Masturbation,Bad for the human mind?
humanbeing

Knoxville, TN

#135 Aug 19, 2008
Andrew wrote:
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I am experiencing all of these symptoms and i masturbate everyday, and i am abnormally thin, i am 18. Can anyone tell me how they felt once they stopped masturbating?
No harm at all comes from this practice.
However, if it causes one a problem, it is because one has a problem before masturbation!

The thoughts during masturbation show the mental health of the individual. If you have a problem with food, sex, sleep, work, or you are depressed or nervous, etc., as many are: then of course the act of masturbation is hampered.

The act is very private or it is not masturbation, it is exhibition or even fondling by another (which is another topic!).

HEALTHY PEOPLE DO NOT TALK ABOUT MASTURBATION, THEY ENJOY IT!

Have you ever known a healthy person to complain about their masturbation. In an anonymous survey participants rated it as MOST ENJOYABLE IN THEIR FIFTIES!(as is man-woman sex, too, best in the fifties of life).

Many married coulples stay together while having sex seperately alone: MASTURBATION.
It is universal, but private, even in marriage.

For a pure heart it feels good after it is done!
Have self-esteem based on love and concern and:
DO IT!
common knowledge

Knoxville, TN

#136 Aug 20, 2008
Tjena wrote:
Is it true that Masturbation is really bad for both for the human body(Makes you age like hell and take away your energy) the human mind?
I have developed a 100 % controll over my urge for p***,p*** is really stupid and it only makes people age and die faster.
What do you think?
NONE OF THESE NEGATIVE REPORTS ARE TRUE!

Masturbation prevents the almost inevitable prostrate cancer in men better that any other measure!

Do you also think married couples that have a lot of sex die faster? NO! By your reasoning married sex or extra-maritial sex between men and women would weaken the participants.

You are in Sweden? It is difficult to believe you could have been SO ABUSED by Swedish societial learning as to have come up with predjudice towards sex.

I say you don't masturbate well because you don't have a (and here I do not know the right words) confidence in your own spirit, your or your own soul or your own conscience. Every other day is the average for ALL KINDS OF SEX!
university

Knoxville, TN

#137 Aug 20, 2008
Andrew wrote:
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I am experiencing all of these symptoms and i masturbate everyday, and i am abnormally thin, i am 18. Can anyone tell me how they felt once they stopped masturbating?
Ever other day is normal statisticly?

Think about including food imagry when you are having this most private act.

In the army the young said they did not find abstinance which occured because of the crowding very convenient; no self-sex made them weak.

Sir, if one has some problems even the marriage bed sex might SEEM to make problems for them.

IF YOU ARE UNDER EATING, THEN THAT MAY BE THE PROBLEM. So, eat drink and be merry!
Mark

Wallsend, Australia

#138 Aug 24, 2008
ljg711 wrote:
I sure hope it isn't bad for you!
Masturbation is BAD. DON'T DO IT!
sunil

Bangalore, India

#139 Aug 25, 2008
can any1 tell me by masturbating is there any memory lose?????????? plz plz plz p,z help me out with this answer>>>>>

The Big Time

“Runs Like a Deere”

Since: Jan 07

Forest Park, GA

#140 Aug 25, 2008





I don'T reMeMbEr if Thats A Side EffEct,....
John

United States

#141 Aug 25, 2008
Don't believe all the people who are saying that it will make you older, uglier, fatter, dumb, ect. they obviously have no clue at all what they are talking about. I've researched this and if you are a male then the only problems you may experience is pre-ejaculation, erection has lessened. That only happens though if you masturbate to often, like about 2 times a day for couple years. It is perfectly normal for you to masturbate as long as you keep it to moderation.
Del

Rockville, MD

#142 Aug 27, 2008
PLEASE STOP MASTURBATING. YOU WILL EVENTUALLY PAY THE CONSEQUENCES. PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY EMOTIONALLY

I know what I am talking about because I am paying the consequences of this vice. I am 40 years and Masturbation has destroyed my life. I have been masturbating since I was 12 years old. I had no idea if I would pay for it later.

The people who suffer the most from masturbation are the ones who start practicing it at a very young age because the body and the sex organs are not fully developed in the teenage years.

