Man Found Dead in Sacramento Commuter...

Man Found Dead in Sacramento Commuter Parking Lot

There are 552 comments on the News10 Sacramento story from May 5, 2008, titled Man Found Dead in Sacramento Commuter Parking Lot. In it, News10 Sacramento reports that:

A park and ride lot in Sacramento yielded an unsettling situation Monday afternoon: a man was found in a car with a fatal head wound.

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Helen Keller

Woodland, CA

#396 Jan 31, 2009
Well then, hope he left you something in the will.
Another Parent wrote:
<quoted text>
WRONG.
I am family, and I didn't know. End of story.
Helen Keller, it's easy to sit back and be a keyboard warrior.
Wings of a hawk

Woodland, CA

#397 Jan 31, 2009
Pam you truly like drama. You dive right in bed with it.
Pamela Cox wrote:
<quoted text>
Wow i'm so famous now! I see you too, don't trip! But check this out: u obviously don't know me well to say i've been "acting" my "whole" life being my family was military and I lived in several states before residing in California. And did i post sumwhere that I was from the hood? Never. AAh, it's because of what I posted:that was real! Oh wait,xcept the part about sac state.. it was YALE! lol But to keep it moving let me go ahead and address who Joshua Aaron Kalb was to me since you put me out there!(I'm taking a bow)
For the last year before he passed, that man has been in and out of my life, not in and out of my bed! Since i was labeled a booty call! Josh Kalb was my friend. Every response I made in regards to all the negativity about him was coming from HIS FRIEND, not his booty call, not his girlfriend, but as his friend!!! I've known of Josh since 1997. Josh and i went thru sum shit in 2007 and there was alot of trust between us. Our relationship was strictly drama-free!Anything else between us is now forever going to stay between me and josh. But all this "he never cared about u" or "he was your booty call" even the damn phones calls i used to get please save it! Josh kept it "one hundred" with me;we had a friendship, nothing more.
I'm not a confrontational person. Everything i posted is because of pain of losing Josh. Josh meant the world to me! I can't even xplain it! Last few weeks b4 he died he kept a smile on my face cuz i was goin thru sum things. Despite what he was going thru after losing Josh Lund, he made sure I was doing cool. A true-friend to me. I don't care about what anybody else has to say about him!
To Justin and Jacob's mom:it was good seeing u at the funeral. I haven't seen Justin since he was like 3!! But, I know u know this already but Josh loved u so much. Josh and i had long talks bout back in the day(i wish we all could go back)! U were a good woman to him. Like u said, the one thing u can't take from him was that he was a damn good father! Hope u and the rest of his family are finding peace with everything that's going on right now.
Welp, I guess it's time to sign off! Now u know who I am. I am Pamela Cox;Josh Kalb's friend. I loved him just like I love my best friend! To his family:i meant no disrespect on this blog. If u felt disrespected by anything I've posted, i apologize.
Rest peacefully Josh Kalb and Josh Lund. U guyz ar e missed so much! Memories memories memories.. I'll cherish them always!
So long haters!! I'll shall move on now!
Pamela Cox

Oroville, CA

#398 Feb 1, 2009
Wings of a hawk wrote:
Pam you truly like drama. You dive right in bed with it.
<quoted text>
Shit u ain't lying! I was thinking that same shit! Look, I'm not going to argue;not going to fight anymore. Like i said b4, I let myself become very consumed with this blog. For the last 8 months I've been on here! That's too much! Reading and responding to the negative comments that were posted about Josh. Those comments hurt;anyone who truely cared for Josh was hurt. All out of anger;and i apologize. I vented and truthfully,it never made me feel better bout shit! JUST DIVING RIGHT INTO DRAMA! Drama is what made me lose sum1 that got me smiling again(miss u too). But ur absolutely right, drama! I'm done; i have no energy what's so ever anymore. I need to worry about keeping my damn job;this economy is fucked! I'm done guys. Movin on. Oh wait, to the family and friends of Riley Haeling:my condolences, I knew Riley too. Came across his obituary and the photo i took of him in class. Just went to see him and marcus. No matter what i said on Topix, I never forgot about him and what happened that night to EVERYONE in the house. Never knew riley outside of school; but he's someone i talked to often until my departure from BV. I hope u too will find peace. And finally to "PEACE" in honolulu, ur right God is Love; and ima try my best to keep my faith in that:) Well i'm done now! Enjoy the super bowl everyone, and a good 2009..

