Friendship/relationship advice

Friendship/relationship advice

Posted in the Psychology Forum


Saint Clairsville, OH

#1 Jul 6, 2013
Need some options help and advice please?

I have this friend she and I texted all the time spent a lot of time together and was very happy. I'm gay she wasn't (that I know of). As time went on our text msgs started getting more and more personal. Our bond starting to get more closer. Soon emotional feelings were developed on my end and truly felt and saw emotional feelings on her end also. Things were going great we were getting closer everyday developing our friendship into a relationship. Then her child came home from college one day and read her texts between the 2 of us. She told me that her and her child almost got into a fist fight over our msgs. Since this happened little by little this girl put space in between us. She hardly texted me told me that she had to spend all her time with me and demanded space. She and I started into arguments I would text her she refused to return my texts. I begged to reconcile but she refused to accept my wish for communication. Unfortunately we just ended our friendship due to her doing. I feel like I gave 100% into our relationship and tried to do everything to reconcile. I feel she on the other hand tried everything to end our relationship. I feel betrayed, my emotions toyed with and abused. I feel like her child accused her of more than friends with me and she realized her child was right got scared and ran to hide our relationship that was developed out of friendship. Now she won't talk to me she changed her number and even threatened me by the law if I contact her. I'm so distraught and upset. I miss her so much. I would love to have our friendship back but on the other hand I'm so angry with her for hurting me I have hatred. Don't know what to think????
Is it possible that we could ever reconcile our friendship sometime in the future after time passes for each of us to heal????
Need so much advice and opinions feel like I've done everything wrong, but yet feel that I've been had.

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