Judge overturns California's ban on same-sex marriage

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A federal judge in California has knocked down the state's voter-approved ban on same-sex marriage, ruling Wednesday that the state's controversial Proposition 8 violates the U.S. Constitution.

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Since: Dec 09

Knoxville, TN

#188209 Apr 11, 2013
Pietro Armando wrote:
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They're just questions, no disrespect intended. Its a simple "why'. Why does the one woman of the lesbian couple wear a tuxedo on their wedding day? Do gay men wear wedding dresses? Maybe just Dennis Rodman.:)
I did a search on Google "Ask a Lesbian". I came across a Topix forum that was trying to get to the bottom of your question.

One response stood out:

"'m a femme lesbian with a butch girlfriend.
like many here have already said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and it takes all kinds of people to make this world go around.
my "butch" girlfriend is attractive to me because she has confidence, a sense of humor, and compassion for others. no matter what her personal style, her personality would be the same. in fact, not that long ago she was a 'girly' lesbian.
and with clothes of any style, or completely naked, she is a beautiful woman that i love, honor, and respect.
i won't check this board again, so please send any feedback to leelan_m04@yahoo.com and i'd be happy to elaborate.:)
thanks, and i hope i helped!"

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Since she included her email, you should drop her a line.

The discussion took place in 2007, so she may not have the same email. But, there were responses as recently as March 2013

The Topix forum that discusses this issue can be found here http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T8C109POF...

Go have a look and see what you find.

“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#188210 Apr 11, 2013
Pietro Armando wrote:
<quoted text>
They're just questions, no disrespect intended. Its a simple "why'. Why does the one woman of the lesbian couple wear a tuxedo on their wedding day? Do gay men wear wedding dresses? Maybe just Dennis Rodman.:)
According to VV, there is no such thing as sexual orientation dysfunction...that he wants to hear about.

“KiMare'a the Monster Mutation”

Since: Nov 10

Location hidden

#188211 Apr 11, 2013
veryvermilion wrote:
<quoted text>
I did a search on Google "Ask a Lesbian". I came across a Topix forum that was trying to get to the bottom of your question.
One response stood out:
"'m a femme lesbian with a butch girlfriend.
like many here have already said, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. and it takes all kinds of people to make this world go around.
my "butch" girlfriend is attractive to me because she has confidence, a sense of humor, and compassion for others. no matter what her personal style, her personality would be the same. in fact, not that long ago she was a 'girly' lesbian.
and with clothes of any style, or completely naked, she is a beautiful woman that i love, honor, and respect.
i won't check this board again, so please send any feedback to leelan_m04@yahoo.com and i'd be happy to elaborate.:)
thanks, and i hope i helped!"
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Since she included her email, you should drop her a line.
The discussion took place in 2007, so she may not have the same email. But, there were responses as recently as March 2013
The Topix forum that discusses this issue can be found here http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T8C109POF...
Go have a look and see what you find.
I've got a better idea. Google butch lesbian forums.

Why does a lesbian dress and act like a man to attract another lesbian?

Because something is sexually broken. Almost a man connecting with barely a lesbian.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188212 Apr 11, 2013
woodtick57 wrote:
So Petey...yo haven't given up on your quest for multiple wives, have you?
I cannot speak for Pietro, but I think that he like myself is not interested in a poly marriage, only in discussing it in relation to marriage equality.

Let me also state in advance that I am also not interested in marrying a goat, as "Big D" and others have insisted I must be since I mention poly marriage.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188213 Apr 11, 2013
Big D wrote:
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We already have Thor's day ( Thursday ) once a week, that is as much recognition as any other religion and more than most.
we need a Xemu holiday
God of most of the peoples of the world throughout history. BAD!!!!

"Xemu". GOOD!!!!

in Big D La La land.

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#188214 Apr 11, 2013
woodtick57 wrote:
<quoted text>your stereotypes are not true of all lesbians, Petey...
so what is up, ol' Pietro?
many women are attracted to very feminine looking women. many very masculine men are attracted to masculine men. and I have personally attended a wedding where they both wore wedding gowns.
WOODY?! Is that you? Welcome back amico.

I know not all lesbians are like that.... Some are down right beautiful. My question was not to imply all were like that, same with gay men, just seeking an answer to puzzlement. That's all.

