Why are people still against interracial dating/marriages

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rogerrabbit

San Diego, CA

#1 Jun 20, 2007
In the past 3 weeks I have been to several forum sites about dating etc and to my surprise, I find that many people say horrible things about people who date outside of their race! I would like to know what's driving all of this hatred still in 2007?
harleymama

San Diego, CA

#5 Sep 20, 2007
rogerrabbit wrote:
In the past 3 weeks I have been to several forum sites about dating etc and to my surprise, I find that many people say horrible things about people who date outside of their race! I would like to know what's driving all of this hatred still in 2007?
I don't think that it is the hatred so much as the distain for the "leeching" that some of the guys do off the girls. I have seen it personally and think that it is horrid. If you love each other, I mean truly love each other, then that is all that counts. Some of these "boys" need to know that it is not all about control and to mooch off your girl. Go out, get a job and then provide for your family.
dating a mixed guy

Dover, DE

#6 Sep 24, 2007
Coolguy28CA wrote:
Because nigg*rs need to date their own kind... damn monkeys
do not EVER make comments like this again. very rude. and affending, to not only black people, but also whites.

Since: Sep 07

San Diego, CA

#7 Sep 24, 2007
Speaking for myself as a black woman. I'm not against interracial dating at all. However I am against the the slander SOME black men use to put down black women in order to uplift the white woman he is dating. I am against the ignorant excuses SOME black men use to date outside of there race. Not only am I against the slander and ignorance SOME black men use against black women, I am against black men who allow white women to get so cockie as to believe because of their race that their better than black women. Other than those negative aspects, I have no problem with interracial dating.
Soul_Boi

La Jolla, CA

#10 Oct 20, 2007
btw, im white/spainsh and im deaf, fyi, i dont really care what race i would date, because my frist girlfriend was black, which when i was 9 years old. and i found, more you involved interracial date, more interesting life it going to be, not same pattern, like, white to white, black to black, and etc. u know? i like to do something little random, which some families wont expect and have to adopt it. u know what i meant?

i against the racist comments.
white girl mx

Mexico, Mexico

#11 Feb 27, 2008
because its wrong, plain and simple

http://youtube.com/watch...
Bacaan

Cincinnati, OH

#12 Mar 28, 2009
Not saying I am for or against interracial couples, but my question is, why all the sudden do people feel then have this need to instantly force this all the sudden.

It's really looks more like some giant social fashion statement then a hearts true following.

I know I will have 99% of the world slam me for posing this as a potential idea; but then again, lie is accepted quicker then truth.

Also, before I get flamed on this, I never said if I was a man, a woman, black, white or even asian or latino. All I'm asking is, why all the sudden is everyone jumping on this interracial bandwagon no differently then when disco came into style back in the 70's?

Because the scary thing is, in time people who totally embraced disco ended up being the biggest opponents to slam against it and bash it in later decades to try and forget they were a part of it; as if they felt embarrassed later for making to hasty of a decision.

If this is the same, and interracial couples are just a new fad people are rushing into, I fear later in life, 3, maybe 4 decades later down the road there can be a huge backlash, as with almost every fad theres always a later generation to back lash against "rebel against their parents" kind of ordeal.

I hope I'm wrong, but if this is true, the pattern will in time unfold and racism will end up being bigger then ever in all of history in the next few decades.

Just something to ponder and think about is all.
wIfEy TyPe

Mooresville, NC

#14 Nov 18, 2009
to start off i am a white girl from Florida,and down there you dont see many mixed couples....but after moveing to North Carolina i had that in mind that it WASNT right to date or marry anyone out of your race......but in 8th grade i met my current boyfriend (i am in 10th grade now)....he is black...but i now see that the color of your skin dosent matter,as long as you love that person.....my grandma,dad,mom and most of my family is against it,but i keep my head up and ignore it....i HATE when people tell me im nasty and im gonna have have breed children...its not fair....and for all the people out there that have a problem with people of different races dating you might as well get over it because you see it more and more everyday!!
wIfEy TyPe

Mooresville, NC

#15 Nov 18, 2009
EbonySunshyn wrote:
Speaking for myself as a black woman. I'm not against interracial dating at all. However I am against the the slander SOME black men use to put down black women in order to uplift the white woman he is dating. I am against the ignorant excuses SOME black men use to date outside of there race. Not only am I against the slander and ignorance SOME black men use against black women, I am against black men who allow white women to get so cockie as to believe because of their race that their better than black women. Other than those negative aspects, I have no problem with interracial dating.
i am a white female...and i am sorry for all of the white people that have put you down....
obamessiah

United States

#16 Nov 18, 2009
While a lot of people won't admit it, people from differing rascial backgrounds are different. So why would you want to take a chance marrying a person that is different than you? Black folks like certain kinds of food, chitlans and pickled pigs feet, etc, but mexicans like barritos and tako's. White folks like steak and patatoes and orientials like fish heads and rice. Blacks like rap music, mexicans like trumpets and accordians, orientals like triangles and oboes and whites like more sophisticated music. If you're going to marry someone, why would you want a bunch of loud jungle music playing all the time. It's as simple as that.