“To each his own...”

Since: Oct 07

Fair Oaks

#399 Feb 1, 2009
Helen Keller wrote:
Well then, hope he left you something in the will.
<quoted text>
I am not sure why you are so hostile to me, but I won't be a part of your drama.

I wish you no ill will. Best to you, and I hope that whatever Josh did to upset you so much will stop angering you as more time passes following his death.
rip riley

Stockton, CA

#400 Feb 2, 2009
Pamela Cox wrote:
<quoted text>
Shit u ain't lying! I was thinking that same shit! Look, I'm not going to argue;not going to fight anymore. Like i said b4, I let myself become very consumed with this blog. For the last 8 months I've been on here! That's too much! Reading and responding to the negative comments that were posted about Josh. Those comments hurt;anyone who truely cared for Josh was hurt. All out of anger;and i apologize. I vented and truthfully,it never made me feel better bout shit! JUST DIVING RIGHT INTO DRAMA! Drama is what made me lose sum1 that got me smiling again(miss u too). But ur absolutely right, drama! I'm done; i have no energy what's so ever anymore. I need to worry about keeping my damn job;this economy is fucked! I'm done guys. Movin on. Oh wait, to the family and friends of Riley Haeling:my condolences, I knew Riley too. Came across his obituary and the photo i took of him in class. Just went to see him and marcus. No matter what i said on Topix, I never forgot about him and what happened that night to EVERYONE in the house. Never knew riley outside of school; but he's someone i talked to often until my departure from BV. I hope u too will find peace. And finally to "PEACE" in honolulu, ur right God is Love; and ima try my best to keep my faith in that:) Well i'm done now! Enjoy the super bowl everyone, and a good 2009..
thank you..

“What goes around comes around”

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#401 Feb 2, 2009
Pamela Cox wrote:
<quoted text>
Shit u ain't lying! I was thinking that same shit! Look, I'm not going to argue;not going to fight anymore. Like i said b4, I let myself become very consumed with this blog. For the last 8 months I've been on here! That's too much! Reading and responding to the negative comments that were posted about Josh. Those comments hurt;anyone who truely cared for Josh was hurt. All out of anger;and i apologize. I vented and truthfully,it never made me feel better bout shit! JUST DIVING RIGHT INTO DRAMA! Drama is what made me lose sum1 that got me smiling again(miss u too). But ur absolutely right, drama! I'm done; i have no energy what's so ever anymore. I need to worry about keeping my damn job;this economy is fucked! I'm done guys. Movin on. Oh wait, to the family and friends of Riley Haeling:my condolences, I knew Riley too. Came across his obituary and the photo i took of him in class. Just went to see him and marcus. No matter what i said on Topix, I never forgot about him and what happened that night to EVERYONE in the house. Never knew riley outside of school; but he's someone i talked to often until my departure from BV. I hope u too will find peace. And finally to "PEACE" in honolulu, ur right God is Love; and ima try my best to keep my faith in that:) Well i'm done now! Enjoy the super bowl everyone, and a good 2009..
Mmm...Pam...you're made of good stuff. It would have been easy to blow all of this off and ignore it but you stood up and took credit/ discredit for what you've said here. That takes a lot of guts which most people don't have these days. You've earned some respect here, Missy. Be proud of yourself.
GoneWiththeWind

United States

#402 Feb 3, 2009
Helen Keller wrote:
Well then, hope he left you something in the will.
<quoted text>
youre pathetic.
Helen Keller

United States

#403 Feb 5, 2009
Yep, and alive still
GoneWiththeWind wrote:
<quoted text>
youre pathetic.
Helen Keller

United States

#404 Feb 5, 2009
You really have no clue. So go ahead and take the "high road" I am not "hostile" I was informing your that the boy has been on borrowed time for awhile. If not death then prison. This is truth, not hostility.
Another Parent wrote:
<quoted text>
I am not sure why you are so hostile to me, but I won't be a part of your drama.
I wish you no ill will. Best to you, and I hope that whatever Josh did to upset you so much will stop angering you as more time passes following his death.
Pam the ghetto actress

