dads of delaware the fight for fathers rights.

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KEVIN PATRICK

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nate

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If a father has proof that his wife cheated on him does he get full custody in the state of delaware?
tammy

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if a couple isn't married and the girl (she's 18) says she is moving out of state to be left alone and start over, what are the father's rights? Can the courts make her stay in the state (Delaware) she is in?
Joe Sims

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It's just not a Delaware issue. I am in Pennsylvania. The family court system is corrupt and biased toward women. In the process Judges and domestic relations officers have degraded and demoralized men, tomorrow's men (today's boys) and family values. The child support collection machine is unconstitutional and a major conflict of interest. The states receive reimbursement for the federal government, two thirds of every dollar that goes through their collection machine. Pennsylvania collects 4 Billion dollars a year and receives 2.67 Billion dollars to balance their budget with. Thus you can see the need for excessive child support orders. They boast they are a leader in collective. They can also boast a leader in corruption. Many men have been pushed into a kind of slavery by the excessive practices of family court judges. Many are unable to get financially even. The court orders issued by many Judges are unreasonable and therefore many are not able to comply with the irresponsible orders. They may in fact be unconstitutional. In the present economic conditions more and more individuals will experience state slavery by wait of family court Judges.

It appears as through Family Court Judges have been able to thumb their
noses at constitutional laws. They have become a rogue government. Holding tens of millions of US adults hostage. Deny children their fathers. They have become the dominating influence in the social engineering of America and shaping new laws in the US. Their effect over the past several decades. It appears they are untouchable even in violation of constitutional laws.
paul marley

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Jul 6, 2009
 
i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and bad weather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.
Fighting for my kids

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paul marley wrote:
i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and bad weather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.
If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.

“I'm not nuts. Just different”

Since: Mar 08

Cheswold, Delaware.

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Fighting for my kids wrote:
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If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.
PFA orders can and usually are granted with NO investigation or evidence.
Men are routinely stripped of their rights based solely on the accusations of the woman regardless of the truth.

This is a common tactic during divorce.
Jillyc

Townsend, DE

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Oct 19, 2009
 
My friend Alex just found out he is a father of TWINS conceived via a one night stand three years ago. No phone call, just a summons for a paternity test this July and now is paying nearly $1000 a month in support. She lives in DE and he in MD. What are his rights regarding visitation? He had been seeing the kids and she lets him. He agreed to spend the night at her home so that "he can see their routine" so he'll get used to it. He did this last weekend and now she is saying "I am not sure about it just yet". What are his rights for visitation and to keep the kids in the state of DE as she and her mother have talked of moving to NC which would put a hard ship on Alex. Any help? Email me at jillyc2077@msn.com

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Cheswold, Delaware.

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Jillyc wrote:
My friend Alex just found out he is a father of TWINS conceived via a one night stand three years ago. No phone call, just a summons for a paternity test this July and now is paying nearly $1000 a month in support. She lives in DE and he in MD. What are his rights regarding visitation? He had been seeing the kids and she lets him. He agreed to spend the night at her home so that "he can see their routine" so he'll get used to it. He did this last weekend and now she is saying "I am not sure about it just yet". What are his rights for visitation and to keep the kids in the state of DE as she and her mother have talked of moving to NC which would put a hard ship on Alex. Any help? Email me at jillyc2077@msn.com
He has rights. Tell him to get a lawyer.
Dad with Sole custody

Newark, OH

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nate wrote:
If a father has proof that his wife cheated on him does he get full custody in the state of delaware?
Courts don't give a damn about infidelity when it comes to custody. It just doesn't matter.
Dad with Sole custody

Newark, OH

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Fighting for my kids wrote:
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If you have a pfa order against you, it's not the system that's making you fail as a father. You obviously did harm to your ex and or your kids. So it's no surprise the court would choose her over you. Just because you participate in making a child doesn't mean you are a fit father.If you truly love your children, the thought of you walking out never would have crossed your mind.
Completely untrue! PFAs are given out with no due diligence whatsoever by the court system. My ex got one against me with no evidence, and I got it revoked and I have sole custody of my children.
Dad with Sole custody

Newark, OH

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Completely untrue! PFAs are given out with no due diligence whatsoever by the court system. My ex got one against me with no evidence, and I got it revoked and I have sole custody of my children.
paul

Newark, DE

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Oct 29, 2009
 
i had the same thing happen to me you have to file in court for custody and say she is planning to flee the state and get a emergency ex-parta.explain how you feel like you will never get to see your child again or a pfa would make her have to stay if she doesnt show up you will get your emergency custody automatic and she will have a capias out for her arrest so if she did leave the state she would be extradited back to the court you filed at. hope it helps
paul