What of a wedding of two men? I don't I've seen pictures of one wearing a dress. You? Just askin'
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188215 Apr 11, 2013
woodtick57 wrote:
<quoted text>your stereotypes are not true of all lesbians, Petey...
so what is up, ol' Pietro?
many women are attracted to very feminine looking women. many very masculine men are attracted to masculine men. and I have personally attended a wedding where they both wore wedding gowns.
Two men married in wedding gowns? Oy. White?
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188216 Apr 11, 2013
Caution. Tick season. Check yourself often.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188217 Apr 11, 2013
woodtick57 wrote:
<quoted text>your stereotypes are not true of all lesbians, Petey...
so what is up, ol' Pietro?
many women are attracted to very feminine looking women. many very masculine men are attracted to masculine men. and I have personally attended a wedding where they both wore wedding gowns.
http://www.cdc.gov/features/stopticks/

Since: Apr 11

North Hollywood, CA

#188218 Apr 11, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
I've got a better idea. Google butch lesbian forums.
Why does a lesbian dress and act like a man to attract another lesbian?
Because something is sexually broken. Almost a man connecting with barely a lesbian.
LOL! A monster talking about something being broken! Do you consider yourself human?

Fashion is purely cultural, stupid.

Since: Apr 11

North Hollywood, CA

#188219 Apr 11, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
Hence the difference between marriage and ss couples.
Smile.
Hey, monster, you have both sets of sex chromosomes, should you be allowed to marry at all?
:)

Since: Apr 11

North Hollywood, CA

#188220 Apr 11, 2013
Time for everybody to face the fact there just isn't a good, rational argument against gay marriage.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188221 Apr 11, 2013
Rose_NoHo wrote:
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LOL! A monster talking about something being broken! Do you consider yourself human?
Fashion is purely cultural, stupid.
An impartial, deep thinking poster has decided that Rose_NoHo's post above is "Brilliant" "Interesting" and "Helpful". Surely there will be more posters impressed enough to give it many favorable reviews.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188222 Apr 11, 2013
Rose_NoHo wrote:
Time for everybody to face the fact there just isn't a good, rational argument against gay marriage.
Yes. I agree, there are no strong arguments against SSM, and therefore I support it. Marriage is good for society.

But as far as "the time has come", the time has come and passed for you to offer compelling arguments FOR it, not for anyone else to offer arguments against it.

The burden of making this social change falls on you, not us. You want the change. Most people are content with the status quo.


So, give us good arguments FOR it, don't expect us to argue against it. Most of us have no arguments against it or for it.

“Vita e' Bella.”

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#188223 Apr 11, 2013
Yaaaaaay Rosie back....the joy....the rapture....the wisdom that gushes forth from her insightful articulate posts. On with the show.

Since: Dec 09

Knoxville, TN

#188224 Apr 11, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
According to VV, there is no such thing as sexual orientation dysfunction...that he wants to hear about.
Well, I can't take all of the credit. There are all of those learned doctors and scientists who have been telling us that there is no such thing as "sexual orientation dysfunction" (where DO you come up with these terms?) for about 40 years.
Fabbulass

Covina, CA

#188235 Apr 11, 2013
Leans wrong today

Since: Dec 09

Knoxville, TN

#188241 Apr 11, 2013
KiMare wrote:
<quoted text>
I've got a better idea. Google butch lesbian forums.
Why does a lesbian dress and act like a man to attract another lesbian?
Because something is sexually broken. Almost a man connecting with barely a lesbian.
Oh yeah... Sexually broken... Can you show me that in the medical or psychological literature?

Oh, I get it. This just something else you've pulled out of your behind.

I swear... Your ass sees more action than most gay men I know.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188246 Apr 11, 2013
Randy -Rock- Hudson wrote:
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It's his story, let him tell it how he wants to...
Yeah, they get more beautiful and there's more of them the older I get!

But I was a WESTPAC sailor for a few years. Hell if I remember most of them the next morning let alone now! Oh yeah.
Frankie Rizzo

Union City, CA

#188247 Apr 11, 2013
Randy -Rock- Hudson wrote:
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Wonder why it took him so long...
Yeah I would have hit the button way sooner too. Patient guy. I like his satisfied grin at the end.

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