it would only be for a few weeks while they investigated, well i have a evil crazy sister who wants a baby and cant have one of her own. she is jealous and evil so she kept calling dcfs on my brother so he couldnt get her back. DCFS would not even investigate these claims. they believed them. After about 4 months Of taking care of her i couldn't do it any longer, the drama and DCFS was an overload to me. I worked 60 hours a week and it was not fair she had to be in daycare 10 hour days. I had her go live with a Different sister, well my other crazy sister kept calling DCFS making accusations(she was upset the baby didnt go to her) so they took my niece away again, she has been with out her parents for about a year now. This baby was never abused,never hurt in anyway. And they will not give her back. i have been there since she was born, and i am not even able to see her. I love this girl so much and it breaks my heart that DCFS would try and keep children away from family members. I have always been a healthy influence on my niece and now I can not see her because in IL aunts do not have any rights. It's sick and I am so hurt over this. Someone needs to stop these people from destroying lives!
You are seriously surprised that they took a baby away from a teen father that was participating in underage drinking? If you think that this is an acceptable behavior, no wonder you people are losing kids.
This is ridiculous.
leslie

United States

#1350 Feb 8, 2014
I found out my two boys was being molested by their dads mom so i called their doctor he said to call the prc i called them they had me call the dcfs hotline.october 3 dcfs shows up to my kids school to talk to them they the worker came to the house said we need to do a safety-plan .she called the police and another worker from dcfs they removed my five kids that day.i didnt know why until we got to court they pulled up some old police reports of domestic violence .i admit i used to be in a abusive realationship but i ended that four yrs ago.they used that past history of dv to find me unfit.they also tell me i have poor choices im men because the fathers have be to jail or prison.im do dv classes parenting counceling phsy eval and more.they have lied on their paperwork and even wrote my kids down as being black.somebody please help !i want my babies back i miserable without them.
kim

Manhattan, IL

#1352 Feb 10, 2014
I just read a lot of the things that people have posted on here. I don't understand the whole DCFS thing, I have been involved with them for the last 3 years and they took my kids and placed them in a safe place, and then they took them out of there and placed them with their biological father where they were both abused and they took them out of there and now people are finally starting to believe me that something is going on there that my 6 and 7 year old boys are scared to tell the truth.
Seriously

Naperville, IL

#1353 Jun 14, 2014
leslie wrote:
I found out my two boys was being molested by their dads mom so i called their doctor he said to call the prc i called them they had me call the dcfs hotline.october 3 dcfs shows up to my kids school to talk to them they the worker came to the house said we need to do a safety-plan .she called the police and another worker from dcfs they removed my five kids that day.i didnt know why until we got to court they pulled up some old police reports of domestic violence .i admit i used to be in a abusive realationship but i ended that four yrs ago.they used that past history of dv to find me unfit.they also tell me i have poor choices im men because the fathers have be to jail or prison.im do dv classes parenting counceling phsy eval and more.they have lied on their paperwork and even wrote my kids down as being black.somebody please help !i want my babies back i miserable without them.
I agree with your kids being taken away. From what you wrote yourself, you are a bad mother and don't deserve them.

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