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Oct 29, 2009
 
paul marley wrote:
i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and badweather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.
this is paul i had the pfa lifted cause there was no abuse or danger to my children and also the contempt was lifted i now have primary custody of my sons cause i provided evidence against her that she was the one that was the dangerous and abuseive parent i even had dfs and a daycare center testify against her. about her neglect and abuse toward are sons even when you are blamed for something you never did you can prove to the courts you are the better parent but men watch out for the pfa's and keep trying to prove and you a great father one day may come to you like it came for me..
paul

Newark, DE

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Oct 29, 2009
 
this is paul i had the pfa lifted cause there was no abuse or danger to my children and also the contempt was lifted i now have primary custody of my sons cause i provided evidence against her that she was the one that was the dangerous and abuseive parent i even had dfs and a daycare center testify against her. about her neglect and abuse toward are sons even when you are blamed for something you never did you can prove to the courts you are the better parent but men watch out for the pfa's and keep trying to prove you a great father one day may come to you like it came for me..
Kevin

Haddonfield, NJ

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Jan 6, 2010
 
I would like to invite all Delaware parents who have gone through the corrupt family court system to 2010 first family law commission meeting January 12 between 7-9 PM at Leg. Hall Dover.
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Philadelphia, PA

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May 25, 2010
 
Father's in De loose rights because of false allegation of abuse see 60 sec video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch...
Adam

Montclair, NJ

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May 26, 2010
 
Hi, Hopefully someone can answer this for me and shed some light on what i can do. Last year i met up with a girl and we hit it off pretty quick in about 2 months she became pregnant, things were going great, then they went bad, she broke it off with me back in november and stopped talking to me. I did not give up trying to talk to her day in and day out calling and texting to let her know even tho we are not together I would still be there for her as support and the father of the child we then started talking again in december, then in jan she broke it off with me again our communication was terrible she just wanted to argue and tell me only reason i would want to talk to her was because it was getting close to the due date, now my child has been born and I wasnt even there or called or notified i haven't seen him yet and its been about 3 weeks, I dont know what I can do or what rights I have...Any help would be appreciated
Mike

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Jun 1, 2010
 
paul marley wrote:
i went to court today for a contempt of a pfa order against me in the state of delaware.i was found in contempt because my uncle was 45 mins late droping off the kids.the day he droped them off it was a bad thunder storm and his windshield wipers fail to work in the middle of coming to pick them up.also my girlfriend picked the boys up a hour early one visit and i was found in contempt for that also but how was in contempt no one force to give the kids over she handed them over on her free will.also i was found in comtempt for my girlfriend and my ex was talking about the custody order in the effect.now what was i supposed do if my uncle had car issues and bad weather,i have no controll over anyboby calling my ex what that got to do with me and how was i in contempt for her giving the kids over a hour earlier when i am not a loud to pick them up or call decause of the pfa order against me.the system is set up for father to fail.all i want is to be a dad, i love my kids.but know i realize why alot of father walk out of there childrens life cause its hard enough to be a parent with a mother making it harder for the man to be a father.because everyone with or without children know the courts ae for the women .......my email#pmoses519@hotmail.com if want to talk about the system and men rights to be a father.
I absolutely agree. I was told to have no contact from my wife and was told not to get to my home which I built with so much pride. As they told me not to go to my home I was staying at a hotel, then they tried to serve me a motion for PFA at my house which I was told not to be at by the system. They awarded my wife with my house and my kid because i did not make it to the court. I did not even know there was a court date, no one served me. They said they cant help me and now I am walking out on my boy and would not want to see my wife at all. Brothman, you can not win againist women in this system, the best way to do is just get out of their way. Don't even try to fight women in the court system. COURTS ARE BIASED TOWARDS WOMEN AND MEN ARE ALWAys guiLty. So forget it and walk in peace!!!
Raine

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What gets me is this ranting against women, it's not all women just like it's not all men. My husband and my situations are prime examples. I have a daughter with a military man, he got thrown out of the military after we got pregnant now we have a child, he is abusive, I leave. Long story short he doesn't want to pay child support so he is hiding out, yet I willingly allow him and his family access to my child because she has a right to make that decision for herself whether she wants to continue to reach out to a father who hardly ever reaches out to her. My husband has a child with a woman in DE where they both are from, she had had four children taken away from her by the state, she had his child removed from her care after dropping the child off drunk at daycare. His child support payments are always on time she constantly calls our phone number when she'd drug just to rant and rave, she knows where we live, where his family lives, but the moment she gets busted, she doesn't know where he is the courts don't even try to contact us, they just give custody to her parents, so now his paying child support to her parents and her. She gets to get the child back, the judge doesn't even listen to him, they just blow him off, and now my household is suffering because I can't get the 250 a month from my child's father and he shells out 700 a month for his and can't see his child? So I'm sick of ya'll saying it's the women, its the people who chose to make this system pathetic and that is the pathetic assholes who are so selfish that they can't or won't do whats best for the children!!!!

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