United States

#405 Feb 5, 2009
Pam, the 411 isnt required here. Your drama always will be. Now take that sorrow to the gym and jump on a bike or something.
Pamela Cox wrote:
<quoted text>
Wow i'm so famous now! I see you too, don't trip! But check this out: u obviously don't know me well to say i've been "acting" my "whole" life being my family was military and I lived in several states before residing in California. And did i post sumwhere that I was from the hood? Never. AAh, it's because of what I posted:that was real! Oh wait,xcept the part about sac state.. it was YALE! lol But to keep it moving let me go ahead and address who Joshua Aaron Kalb was to me since you put me out there!(I'm taking a bow)
For the last year before he passed, that man has been in and out of my life, not in and out of my bed! Since i was labeled a booty call! Josh Kalb was my friend. Every response I made in regards to all the negativity about him was coming from HIS FRIEND, not his booty call, not his girlfriend, but as his friend!!! I've known of Josh since 1997. Josh and i went thru sum shit in 2007 and there was alot of trust between us. Our relationship was strictly drama-free!Anything else between us is now forever going to stay between me and josh. But all this "he never cared about u" or "he was your booty call" even the damn phones calls i used to get please save it! Josh kept it "one hundred" with me;we had a friendship, nothing more.
I'm not a confrontational person. Everything i posted is because of pain of losing Josh. Josh meant the world to me! I can't even xplain it! Last few weeks b4 he died he kept a smile on my face cuz i was goin thru sum things. Despite what he was going thru after losing Josh Lund, he made sure I was doing cool. A true-friend to me. I don't care about what anybody else has to say about him!
To Justin and Jacob's mom:it was good seeing u at the funeral. I haven't seen Justin since he was like 3!! But, I know u know this already but Josh loved u so much. Josh and i had long talks bout back in the day(i wish we all could go back)! U were a good woman to him. Like u said, the one thing u can't take from him was that he was a damn good father! Hope u and the rest of his family are finding peace with everything that's going on right now.
Welp, I guess it's time to sign off! Now u know who I am. I am Pamela Cox;Josh Kalb's friend. I loved him just like I love my best friend! To his family:i meant no disrespect on this blog. If u felt disrespected by anything I've posted, i apologize.
Rest peacefully Josh Kalb and Josh Lund. U guyz ar e missed so much! Memories memories memories.. I'll cherish them always!
So long haters!! I'll shall move on now!
Pam the ghetto actress

United States

#407 Feb 6, 2009
Actors profile... Classy ghetto trash

http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...
yup thats me

Oroville, CA

#408 Feb 6, 2009
Pam the ghetto actress wrote:
Actors profile... Classy ghetto trash
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...
Seriously, what's ur deal? my myspace and? yeah that's me! check it out.. WHO'S DRAMA NOW? And i'm honestly not talking shit but damn, wat's ur problem? U went as far to finding my myspace just to put it up here huh? Welp i guess it is what it is. There's no acting goin on here. Not trying to get sympathy, NOTHING! My feelings, nothing more. My emotions have been splattered across this blog for 8months. Immature of me. Responding to negative comments from people. And yeah, i do know there are people who disliked josh for their personal reasons;i just wasn't one of them. Didn't mean no disrespect. CAN WE SQUASH THIS NOW? COME OUT I'LL BUY U A DRINK. Does it make u feel better degrading me? Fuck it then. are u scorned? And I'm not tryn to talk shit but i truley want to know. I'm coming at u as a woman;not ghetto trash. I'm apologizing to as a grown-woman;not as a ghetto actress. I'm apologizing to EVERYONE who felt disrespect by my posts! I don't know what else u want from me. I'm not tryn to argue with you anymore; or with anyone else.. But, u truley must be scorned,vindictive, angry towards me to find my myspace page and post it here. It is what it is. U WIN OK? Cuz i really don't know what else or what u want from me.
yup thats me

Oroville, CA

#409 Feb 6, 2009
SarahMoon wrote:
<quoted text>
Mmm...Pam...you're made of good stuff. It would have been easy to blow all of this off and ignore it but you stood up and took credit/ discredit for what you've said here. That takes a lot of guts which most people don't have these days. You've earned some respect here, Missy. Be proud of yourself.
Thank you. Every single post was out of anger. People are entitled to their opinion about josh;i know people dislike him for their reasons. The comments still hurt. And i reacted childishly. I know better now not to get so wrapped-up in emotions. But, thank you.

