Mom learns online about daughter's oral sex

Apr 20, 2010 Full story: Monterey County Herald 7

Dear Straight Talk: I checked a link where teenagers ask questions to each other.

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Girl46

Cambridge, UK

#3 Apr 20, 2010
Im 17, and i had a chat with my mum one night about everything; sex oral the lot; although i didnt say some things she knew i what i was talking about. i opened up about things, and the only reason i told her more things is because she didnt go mad and hit the roof; she said she knew how it was and opened up about things she had done in the past. she said she still loved me and i was no different, yes she did the check to see if i was being safe and now i trust her, be comfortable and approachable; be there for her, you dont need to talk to her right away; wait for the opportunity she may come to you. hope it helps.:) x
Gina

Lindsay, CA

#4 Apr 21, 2010
Oral is not sex. Today it is just a form of foreplay and almost every girl does it. Also, it works great to cool boys off so they don't bother girls for intercourse.
Tell The Truth

Saitama, Japan

#5 Apr 21, 2010
It only makes too much sense that ORAL sex would be so common among teenager girls.

1. No condoms or birth control needed.

2. Can't get pregnant from oral sex.

3. Odds of catching an STD are greatly lower.

4. The sex drive and raging hormones are still there, so oral sex is considered a safer way to "vent".

Oral sex also touches on prudishness. The sexually uptight and repressed will have a lot of problems with sexual variety and alternate sex like oral or anal.

To scare teenage girls out of vaginal sex, pregnancy and STDs are used. However, oral sex kind of bypasses such scare tactics.

It then can becomes more a matter of how much you are trapped into vanilla sex or are sexually liberal. A mother can be near frigid and almost always missionary type, while the daughter gives some wickedly good BJs and hand jobs. The debate then can be more about a sexual generation gap in a lot of ways.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#6 Apr 21, 2010
Fifteen is awfully young. Much of it depends on her maturity and why she is doing it.

Too often teenagers are pressured into doing things they don't really want to do.

She needs to be aware of the dangers of STD's. Some think you can't get any diseases from oral but that isn't true.

My daughter is fifteen and I've talked to her about reputation. It's so easy for a young girl to get a bad label for her behavior and she needs to think before she acts.

Some young women will see that certain girls are getting a lot of attention from boys but do you want to be noticed only because you put out?

It is better to be popular for who you are than being easy.
Thank you Pamela

United States

#7 Apr 21, 2010
Very well stated..

Good parenting..

Since: May 09

Merry Christmas!

#8 Apr 21, 2010
Tell The Truth wrote:
It then can becomes more a matter of how much you are trapped into vanilla sex or are sexually liberal. A mother can be near frigid and almost always missionary type, while the daughter gives some wickedly good BJs and hand jobs. The debate then can be more about a sexual generation gap in a lot of ways.
Got a little carried away on that one didn't you? You're assuming mothers are only into vanilla sex. You have very Victorian opinions of mature women. Get with it, it's 2010.
:O)
Koban

Monterey, CA

#9 Apr 21, 2010
Tell The Truth wrote:
A mother can be near frigid and almost always missionary type, while the daughter gives some wickedly good BJs and hand jobs.
That quote is hilarious on so many levels!

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