Since: Nov 09

Mooresville, NC

#17 Nov 18, 2009
obamessiah wrote:
While a lot of people won't admit it, people from differing rascial backgrounds are different. So why would you want to take a chance marrying a person that is different than you? Black folks like certain kinds of food, chitlans and pickled pigs feet, etc, but mexicans like barritos and tako's. White folks like steak and patatoes and orientials like fish heads and rice. Blacks like rap music, mexicans like trumpets and accordians, orientals like triangles and oboes and whites like more sophisticated music. If you're going to marry someone, why would you want a bunch of loud jungle music playing all the time. It's as simple as that.
you are sterotyping everyone.....im white and i like ALL music..and ALL food.

Since: Jun 09

San Diego, CA

#18 Nov 20, 2009
obamessiah wrote:
While a lot of people won't admit it, people from differing rascial backgrounds are different. So why would you want to take a chance marrying a person that is different than you? Black folks like certain kinds of food, chitlans and pickled pigs feet, etc, but mexicans like barritos and tako's. White folks like steak and patatoes and orientials like fish heads and rice. Blacks like rap music, mexicans like trumpets and accordians, orientals like triangles and oboes and whites like more sophisticated music. If you're going to marry someone, why would you want a bunch of loud jungle music playing all the time. It's as simple as that.
Wow, glad to see the ignorance coming from hat side of the states. We here on the west coast, believe that if you love someone, then thats all that should matter. Obviously you have some insecurity issues and might want to get some self respect before talking about other people in such a manner

btw, your dumb
Devylynne

Nashville, TN

#19 Nov 21, 2009
I am just amazed that the ignorance of racism is still churning and brewing. I have always taught my daughter WE ALL BLEED RED!! My blood can save any person's life... and here is a little tid bit to think about. The garden of eden was somewhere near Iraq (so researchers think). People from this area typically are darker... I believe we are all sons and daughter of Adam and Eve...so weren't we all dark at one time??? Grow up...and when your child or parent or loved is in need of blood to save their life- please be sure to ask the color of skin of the donor you idiots and see if it matters then!
obamessiah

United States

#20 Nov 22, 2009
Oh come on people. Races are different. If you're so ignorant that you can't see that, then you can't see anything. One person say's she likes all music. I do to, but what they pass off as music these days is ridiculous. Screaming things into a microphone while drums play in the background isn't music, usless you're some freek. And eating anything that is passed off as food... well, there are some things that would make a strong stomach throw up. I went into a Vietnameese market and I couldn't even recognize some of the things they had hanging up in the meat section, and I for sure wouldn't eat it. Looked like someone's dog without any skin on it. Yuk!

Since: Jun 09

San Diego, CA

#21 Nov 22, 2009
ah mr ignorant from dixon butthole, MO

always with nothing good to say, and nothing intelligent to add to the argument
obamessiah

United States

#22 Nov 22, 2009
Okay Mr. ignoramous, I'm fixing to come out to San Diego, Calafruitchy and kick ass and take names an guess what, you at the top of list. I'll meet you at the rolled taco shop in National City and buy you a bunch of rolled taco's and after we've consumed them, I'll beat the living daylights out of you, just for fun.

Since: Jun 09

San Diego, CA

#23 Nov 22, 2009
obamessiah wrote:
Okay Mr. ignoramous, I'm fixing to come out to San Diego, Calafruitchy and kick ass and take names an guess what, you at the top of list. I'll meet you at the rolled taco shop in National City and buy you a bunch of rolled taco's and after we've consumed them, I'll beat the living daylights out of you, just for fun.
Wow old man, I would like to see you try, ha ha!

I am glad you show how liberals are, execpt in one aspect. You want to find! Most would rather hide under a rock. But you are from the fighting age aren't ya (40s-50s).

When you can't defeat them with words, try fists! Human intelligence at its best

Good day
Obamessiah

United States

#24 Nov 23, 2009
Hey man, I'm in my 60's and I could woop you with one hand tied behind my back. Yeah, fists do speak louder than words. I'm all for force rather than your mamby-pamby little words.
SDMOM

Bowling Green, KY

#25 Nov 23, 2009
I have been told there are two main reasons behind the thinking.

One is that God or Nature put the different races on different continents to keep them from "mixing". Therefore, according to this theory - it is simply not natural for the races to intermix. Some go so far as to believe races should not even socialise because of this historical separation.

The other is, that IF the races all start intermarrying and having children (the natural outcome of dating most of the times!) then we would eventually end up with all mixed race people. Many blacks and other ethnic people feel this would be a real shame, to lose thier race altogether.

I am not saying I agree of disagree with either of these ideas - just that it is what I have been told through the years
Obamessiah

United States

#26 Nov 23, 2009
Dear SDMOM,

You're absolutely right. I like to pull Obamessiah #1's chain by threatening him with my mean fists, but the truth of the matter is that I believe in God and violence isn't the answer to anything. Having said that, I believe God wants people of different geographical regions to be of the same race. Why it's that way, I can't say, but it does keep things in balance when races are separated. It also allows for maintaining equalibrium in population growth. How does that happen? Germany in WW II is a good example. Wars reduce population. Separate races go to war against each other and that in turn, keeps the population down.

Some people are aghast at that proposal, but when you consider the fact that corrupt governments like Hitler had, or, for that matter, like we have now in this country, are allowed to be put in place by the people of that country, then forces are exerted to distroy that government and return things to normal.

Another point is that people don't die. Oh, their physical body dies, but the person lives forever. So if you leave this earth, then you're going to go to a better place, if you are a moral individual, or you're going to go to a worse place if you're evil.

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