It will affect you physically, mentally and emotionally. Today at 40 years I feel retarded. I look older that my age with a lot of grey hair. It's hard for me to learn anything, I have a hard time remembering things. I had a very good memory when I was younger. I am NOT able to perform sexually.

If you are reading this and still practicing this vice, PLEASE, I urge you do what ever you can to stop. If you don't you will pay for it sooner or later.
Reality

Knoxville, TN

#143 Aug 28, 2008
Mentally or physically ill people have trouble with Masturbation; normal people enjoy nature's bounty. In reality people who have healthy marriage sex, are the same people who had good self sex. IF YOU CANNOT GET HEALTHY THOUGHTS WHEN YOU MASTURBATE: THEN YOU ARE SICK!

What a laugh. If you cannot stop doing it, then you must be getting some good from it despite you pathological guilt. Ask healthy people what they do.

Scientific surveys find that masturbation is like martial sex in its effects. I have seen families with over ten children AND THE PARENTS DON'T SEEM WEAKENED!

It is obvious that poor masturbators are poor off in health to begin with. Babies masturbate then forget to, as they become children; yet, if they do not restart masturbating at some time from early chilhood to nine years old (in complete privacy), they are unhealthy. If some one begins this act later in life, say 17 or 23 years of age...they have a problem already.

It is the same as with food; a sick person cannot enjoy a good meal asmuch as when they are well.

For men masturbation acts to prevent the onset of that almost universal condition in older men: prostrate cancer.

However if you want to clown around and feel unhealthy go right ahead you deserve you self imposed fate!

Abstainers, do you think everyone is wrong and you are right on this subject!
anshul_india

Bhopal, India

#144 Sep 1, 2008
hi buddy, i am doing it for three years and i have not found anything wrong with it....
best of luck to you...
Hey

San Jose, CA

#145 Sep 1, 2008
I think masturbation is really harmful psychologically and physically. It just seems so dirty and filthy fantasizing about having sex or whatever with girls and its just kinda sick.. I'm not saying I haven't masturbated but it just makes me feel like scum after I do it. Its just very mind polluting and I try not to do it as much as much as possible. Plus I feel MUCH better about myself and physically if I just dont do it. And the physical drawbacks of masturbating seem to be being more prone to anxiety, fatigue, paler skin( at least with me) and more prone to becoming addicted
perplexed

Knoxville, TN

#146 Sep 1, 2008
Hey wrote:
I think masturbation is really harmful psychologically and physically. It just seems so dirty and filthy fantasizing about having sex or whatever with girls and its just kinda sick.. I'm not saying I haven't masturbated but it just makes me feel like scum after I do it. Its just very mind polluting and I try not to do it as much as much as possible. Plus I feel MUCH better about myself and physically if I just dont do it. And the physical drawbacks of masturbating seem to be being more prone to anxiety, fatigue, paler skin( at least with me) and more prone to becoming addicted
So you are avoiding normal sex with women too, right. Well if you think sex is dirty, then, you will avoid marriage.

If you are pure at heart, masturbation can be one of the most pleasant moments of your entire existence. Only healthy people can do that. You do it for joy. That evidentially is unacceptable to you, only AFTER THE FACT. You are against yourself; lead by a false concern.
rahul

Hyderabad, India

#147 Sep 4, 2008
its bad ,, results in hair loss , poor concentration...so students be aware
Knoxvillian

Knoxville, TN

#148 Sep 4, 2008
rahul wrote:
its bad ,, results in hair loss , poor concentration...so students be aware
Where is you science for this conclusion? You will find no study at all that backs you supposition up! Would sex in marriage make hair fall out?

Oh, so then in that case, you would be saying that people should not have sex for making babies. Should that be your philosophy; that is going to wipe out the population of the world, if the rest of us practice your belief.

Sex with someone else or sex with the self, both requie a certain amount of health; so does enjoying a good meal. So some sick folks can't enjoy a good meal. Should they starve because of that?

And how could masturbation be considered a problem even by the uneducated and unscientific people who try to stop? BECAUSE THE NATURAL URGE IS STRONG ENOUGH TO WILL OUT, even in those who would abstain.

Alarm bells should ring if you can't enjoy sex. Ask a doctor. Read a junior highschool health book.