“To each his own...”

Since: Oct 07

Fair Oaks

#410 Feb 6, 2009
yup thats me wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you. Every single post was out of anger. People are entitled to their opinion about josh;i know people dislike him for their reasons. The comments still hurt. And i reacted childishly. I know better now not to get so wrapped-up in emotions. But, thank you.
I don't know who the person is that keeps posting, but I wouldn't even bother replying to them anymore. Clearly, they have no problem spending their days slandering a man who isn't here to defend himself, picking fights with his friends and family members--it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see the writing on THAT wall. Jealousy is a powerful emotion.

Some people just have no class.

Make no further apologies, don't feel that you need to explain your life, or the decisions you have made to some nameless, cowardly hypocrite on the internet. The people that matter on this earth already know what they need to know, and those that don't--well they are on the internet hiding behind fake monikers for a reason.

Best to you, Pam.

:)

“What goes around comes around”

Since: Feb 08

Location hidden

#411 Feb 6, 2009
yup thats me wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you. Every single post was out of anger. People are entitled to their opinion about josh;i know people dislike him for their reasons. The comments still hurt. And i reacted childishly. I know better now not to get so wrapped-up in emotions. But, thank you.
You're welcome. It's difficult not to get wrapped up in emotion when you've lost someone that you care about. It's a normal human trait. AP is right. Let it go. Have a good weekend!
yup thats me

Oroville, CA

#412 Feb 7, 2009
Pam the ghetto actress wrote:
Actors profile... Classy ghetto trash
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...
look. I have no enemies. EVERYONE that has been in my life are still in my life. If ANYONE EVER had an issue with me, they would have got in-touch with me. I've been seeing the same man off and on for the last 5yrs and there's no drama in that. THE ONLY DRAMA I'VE HAD IN THE LAST 12 YEARS OF MY LIFE IS WITH A CERTAIN PERSON: CUZ I WAS FRIENDS WITH JOSH KALB(YOU KNOW WHO U ARE). There is nobody else out there that I had "issues" with besides u. And I'm not going to put u out there like that and start talkn shit about the things that u used to do cuz you were pissed. Or the things that i've heard. I'm not going to start talkin shit over topix. That's not how i get down. If you have an issue with me, get at me on myspace since u've been to my page. Let's solve it! Cuz there is no reason for us to have drama;no reason! Just cuz i was cool with josh u want to hate me? I apologized to u over and over and u still just want to keep going. Let's move on from this cuz i didn't do anything to u to have so much hostility towards me. Like i said before, if u want to address sumthing, come out and i'll buy u a drink. But i didn't do anything to u for all this to go down. I've been in contact with everyone that has been in my life for the last 8yrs; and there's no drama between us. let's end this.
an old friend

Los Angeles, CA

#414 Feb 9, 2009
To Ode To Joshy

You have no hart,no morals, no soul, cause if you did you wouldn't be saying that. His Mom,sisters,kids, and the people who loved him and still do love him are going to read this! They are going to be hart broken to what you said. The family and friends of Josh have hurt plenty, why do you have to say things about him 9 months after he was taken, You have no right. God will judge you for having a ugly hart and that is the the greatest sin of all. You know I haven't seen or talk to Josh in about 13 years and so I don't know who he was as a man but I do know what kind of person he was then, He was always good to me. Who ever you are I hope you get what you deserve. I know Josh didn't and what happend in that car... Well it should have been you.
Ode To Joshy

Stockton, CA

#415 Feb 9, 2009
It's obvious you don't know sh!t and are a school dropout that never learned to spell. He went the way more drug dealers should go, capped by a friend.
an old friend

Los Angeles, CA

#416 Feb 9, 2009
I will not play the game you want to play. It's wrong to hurt the family more than they have already been hurt.
a concerned friend

Roseville, CA

#417 Feb 9, 2009
Give it up!! This is supposed to be a forum where we can all mourn Josh - not trash talk to people who don't even know each other - I'm sure his mom has had enough of reading all of this BS too ... grow up - none of this is about YOU!!! It's about Josh - show some respect for yourself and his family.

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