Hair falling out is the most copious IN THOSE WHO HAVE MUCH HAIR. It is hereditary. HAIR NOT REGROWING IS WHAT YOU REALLY MEAN.

Why don't you be against prayer? People who pray get bald or white headed or silver haired....so, rahul should the world stop praying? I am only making this joke to make the point: coincidences of age related circumstances and hair loss or poor concentration, do not show any CAUSAL LINKAGE!
MASTURBATION SUCK

Moncton, Canada

#149 Sep 26, 2008
Masturbation is NOT same as sex...Mast. is not HEALTHY. If its healthy, why did you ask anyway? you asked cause it doubts you... Mast. takes out lots of ENERGY
Jonathan

Knoxville, TN

#150 Sep 26, 2008
Oh, so man-women sex doesn't take energy? Or should we avoid human reproduction, on your say so, because it, too, takes too much energy? Duh? I agree masturbation is not the same as couple sex, but MAN WOMEN SEX TAKES MORE ENERY.
Several have asked about masturbation BECAUSE THEY DID NOT KNOW! It is irrational to use anyone's ignorance as an assertion of rectitude for a position. I am puzzeled by the last writer's last sentence, in the above message, as I have noted the most entergetic men acknowledge using masturbation, while ONLY THE WEAK MEN ON THIS THREAD ARE HAVING ANY TROUBLE.
If one is weak, one will be weak when they masturbate. Why not try some good food and exercise to cure this weakness? Or do you believe exercise makes men weak? Some people do; that doesn't make it so. Not masturbating is a great rarity. Probably less than 1%, don't say that they do masturbate, when they are asked, on anonymous self-reporting questionaires. It is not that masturbation makes one sick. It is that sickness MIGHT stop one from masturbating well.

Since: Aug 08

Knoxville, TN

#151 Sep 26, 2008
MASTURBATION SUCK wrote:
Masturbation is NOT same as sex...Mast. is not HEALTHY. If its healthy, why did you ask anyway? you asked cause it doubts you... Mast. takes out lots of ENERGY
Give me a break. Are you for real? Something is wrong with your soul or body, if you cannot enjoy nature's gift! Why are you so different from 99.99 percent of mankind? This issue is not just a man issue. Have you noticed how no women complain here about the act making them weak? Duh! Wake up! I'm not believing you.
Pouya

Iran

#152 Sep 27, 2008
Masturbating at any age, any gender, any position is a harmful thing. I hate myself atfter masturbating, I'm already 19 yrs old but I still do it twice a week & everytime I promiss to God and Holy Books to DON'T Do it again but I can't! I have a girl friend we just can kiss eachother once a week cuz we can't see eachother a lot but I'm sure that after every kiss it makes me Crazy again to masturbate!!!
I'm engeering student, after ejaculation for 1 day I can't read and learn anything! If you know a good way for stopping this GODDAMN thing plz help me too.
truthful

Knoxville, TN

#153 Sep 27, 2008
See a psychiatrist about the weakness after ejaculation; otherwise take the advice of me who has lived next to one of the world's biggest engineering schools for the past forty-five years: I know the students quite well, I have lived with them, and not one of them had your problem. You know about mathematics and logic: if masturbation drains your energy, then married-sex with a partner would send you to bed for three weeks.

But we have eyes and we look around and know this is not true for marriage. It is also not true for masturbation, this weakening you mention. Pay attention to the part of you that wants to masturbate. This is life force: masturbation. No wonder its power overcomes you twice a week. Guilt after masturbation is pathological, that is your sickness.

I sure hope you do not tell your future sons that masturbation is any thing else but normal.

I have known many ex-fighting men soldiers and non-soldiers, all of wichich are very energetic from youth to old age and I can assure you with certainty that they all masturbated on average once every other day. I know this because of my ears heard it from them and I have read a lot of published scientific studies wherein the men reported their true actions in anonymity.

And as for the weakness, weakness was what the men in my army training camp complained of WEAKNESS DUE TO LACK OF MASTURBATION, because the sleeping quarters were too un-private to have privacy to masturbate in.
Jerking at 60

Salt Lake City, UT

#154 Oct 12, 2008
I jerk it once a day and maximum of 7 times, when in my 20's. I'm 60 and love sex with my wife, but also need to jerk it once a day minimum.

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